Hi..new to this site

[Mshotmess]

Hi, ok so I'm very new to this site , I have previously posted on wife lovers ..so here is my .... problem.

I'm 43F and have always been very sexual that it cost me my 1st marriage , I hate cheating but I was a serial cheater and it caught up with me and destroyed everything ... deservedly so especially as my hubs then was nothing short of perfect to me and did not deserve the hurt I brought .

Jump to my 2nd marriage , it's going well ..yeh just well ..and it hurts to say that , I will not cheat ...despite wanting to , we have a good sex life but it's not " spicy " enough for me , we do alot of roleplay and talking but once the sex is done he always makes a point of saying it's just fantasy , I don't want it to be ...I want that cucklife or Hotwife or just good old slut thing we act out and the 3 times I have brought it up for real it caused huge argument , I thought once it was going to happen as I flirted heavily with a guy at a wedding , to the point my hubs got so turned on we snook out and did it in the car where he ate me as I told him what I wanted this other guy to do...I even said after this I'm going to let him take me to his room and fuck me anyway he wants , pointing out while my hubs is downstairs in hotel bar I'll be upstaures with me legs spread wide begging for this guy to fuck me ...my hubs got super hard and we switched and I sucked him off telling him it's really gonna happen as I want the other guy , hubs asked if I was thinking about the guy while sucking my hubs cock...I said yes ..I wanted the other guy more ...hubby loved it and shot down my throat ...we rested , cleaned up and the boom ...hubby got shitty saying he doesn't want this guy near me or dancing with me anymore ....3 days of arguments it caused lol .
So I just don't know what the answer is to get hubs into ...well...anything involving others .

 

[getwifetopplay]

I would be pissed if you were my wife and brought it up that way. What's in it for him but bullshit he has to put up with. For this to work it has to be something both people want.

For me I like the Idea of guys fucking my wife but I don't want be treated like crap either. Some guys like it but most don't.

You really have a few options go out and fuck him until her can't take it anymore. At some point it is a relief that your wife can get satisfied but is still will be willing and ready when you are and will fuck him anytime he wants to.

Go out and find a couple with the focus on what he wants. Take one for the team if you have to and let him enjoy another women. It's pretty painful to be left out. This why even guys who like be stepped on want to be in the same room.

It's also possible he just doesn't like the idea and not into seeing you with anyone else. Maybe you need to slow down and warm him up to it.

 

[Fitznicely]

Try having a threesome maybe? He's clearly turned on by the idea of you fucking other guys but it's too painful for his ego to have you just go away and do it with someone else while he isn't involved. Once you've done MMF threeway he'll either be more open and you consider the next move or he won't and you don't.

 

[Mshotmess]

I would be pissed if you were my wife and brought it up that way. What's in it for him but bullshit he has to put up with. For this to work it has to be something both people want.

For me I like the Idea of guys fucking my wife but I don't want be treated like crap either. Some guys like it but most don't.

You really have a few options go out and fuck him until her can't take it anymore. At some point it is a relief that your wife can get satisfied but is still will be willing and ready when you are and will fuck him anytime he wants to.

Go out and find a couple with the focus on what he wants. Take one for the team if you have to and let him enjoy another women. It's pretty painful to be left out. This why even guys who like be stepped on want to be in the same room.

It's also possible he just doesn't like the idea and not into seeing you with anyone else. Maybe you need to slow down and warm him up to it.

And I'm glad you are not my husband as you seem a fragile and hostile dick in that reply , I want opinions from open people , not judgemental dicks like you , from my very limited post you say it's all me when he is the one who brings it up 1st , I haven't even mentioned other things we have discussed like 3somes as I hope for someone with slight intelligence to start a grown up conversation .
now I'm not wasting my time with people like you but you just go ahead and have your predictable little hissy fit come back that fragile men like you always do ...I'll be sure to ignore it .😀

 

[getwifetopplay]

And I'm glad you are not my husband as you seem a fragile and hostile dick in that reply , I want opinions from open people , not judgemental dicks like you , from my very limited post you say it's all me when he is the one who brings it up 1st , I haven't even mentioned other things we have discussed like 3somes as I hope for someone with slight intelligence to start a grown up conversation .
now I'm not wasting my time with people like you but you just go ahead and have your predictable little hissy fit come back that fragile men like you always do ...I'll be sure to ignore it .😀

The problem is in your approach. Your husband was obviously upset about you talking about fucking another guy. You wouldn't had an argument for 3 days if you had talk about it this prior to that night and he agreed to this.

