I agree too. In the first two years of our marriage, she wanted to be a “good wife” and tried her best to compromise with my small dick. Years later already being in the lifestyle she admitted every single time we fucked she waited until I fell asleep and she sneaked out to fuck herself with her dildo. After we got into this lifestyle for about a year she still let me to fuck her after which she either played with her dildo or went to her lover. 2,5 yrs ago she said no point in me fucking her so been pussy free ever since...