Although we consider ourselves in the category of “swingers”. For the most part, we have stuck mainly to MF/M experiences, which has been by choice partly because the wife likes to have sex with other men and partly because I get off sharing her. But that is only a couple of the many reasons. If you can handle it, nothing is a greater turn-on than seeing another man have his way with your wife. I will not deny how much pleasure I get from knowing she has had sex with other people, especially men. The way I feel knowing my wife has been with other men is hard to explain. Once I got past my insecurities, it allowed me to really think about what is happening, enjoy the moments, and realize how special our relationship is. As her husband, I know what her mouth feels like around their cock, the feel of her pussy when they are fucking her, and how tight and wet she gets. I get hot trying to imagine what is going through their minds and what her body feels like to them. Because it is my wife, it is exciting watching them pound her pussy. Hearing their skin slapping together, or listening to her moan and then scream as she cums on their cocks. Also, hearing their moans as they fuck her, or as she sucks on them. It is turn on when they get vocal from her attention as they cum in her mouth or deep in her pussy. Visually is a big part of the excitement too. Whether it is seeing the look of euphoria on her face, or theirs. Watching another man’s slick cock disappear in and out of the wife’s pussy, and becoming dripping wet with cum running out of her gaping hole. Watch her ass ripple as another man pounds her from behind. Watch as she runs her hands down his back to his ass, and then grabs his cheeks pulling him in deeper to her pussy. Seeing her ankles on another man’s shoulders as he fucks the ...... out of her. Watch as they kiss deeply while fucking. Seeing her with her legs spread wide as they pound her pussy for all its worth before exploding deep inside her. Seeing her deep throat and then watching her swallow their big loads, is an awesome site. I also enjoy being with the wife after she has been with other men. Smelling the scent of them on her, feeling how hot and swollen her pussy is. The smell of her cock breath and tasting their cum, either on her tongue or in her pussy. As I said, it is hard to explain but sharing the wife has been is extremely erotic and never failed to arouse me. From the first time I saw her holding another man’s cock in her hand, to seeing her squirt from getting fucked so hard she soaked the sheets. Even deeply and passionately kissing another man as he fucks her gives me a special “thrill”. Finally, getting the pleasure of having her after they have. We have heard this called “reclaiming” and for us it is about us returning to each other. This is where the two of us reclaim our relationship.