This stuff only works if everyone is on board. How would you feel if you husband walked into a room and started picking up every women he thought he could screw and you supposed to sit in another room and wait for him after he is done.

If you truly want to do this and stay married talk to him and slowly bring him on board. Don't be so selfish and include him on this. If not he will divorce you ass like he should.

 

[Ironmike]

Hi, ok so I'm very new to this site , I have previously posted on wife lovers ..so here is my .... problem.

I'm 43F and have always been very sexual that it cost me my 1st marriage , I hate cheating but I was a serial cheater and it caught up with me and destroyed everything ... deservedly so especially as my hubs then was nothing short of perfect to me and did not deserve the hurt I brought .

Jump to my 2nd marriage , it's going well ..yeh just well ..and it hurts to say that , I will not cheat ...despite wanting to , we have a good sex life but it's not " spicy " enough for me , we do alot of roleplay and talking but once the sex is done he always makes a point of saying it's just fantasy , I don't want it to be ...I want that cucklife or Hotwife or just good old slut thing we act out and the 3 times I have brought it up for real it caused huge argument , I thought once it was going to happen as I flirted heavily with a guy at a wedding , to the point my hubs got so turned on we snook out and did it in the car where he ate me as I told him what I wanted this other guy to do...I even said after this I'm going to let him take me to his room and fuck me anyway he wants , pointing out while my hubs is downstairs in hotel bar I'll be upstaures with me legs spread wide begging for this guy to fuck me ...my hubs got super hard and we switched and I sucked him off telling him it's really gonna happen as I want the other guy , hubs asked if I was thinking about the guy while sucking my hubs cock...I said yes ..I wanted the other guy more ...hubby loved it and shot down my throat ...we rested , cleaned up and the boom ...hubby got shitty saying he doesn't want this guy near me or dancing with me anymore ....3 days of arguments it caused lol .
So I just don't know what the answer is to get hubs into ...well...anything involving others .

Wish my gf wanted to do it

 

[Fl2play]

Try a lifestyle club, let him see that it can be acceptable and retain his dignity... let him warm up to the idea Slowly..It will work!!

 

[Bowlerlb]

I agree. Try a swingers club maybe or a lifestyle club. You may also find some helpful info on some cuckold sites like :

Cuckold.info: Advice Blog | Guides for wifesharer, cuckold & hotwife

In this erotic blog, we have gathered stories, guides and exciting information for the Hotwife and her Cuckold, Wifesharer or Bull.

en.cuckold.info

Lots of info about how to get partners involved and what to do to keep them involved.

 

[jk19237]

Hi, ok so I'm very new to this site , I have previously posted on wife lovers ..so here is my .... problem.

I'm 43F and have always been very sexual that it cost me my 1st marriage , I hate cheating but I was a serial cheater and it caught up with me and destroyed everything ... deservedly so especially as my hubs then was nothing short of perfect to me and did not deserve the hurt I brought .

Jump to my 2nd marriage , it's going well ..yeh just well ..and it hurts to say that , I will not cheat ...despite wanting to , we have a good sex life but it's not " spicy " enough for me , we do alot of roleplay and talking but once the sex is done he always makes a point of saying it's just fantasy , I don't want it to be ...I want that cucklife or Hotwife or just good old slut thing we act out and the 3 times I have brought it up for real it caused huge argument , I thought once it was going to happen as I flirted heavily with a guy at a wedding , to the point my hubs got so turned on we snook out and did it in the car where he ate me as I told him what I wanted this other guy to do...I even said after this I'm going to let him take me to his room and fuck me anyway he wants , pointing out while my hubs is downstairs in hotel bar I'll be upstaures with me legs spread wide begging for this guy to fuck me ...my hubs got super hard and we switched and I sucked him off telling him it's really gonna happen as I want the other guy , hubs asked if I was thinking about the guy while sucking my hubs cock...I said yes ..I wanted the other guy more ...hubby loved it and shot down my throat ...we rested , cleaned up and the boom ...hubby got shitty saying he doesn't want this guy near me or dancing with me anymore ....3 days of arguments it caused lol .
So I just don't know what the answer is to get hubs into ...well...anything involving others .

Wow you are amazing
Hope your hubby comes around

 

[robbiewillsucku]

How to turn hubby into a sub sissy-fem cd bimale cuckold in six weeks - 2024.

