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Compre un consolador realista, pero no grande. asegúrese de que no huela y no sea demasiado duro. Ponle un nombre. Solo bromear con ella al principio. NO se exceda al principio. Sumerjo el consolador favorito de mi esposa en un tazón grande lleno de agua caliente para hacerlo aún más realista. Use lubricante antes de insertarlo en su vagina. Mientras la folla lentamente con él, hable como si el consolador fuera real y su dueño se estuviera follando a su esposa.

Después de ver una película o un programa de televisión o incluso porno, y ustedes dos están haciendo el amor, dile: Si yo fuera [el chico de la película] y esta fuera su polla, ¿qué te haría con ella?

Después de que ella se acostumbre a este tipo de juego de roles suave, use al chico de la tienda o un vecino o un antiguo ex de ella como su sustituto en la fantasía.

El punto es expandir su mente, no su vagina. En primer lugar, debe imaginarse a sí misma en la situación de ser cogida por otra persona antes de poder imaginar que realmente permite que suceda.
Este es el mejor método para como dices primero expandir su mente yo siempre lo he hecho y nunca deja de dar resultado positivo en más o menos tiempo siempre que como dices lo más importante es la mente
 
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I guess I was a bit cunning with my wife,i told her a mutual male friend of ours mentioned how he had always fancied her.
I knew she'd ask if it bothered me, which gave me the opportunity to tell her it was rather naughty imagining her getting it on with him.
Once she knew it didn't offend me or make me jealous, she felt comfortable laughing about it.
Once the topic was turned into a bit of fun, I got around to asking her if she's like to have some fun with him, telling her I wouldn't mind.
It got to the point where them meeting up was arranged, but he bottled it, and regrets it to this day.
It was a shame, but she now knew that I likes the idea of her with another man, I also knew the idea turned her on, so it was my chance to suggest she look around to find a guy she fancied.. The rest as they say is history.

So, just tell the wife a friend of yours thinks she's hot, and wouldn't say no, let her see you like the idea, and leave that thought with her...
 
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I have this desire in my heart to fuck my wife with someone else in front of me but I don't have the courage to tell her. I have tried to tell her in gestures. But I can't open it. She watches porn with me. Videos with three people or wife fucking in front of husband have also been seen. But he didn't give any response. Need advice as there are many friends in this site who are into this lifestyle. Being Asian, our culture is different from other countries.
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As above I requested you guys for guidance. Now I want to add the latest situation and look forward to hear from all of you.
I went somewhere else for a few days away from home. I also kept in touch with my wife, and sent her pictures and videos of other men's cocks along with some porn videos without saying much to her.
After that she said what is your purpose you are going away and sending such content now that I am hot and horney.
I didn't say anything special except that I sent her same cock again and again. It was big and beautiful too.
When I came home after a few days, at night she joked that what was your purpose in sending me such material.
I said that my aim was for you to masturbate and have fun.
She laughed, and after a while said, "What if I really did that?"
I didn't expect her to say or do that۔
But when I heard she said that if I really did that, (she meant masturbating).Hearing this I was turned on and quite happy too.

I became uncontrollable and replied that if you have done that, it is a very warm feeling for me.And kissed her lips and breasts.
Then asked which videos forced you to masturbate, she said the one video of man fucking woman a porn video.
While fucking I tell her I like the way u did it I love you so much.
Then I insert my cock while stoking and talking her about wat and how she did masturbation.
We were so hot and horney.
Then I ask her wat about the video In which a single man was playing with his big and beautiful cock.

Without giving me any answer, she moaning loudly and said let's make cum and we both did the cum together.

Now the question is what and which video imagination she masturbate.

Man fucking woman or man playing cock video

It is quite difficult to describe in words but I tried my best to share it with you guys.

More guidance from experienced people is required
 
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As above I requested you guys for guidance. Now I want to add the latest situation and look forward to hear from all of you.
I went somewhere else for a few days away from home. I also kept in touch with my wife, and sent her pictures and videos of other men's cocks along with some porn videos without saying much to her.
After that she said what is your purpose you are going away and sending such content now that I am hot and horney.
I didn't say anything special except that I sent her same cock again and again. It was big and beautiful too.
When I came home after a few days, at night she joked that what was your purpose in sending me such material.
I said that my aim was for you to masturbate and have fun.
She laughed, and after a while said, "What if I really did that?"
I didn't expect her to say or do that۔
But when I heard she said that if I really did that, (she meant masturbating).Hearing this I was turned on and quite happy too.

I became uncontrollable and replied that if you have done that, it is a very warm feeling for me.And kissed her lips and breasts.
Then asked which videos forced you to masturbate, she said the one video of man fucking woman a porn video.
While fucking I tell her I like the way u did it I love you so much.
Then I insert my cock while stoking and talking her about wat and how she did masturbation.
We were so hot and horney.
Then I ask her wat about the video In which a single man was playing with his big and beautiful cock.

Without giving me any answer, she moaning loudly and said let's make cum and we both did the cum together.

