I'm no longer the size used to be. I'm now 5" - 5 1/2" at best, younger maybe 6 - 6 1/2". What I considered small, porn had us all fooled as to what is small, average and large. My 1st wife had no clue as I was her 2nd partner. My 2nd (current wife) had plenty of clues as she had hundreds of men before we met. Occasionally she'd say how big I was and she wasn't sure she could accommodate me, that she doesn't like big cocks, but always succeeded. I never believed her, always told myself she was sparing my feelings. Then we went to a sex club, guess what? I really wasn't small, I was average.
Now she's a hotwife and putting things in perspective (LOL) she was truthful as I've seen her refuse entry to guys that she considers too big (long).
Bottom line for me:
1 - I was average at 6"
2 - most guys are average at 6"
3 - even today at a shrunken state I'm almost average
4 - not all women like big dicks
One last thought and I know it sounds like the adage. She doesn't really talk about her sexual past (so much lost fuel) but she did tell me about one guy who'd fuck her on his boat in Sheepshead Bay (Brooklyn, NY) he was small, maybe 4" (she showed me spreading her fingers) but he'd get into the rocking of the boat and in a position that hit all her spots, so at what was maybe 4" she considered him one of her best partners.