Ladies - you should have lots of lovers. You should be able to fuck any cock you want at any time you want then ride hubby face while you share the details. You want a better husband then turn your hubby into a submissive sissy-fem crossdresser bimale cuckold that craves pleasing you. Here is a plan to make this happen:

(1) When you ride his cock - put your finger in his mouth and tell him to suck - soon you will be telling him to suck your finger like a cock. You need to plan to suck his cock 4 to 7 times a week for 6 weeks. Suck his cock and finger his ass (have lube ready) - tell him if he want his cock to be sucked then expect to be fingered. After you suck him off be sure to give him a snowball kiss each time.

Every night - tell him to go get ready cause you want to suck his cock. He will have his cock and balls and ass nice and clean and his ass lubed. Then suck his cock while you finger his ass - talk smut to him - on your ass opens like a pussy - from now-on your ass will be a sissy-pussy. Then always talk about his sissy-pussy.

Make him admit that he likes you sucking his cock while you finger his sissy-pussy. Second week you can reach up and play with his tits while you suck his cock and tell him you are going to suck his tits like you suck a cock. Bounce your head on his tit when you suck his tit. Soon you will be telling him to suck your tit like a cock - make him fantasize about sucking your tit like a cock - then sucking a cock cause you told him to suck a cock.

Every night you suck his cock and finger his sissy-pussy - very soon you can tell his body will submit to you and his sissy-pussy will open for you - craving you to finger him like a pussy.

(2) snowball kisses: when you suck off his cock and you have cum in your mouth then kiss him and share some cum with him. Tell him if he likes his cock sucked then he better get used to tasting cum. Good training for him to get where he will take cum from you. Someday you may be sucking a cock in front of him and then share a snowball kiss. Good fantasy to make him think about you sucking a cock in front of him - soon he will be sucking a cock with you.

(3) After a week of you sucking his cock while you finger his sissy-pussy - his body will be craving you. Craving you to suck his cock and finger his sissy-pussy. His sissy-pussy will be responding like a pussy. Open for you - pushing himself to your finger - second week add more lube and add more fingers. Talk smut to him always. Oh you like a second finger in your sissy-pussy. Then add a third finger. Do you want me to use a dildo on your sissy-pussy - make him ask for it. Someday I am going to invite a man here with a big cock and have him fuck your sissy-pussy while I watch. He will agree to anything while you are sucking his cock with three fingers in his sissy-pussy. Yes you can use a toy on him on the third week but make him ask for it.

(4) While you suck his tits - make him talk to you - make him ask you to keep sucking his tits - males will do anything while you are stroking his cock and sucking his cock. I am going to suck your tits and make your tits larger - are you ok with this - just in three weeks your tits are alot larger now. Soon you will be wearing a bra to bed. Fourth week you know you control him - you can use breast pump or use a standard cock pump. Take the rubber off and put the hard plastic tub on his tits and pump up. You can do this on your tits also. You have to keep fingering his sissy-pussy everynight or if you want tease him that are not going to suck his cock tonight if he has not be a good gurl.

(5) By now you know you can control him and he will do most anything you say. Just tell him you laid out clothes on the bed for him to wear - panties bra sundress and 2in heels - need to be wide not to hurt his toes. That you expect him to wear a nitie to bed every night and panties. include bra if you wish. Time to do some make up also. You do like me sucking your cock every night - say it back to me - good gurl.

(6) you keep sucking his cock and fingering his sissy-pussy - soon you will be fucking him with a toy then a larger toy. Oh they have the very thin toys that pump up so it does not hurt at all - then go to be bigger toy. Tell him time to go shopping for a strapon cock cause you want to fuck him like a woman and you want him to feel like a woman being fucked.

(7) his sissy-pussy will respond like a pussy now - give him just a little more than he can handle then let him adjust to the size then push it in a little deeper - do that over and over to make him take more and more toy cock. Then go to a larger toy - make him ask for a larger toy - make him say yes he needs more cock. When you fuck him with a strapon - do you want him to enjoy it or do you want to make him hurt alittle?

(8) a pussy or a sissy-pussy can handle a bigger toy cock then a real cock or a strapon cock - when you are pushing against his body and pushing your strapon cock into his sissy-pussy --- it feels so real and so exciting and so wonderful.

Never just start with a strapon cock - like a woman - always work up to it. After you have fucked him about 30 times then you can tell him -- someday I am going to just bend you over - put some lube on your sissy-pussy and fuck you - make you take my strapon cock and more than you can handle without getting you loosen up -- you want that - make him say it back to you.

(9) it is exciting to think of hubby wearing a bra and panties and sundress and 2in heels to do the housework.

