It's so sad to hear when a lady is miss treated by a guy, I really hope she has a full and speedy recovery and you both enjoy and share a great life together.
Thanks! Yeah that's also a bit of why she's hesitant in playing with randoms or spontaneous hook ups because she doesn't know if the guy will be super hung or not. She's well aware that not all men are terrible people but the slightest discomfort about it can trigger her unfortunately. So this makes random playtime a little tricky to accomplish. All of her playdates are vetted through me for now for added peace of mind for her.