Now the question is what and which video imagination she masturbate.

Man fucking woman or man playing cock video

It is quite difficult to describe in words but I tried my best to share it with you guys.

More guidance from experienced people is required
My best reply to this is to discuss this with her. Communication is so important!
 
I have this desire in my heart to fuck my wife with someone else in front of me but I don't have the courage to tell her. I have tried to tell her in gestures. But I can't open it. She watches porn with me. Videos with three people or wife fucking in front of husband have also been seen. But he didn't give any response. Need advice as there are many friends in this site who are into this lifestyle. Being Asian, our culture is different from other countries.
Dear take her at erotic body massage parlour where man give her full nude body massage for her sexual and tell about your fantasy from him And tell him do fingring between massage in her pussy and lick .so maybe your wife do sex with him when he touch her sexual organ (boobs ,ass,pussy).you can see her .or you can Hire anybody at her birthday or give her surprise for do threesome
 
Dear take her at erotic body massage parlour where man give her full nude body massage for her sexual and tell about your fantasy from him And tell him do fingring between massage in her pussy and lick .so maybe your wife do sex with him when he touch her sexual organ (boobs ,ass,pussy).you can see her .or you can Hire anybody at her birthday or give her surprise for do threesome
Yes you're right thanks I'm thinking too about it once I'm able to do it
 
I guess I was a bit cunning with my wife,i told her a mutual male friend of ours mentioned how he had always fancied her.
I knew she'd ask if it bothered me, which gave me the opportunity to tell her it was rather naughty imagining her getting it on with him.
Once she knew it didn't offend me or make me jealous, she felt comfortable laughing about it.
Once the topic was turned into a bit of fun, I got around to asking her if she's like to have some fun with him, telling her I wouldn't mind.
It got to the point where them meeting up was arranged, but he bottled it, and regrets it to this day.
It was a shame, but she now knew that I likes the idea of her with another man, I also knew the idea turned her on, so it was my chance to suggest she look around to find a guy she fancied.. The rest as they say is history.

So, just tell the wife a friend of yours thinks she's hot, and wouldn't say no, let her see you like the idea, and leave that thought with her...
good advice,,imho
 
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Have you confessed to her your desire for her to have sex with other men? There’s a big difference between exciting talk about big cocks during sex play and really contemplating that big cock hanging off another man who is in bed with you two. You have to transition from one to the other if you aren’t there yet. Please tell us in more detail where you are in the conversation with your wife.
 
Have you confessed to her your desire for her to have sex with other men? There’s a big difference between exciting talk about big cocks during sex play and really contemplating that big cock hanging off another man who is in bed with you two. You have to transition from one to the other if you aren’t there yet. Please tell us in more detail where you are in the conversation with your wife.
Thanks for replying me

I haven't told her directly yet that I want you to fuck with someone else. Obviously this is a difficult task.

I have told her that I get a lot of pleasure when a husband share and watch his wife with someone else (especially a man with a big cock) in a video.

I also send or show her such cuckold videos or pictures of big dick

I tell her that I get a lot of pleasure when you are horny and I see you. Like in the video, a man with a big black cock fucks a fat girl and she is horny, then I think of you.
 
Thanks for replying me

I haven't told her directly yet that I want you to fuck with someone else. Obviously this is a difficult task.

I have told her that I get a lot of pleasure when a husband share and watch his wife with someone else (especially a man with a big cock) in a video.

I also send or show her such cuckold videos or pictures of big dick

I tell her that I get a lot of pleasure when you are horny and I see you. Like in the video, a man with a big black cock fucks a fat girl and she is horny, then I think of you.
I totally get how hard it can be to tell your wife about this fantasy, especially if you’re worried she might react badly. But hey, at least you’re taking the first step by sharing videos and letting her know you enjoy those scenarios. She probably already knows or is curious, right? Since you’re sending her pictures and videos, you can gradually ease into telling her directly by sending her memes. For instance, you could send her a GIF of a man watching his wife with a caption like “Make your husband watch while you fuck other men.” Or one with a woman giving a handjob with a caption like “Wow! You really do like the idea of another guy fucking me, don’t you?” She’ll get the message pretty quickly and probably ask you if that’s what you’d like. Then you don’t have to say anything more than “yes.” But do tell her more. Once that door is open, you can start revealing more of your desires.

Keep asking her questions about the videos you send. Find out all the things she likes and work those into your bedroom tall. Does she have any dildos? If not, you can work towards introducing those into your play. It would be good for you to see her cum hard on a big dildo before you start moving towards bringing in other people. It is better to work through any difficult emotions (your and hers) with a toy first.
 
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I totally get how hard it can be to tell your wife about this fantasy, especially if you’re worried she might react badly. But hey, at least you’re taking the first step by sharing videos and letting her know you enjoy those scenarios. She probably already knows or is curious, right? Since you’re sending her pictures and videos, you can gradually ease into telling her directly by sending her memes. For instance, you could send her a GIF of a man watching his wife with a caption like “Make your husband watch while you fuck other men.” Or one with a woman giving a handjob with a caption like “Wow! You really do like the idea of another guy fucking me, don’t you?” She’ll get the message pretty quickly and probably ask you if that’s what you’d like. Then you don’t have to say anything more than “yes.” But do tell her more. Once that door is open, you can start revealing more of your desires.