After six weeks of sucking his cock and fingering his sissy-pussy every night -- you will have him so hooked and willing to do anything you want. You can say - get naked and on your knees and lick my pussy till I cum and he will do it.

Let him know you want him to ask and beg to be fingered more and more and to be fucked more and more with a toy. That you want him to ask to be fucked by you with a strapon cock.

Remind him that he agreed to do anything you wanted to him and you promised him more and more sex and that his cock would be happier if he says yes to everything you want.

(10) Once you make him suck a cock and be fucked by a cock - he will want more and more cock but you need to push him to do it more and more --- he will not feel like he can ask for it like he can with you using a toy on him.

Make him feel safe and loved and make him ask for more cock - make him say that he likes sucking cocks and that he likes being fucked like a woman. That he likes cum in his mouth and in his sissy-pussy.

Do you want him to suck cocks for you and take cocks in his sissy-pussy??? Do you want to be able to fuck any cock you want 1on1 or 3way? Then have hubby lick your pussy clean while you share the details with him.

The key wording now is - hubby you understand you need to follow my orders to get your cock sucked.

I am Robbie in Norman, Oklahoma - I have photos on my profile page on fetlife - email me your past sex and kinky fantasies to robbiewillsucku at gm ail -- I also chat on google-chat.

 

[toolman2c]

Try a lifestyle club, let him see that it can be acceptable and retain his dignity... let him warm up to the idea Slowly..It will work!!

Good advice..

 

[coastalkid]

Hi, ok so I'm very new to this site , I have previously posted on wife lovers ..so here is my .... problem.

I'm 43F and have always been very sexual that it cost me my 1st marriage , I hate cheating but I was a serial cheater and it caught up with me and destroyed everything ... deservedly so especially as my hubs then was nothing short of perfect to me and did not deserve the hurt I brought .

Jump to my 2nd marriage , it's going well ..yeh just well ..and it hurts to say that , I will not cheat ...despite wanting to , we have a good sex life but it's not " spicy " enough for me , we do alot of roleplay and talking but once the sex is done he always makes a point of saying it's just fantasy , I don't want it to be ...I want that cucklife or Hotwife or just good old slut thing we act out and the 3 times I have brought it up for real it caused huge argument , I thought once it was going to happen as I flirted heavily with a guy at a wedding , to the point my hubs got so turned on we snook out and did it in the car where he ate me as I told him what I wanted this other guy to do...I even said after this I'm going to let him take me to his room and fuck me anyway he wants , pointing out while my hubs is downstairs in hotel bar I'll be upstaures with me legs spread wide begging for this guy to fuck me ...my hubs got super hard and we switched and I sucked him off telling him it's really gonna happen as I want the other guy , hubs asked if I was thinking about the guy while sucking my hubs cock...I said yes ..I wanted the other guy more ...hubby loved it and shot down my throat ...we rested , cleaned up and the boom ...hubby got shitty saying he doesn't want this guy near me or dancing with me anymore ....3 days of arguments it caused lol .
So I just don't know what the answer is to get hubs into ...well...anything involving others .

You've only posted twice and it's been a while. Some of the responses have been blunt. Hopefully you've had a chance to gather yourself.

I'm sure you learned things from your first marriage that you have said you don't want to repeat in the second marriage. You crave that "spicy-ness" and I totally get that because I do too! Your situation is simply the same as a wannabe hot wife husband. If you really want it as bad as you do then you're going to have to do some work. Just like the wannabe husband would have to do, you're going to have to convince him that he wants it.

Just like the wannabe husband you won't be able to push things too hard or too fast. You may have to make concessions, or adhere to rules, or certain restrictions. Those are all things a hot wife/cuckold husband typically has to do to convince their wives.

You might consider finding out what your husband's greatest fantasy is and concentrate on engaging him in conversation about it. If he knows he's getting something out of it, something as spectacular as your experience, he'll have less to be resistant about. If it looks like it will only be a minor improvement for him and a great improvement for you there's a good possibility that reluctance, resentment, and remorse could take hold. I'm sure he's focused on the risk.

 

[robbiewillsucku]

tease him more - want your man to submit and beg you to suck and fuck any cock you ???? then start sucking his cock and finger his ass soon to be his sissy-pussy. add more lube - tell him that you are going to finger his sissy-pussy every time you suck his cock - do you want me to suck your cock??? then finger him more and more. Start sucking his cock three time a week - soon his sissy-pussy will crave it and open like a pussy. Then talk about him licking your pussy clean every time you let him fuck your pussy. Soon tell him to fantasize that you fucked a cock early in the day and he is licking X cum from your pussy.