We had the same evolution in our couple. 0 stage: you are not meeting to her sexual standards -1 stage: she cheats on you - 2 stage: you know it and are jealous and angry - 3 stage: you accept it - 4 stage: you get less and less sex from her - 5 stage: you get in chastity - 6 stage: you get pussy free and your sexuality shifts away from your penis (anal stimulation: tasting semen & butt plugs & pegging) - 7 stage: she encourages you to have gay sex (so you do not insist anymore that she. has any kind of sex with you ans so she does not have ant feelings of guilt that she has a lover. I am in the last stage and I like it ! 🙂