Keep asking her questions about the videos you send. Find out all the things she likes and work those into your bedroom tall. Does she have any dildos? If not, you can work towards introducing those into your play. It would be good for you to see her cum hard on a big dildo before you start moving towards bringing in other people. It is better to work through any difficult emotions (your and hers) with a toy first.
just ask - honey would you play with my cock and share the details of your past sex and fantasies.
 
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Yes I have introduce the dildo and she's willing to use but unfortunately I don't have yet..
Hope soon I will buy
I totally get how hard it can be to tell your wife about this fantasy, especially if you’re worried she might react badly. But hey, at least you’re taking the first step by sharing videos and letting her know you enjoy those scenarios. She probably already knows or is curious, right? Since you’re sending her pictures and videos, you can gradually ease into telling her directly by sending her memes. For instance, you could send her a GIF of a man watching his wife with a caption like “Make your husband watch while you fuck other men.” Or one with a woman giving a handjob with a caption like “Wow! You really do like the idea of another guy fucking me, don’t you?” She’ll get the message pretty quickly and probably ask you if that’s what you’d like. Then you don’t have to say anything more than “yes.” But do tell her more. Once that door is open, you can start revealing more of your desires.

Keep asking her questions about the videos you send. Find out all the things she likes and work those into your bedroom tall. Does she have any dildos? If not, you can work towards introducing those into your play. It would be good for you to see her cum hard on a big dildo before you start moving towards bringing in other people. It is better to work through any difficult emotions (your and hers) with a toy first.
 
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Be careful. Recently in an email exchange with a friend from this site, I recounted a recent conversation I had with a husband who allows and encourages his hotwife to open her legs to any man she wishes—either with him or without him being there—her choice. She loves the arrangement. She always pretends that she has never done anything like this before, but since it is her husband's ultimate fantasy to share her, she is willing to make him happy—just this once. (That was the same trick my first wife used to seduce men or explain why she was willing to be seduced. Most men welcomed the elimination of the otherwise needed emotion overlay and the offer of hassle-free sex.)

His wife has been fucked by close to 15 men since they married a decade ago. (I have seen her, and she is attractive, but chubby, with big breasts in her late 30s.) She usually finds the men, but she has also opened her legs to some of his close male friends. Sounds great, right? Not entirely. She cheats on him.

He knows this because he knows her phone and email passwords. When she showers, he goes hunting. He also has audio proof, as he left a small digital sound recorder hidden in their bedroom, and has listened to the recordings of her being fucked by some other men. This greatly angers and disappoints him, as she has permission to stray, but not to lie to him. If she only told him, he would be happy to let her be fucked by her mystery men. Why? Why?

My answer was that she probably wanted something in addition to sex, such as intrigue and romance. Swinger types are jaded (and emotionally lazy, if not sexually lazy). In contrast, the guys who she was seeing behind his back probably sold the potential sex encounters as love-prompted; if nothing else, they pursued her. Being sneaky is also fun. People love to play the spy. I know that some men take great pleasure in "stealing" sex from other men's wives, as it makes them feel powerful. I used to be friends with a guy who only sought married (or seriously attached) women; he got a thrill from the theft and implied insult to the husband.

This got me to remember my once talking to an ex-husband of a hotwife. He had told his first wife that he was willing—in fact was eager to share her with other men. She unwaveringly declined his offer—then she engaged in a series of secret affairs, one of which was with his brother! Had she been open about them, he would have encouraged her to enjoy them; instead, he felt betrayed and insulted.

I was beginning to spot a trend. While telling another friend these two stories, he told me that he once had a live-in girlfriend, to whom he also granted the option of her being free to be fucked other men—as long as she told him. She was absolutely horrified by his offer, finding the very idea sick and immoral. He saddened by opposition, but took some comfort in the knowledge that she would remain faithful to him. She, too, cheated on him—secretively.

Maybe giving a woman a free pass to have sex with other men creates an urge to cheat, or perhaps it just lessens guilt and the fear of being caught. "He won't mind; in fact, he wants me to cheat on him." In general, people do what they want, and then later find reasons for having done so. Granting the hall pass just adds to the list of possible excuses. In addition, the free gift of the pass might be viewed as a sign of weakness, which just invites insult.

What to do? Perhaps the best path to follow is have her ask for the hall pass. How would that be possible? Just about anything is possible if you are subtle and emotionally attuned. Watch together a sex-heavy TV show, such as Netflix's "Sex Education," then afterwards talk about it. Talk about how odd it must be for the partners and spouses of the actors and actresses, but also how thrilling it must be from them to see their loved ones in sexual situations. Let slip that while you are glad that your wife is not sex actress, you would thrill to see her in an episode of "Sex Education," naked, being fondled, kissed, sexually pleased...