Wife enjoys her lover more than expected

99% of the guys here expereince this. They THINK they are getting involved either to be able to get more pussy themselves by allowing their wife to have other guys, or they honestly believe they can find cocks to suck by offering up their wifes pussy!!!
Some honestly want to see their wife with another guy, but think that they have an on/off switch so that when their little peepee's squirt or dribble, they hit the off button and it's over.........LOLLOLLOL!!!
Women don't work this way guys, and they can go a LOT longer than we can sexually, especially with a willing and able partner. BIG problems ahead when you think you can control her response to this lifestyle!!

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Whatever the motivation hubby has, his ability to control the "events" is diminished once the wife has found she enjoys fucking her lover and is having regular orgasms with him or develops feelings for him. Whether by design or involuntary, by definition a cuckold isn't controlling his wife's actions with her lovers. "control" is the fulcrum this whole thing spins around. And its not just controling the sex, - your time together and with others is going to be impacted as will your relationship at some point. A husband who needs to dominate or control his wife just isn't going to find much happiness being cuckolded. I'm not sure the guys who say they want their wives to cuckold them really understand what they are asking for. Especially the guys who insist on setting all sorts of rules for the wife to follow. If you don't have enough confidence in your wife and yourself to just let your wife guide the fun, you may not be ready to be a cuckolded husband. Try out a few mfm threesomes first and see how you both feel about it.
 
I've put in bold how it's been for us. We do this with the same guy. We started out slow and worked up to getting comfy with this.
We are pretty conservative, wife especially so. It's not cuckold for us, we both have sex with her, always all three of us together, they never get together without me.
Wife won't really talk about it with me, she says sex with him is different not better.
WHILE he's with us it's VERY obvious she likes the sex they have. She's constantly saying how good it feels when he's doing her. She moans a LOT with her eyes closed. We take turns doing her and it's a way different view watching but the way she moves with him tells me she loves it.
I get jealous feelings seeing how turned on she gets with him but it's all good.
We don't use rubbers when he's with us, we both usually cum inside her. We don't play with the sperm, she wipes off between rounds(usually) but the mess is part of the sexy fun.
After he's been with us she's horny as fuck for days after so we have a lot of very good sex.
We aren't swingers, none of our friends know we do anything like this.
Our fun with him has improved our sex life like crazy.
Good for you!
 
After a long time talking my wife into getting a lover, just over a year ago she had her first experience. We have gone slow, always with the same guy, and over time she has got to really enjoy his visits, wanting to meet more often and letting him go bare inside her. Ive let her drive the relationship with him not providing any limits. When chatting about his visits, she says how good he feels and how amazing their sex feels. I love that she is enjoying their time together but im surprised how much she enjoys and craves it. Any others have the same experience where she enjoys it more than expected?
I certainly did when we met a guy at a strip club, had a few shots and invited him home with us. Wow my wife surprised me with how bold she could be that whole night!
 

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When we first started this lifestyle, it was my hubbies idea and it took him over a year to finally convince me to try it. I told him to understand I was only doing it for him. And that was a true statement. He would find guys on AFF that he knew I would like and start a conversation with them. If it seemed liked it would work out we would set up a meeting place and take it from there.
Later down the road, I myself started to get on the AFF site and find the men myself. Some I would meet with my hubby. And some I would meet with alone and would be bringing them to my house to fuck while my hubby was working. He was a truck driver at the time and could be away for a couple of weeks.
It was then that I came to the realization that I was no longer doing this just for my hubby. I was doing it for myself. I was fucking other men and I was loving it. I quickly built up a small group of men that would stop over for when ever I or them, needed a good fuck. For quite a while, I COULDNT GET ENOUGH! The sex was just sooo much better with these men than it was with my hubby that I couldn't stop. And yes hubby knew about them. He just didn't always get to meet them or watch.
Good wife!
 
Whatever the motivation hubby has, his ability to control the "events" is diminished once the wife has found she enjoys fucking her lover and is having regular orgasms with him or develops feelings for him. Whether by design or involuntary, by definition a cuckold isn't controlling his wife's actions with her lovers. "control" is the fulcrum this whole thing spins around. And its not just controling the sex, - your time together and with others is going to be impacted as will your relationship at some point. A husband who needs to dominate or control his wife just isn't going to find much happiness being cuckolded. I'm not sure the guys who say they want their wives to cuckold them really understand what they are asking for. Especially the guys who insist on setting all sorts of rules for the wife to follow. If you don't have enough confidence in your wife and yourself to just let your wife guide the fun, you may not be ready to be a cuckolded husband. Try out a few mfm threesomes first and see how you both feel about it.


Well said
 
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