I have had a number of affairs with co-workers or people I have met as a result of my profession. Most were shorter 6 month to 1 year affairs that all ended friendly and mostly because their wives were asking them too many questions about working overtime and they got cold feet. During my career I have had affairs with 2 of my 3 Bosses also. I admit to having a :thing" for Bosses.
One lasted 5 years (during my first entire marriage) and was just a casual whenever he was available and wanted me kind of thing. I only recently admitted to hubby #2 that this affair actually continued in to our relationship (he assumed it ended because we were dating and then getting married) and that for the first year of our marriage, I assumed....and kind of HOPED.....that I was pregnant by my Boss and not my new husband. In fact, the reason we both got so ill on our honeymoon was because I had sex with my Boss, who had the flu, the morning of our wedding and we got married with his sperm running down my thighs!! Hubby and I did not have sex at all on our honeymoon because we were both so ill!! The timing of my pregnancy closely coincided with sex with my Boss too, and it was only when my one year old ...... was the twin of my husband at that age that I was sure it was his and not my Boss.
Second Boss/Lover affair lasted a LOT longer and was much more serious and intense!! 11 years total. Like most of my affairs, it started behind hubby's back. It was initially just a "whenever we traveled for business" relationship. We booked separate rooms for looks, but one never got used. After 2 years, my Boss/Lover approached me after work and we both admitted that we wanted MORE than a casual traveling affair, we wanted to be full time any time Lovers. The result of that discussion resulted in us calling our travel agent and booking a 4 day weekend to do "business planning in Cancun (which was not unusual as we did this a lot for actual business planning, but not out of the country). The result of that trip was me coming home to admit my affair to my husband (he suspected) AND to report that there was a VERY good chance I had come home PREGNANT!!
We are both SO turned on over our decision for our affair to progress to the next level that we spent the entire 4 days mostly tipsy and having VERY personal conversations about us, our affair, what we wanted from it, how we saw it progressing, and many of those conversations revolved around birth control (he asssumed I was on it), I explained I could not take it but I used a diaphragm (so THAT is what I feel!!) and that I planned our trips and planned the very well around my least fertile times of the month. They also revolved around "what if you got pregnant" conversations since we would now be together more often. I can personally attest that being in sexy sultry Cancun ......, VERY horny, and talking about sex and possible pregnancies with a Lover is NOT a good idea unless one seriously desires something like that to occur!! LOL
About the third time he asked me "what IF", I worked up the nerve to tell him that IF I got pregnant by him, I would not mind that at all since I thought we would make VERY attractive babies together, and that IF I got pregnant i would simply let my husband think it was his (my husband and my Boss/Lover were often mistaken for brothers at company events) and I would DEFINITELY have our baby!! And, we should probably stop talking about this because we werre ......, horny, AND this trip was unplanned so I was very near my MOST fertile time of the month!! A couple hours later, we barelty made it out of the taxi and to our room before spending the entire night making love over and over and OVER with my dipahragm safely in its case in my suitcase, and me BEGGING him for his baby, and him ASSURING me that was very much his intent! And quite a bit more graphically too!! Hence the admission to hubby about the possible pregnancy....which he took VERY well, with a cum flying EVERYWHERE orgasm while I was sucking and jerking him off and explaining that HE was not going to be having intercourse with me the rest of the month, but Tom DEFINITELY was!! I wanted to be SURE it was Tom's baby if I was pregnant.
Anyway, we now work from home almost 100%, so my "resource" for new affairs has ended sadly, and not really sure how to move ahead with that. But it was a fun run while it lasted, as hubby says.
J (the wife)
Sorry, always gets too long when i write about that...........it was HOT!! We were Lovers for almost 11 years and it only really ended because of COVID and he got really weird during it. Conspiracy theories, magnetic people, wouldn;t get vaccinated, etc. Amazing how stupid people got over that because there was a FAST reaction to it versus decades of deaths and dispair waiting for the usual turn of events for vaccines.