First experience

[stayrosapiastos@gmai]

hi everyone!
New to this and I came across this site.
I had fantasies about seeing or listening my girlfriend fuck someone else since our first month together.
10 days ago I told her after us being together 8 months, and while I am abroad, that if she wants to fuck someone its ok. She met someone 3 days ago. She said she d really want to fuck him and she is having fantasies about him.
Its so turning on for me.
Now she said she will try to meet him Tuesday. I asked for an open pbonecall so I could listen but she said its uncomfortable for her. I asked her to message me few messages letting me know how things are going,when she is about to fuck sick etc. She said its rude to text while with him which makes sense.
I am disappointed though as I feel left out. She said we could call it off ,she does not want to risk our relationship as we are very in love both.
As new I feel I am not handling itwell, I told her its OK at the end. Would you agree to let her be totally private with him?
Just to clarify, I am very dominant in sex and looking rather well so definitely not the cuckold type, stag I d say from what I ve read here...I am 43 and she is 41 and hot as hell.

 

[Travelinman]

Ok, so im a Stag also. On her first 'date' my gf had agreed to some 'rules' as we called them, so that there would be no anger, jealousy or fright on either her or my part.

1- condoms always
2- always answer my txt or my calls, no matter what
3- total honesty at all times
4- allow me on a limited basis to watch her and him on video
5- if EITHER of us gets uncomfortable, the other can call it off

She agreed ti all these, professed her love for me, so I set her up with an 8 day meeting with a guy. First day, if she didnt like him, she could just go home no harm , no foul. If after overnight, she coukd stay for 8 days, as long as we both were comfy with every thing.
She broke the rules 3 minutes after she arrived at his hotel.

I asked her to call, she said she would call later, that they both were hingry and were going to lunch. At that same exact minute, he sends me three photos of her, she is in the process of txting me the previous message. She is wearing only her panties.. and has beard burn in her tits. Now this is literally three minutes from the time that she said they were in his room.So I called her, of course she said they were going to resturant, so I sent her the photos that he aent me. She immediately called.

In five minutes, they were fucking, ( i watched in video chat), and when he put it in her, he had no condom on! I mentioned that to her after, and she said she would make him wear one from then on. After they fucked, she said they were going to shower, so i say ok, love you, etc.

10 min later, he sends ne a photo of her pussy with cum running down it, her tummy covered with cum. I call, and she tells me after they shower, he just oushs her in the bed and fucks her again, again no condom.
Now I tell her, pack up and go home, she says no.

Sorry to be so long. My point is, make ruless, unless you want to be a cuck,women would rather you be a cuck, they want all control.If she breaks the rules, break up with her. I broke up with mine, but took her back.

Good luck, just make ground rules. Read my other posts if you want more insight

 

[stayrosapiastos@gmai]

Travelinman, your post is very helpful. In my case she seems to immediately say let's not do it, I can't be recorded and I also don't want to upset you. So it seems I am the one wanting it more, and tbh I feel if I lose the momentum I don't know when the next chance will be. She met the guy from a friend and she is definitely not into sites adds etc. She says she is happy with me and would only fuck someone that she met socially and thinks he is a 9 or 10. Thought let her have it her way for first time and if all OK maybe I ll watch in the future. It gets me so horny to just cancel.

 

[Travelinman]

I can respect your feelings, believe me, after that first time, I broke up with her, my post 'pinay gf to whore' explains our problems and our journey. It IS A LABOR OF LOVE, as so many say. But I love her so much, so we tried it again. This time I had her fuck my bf that she has known for a year.
We all three met in our room, and she was wearing sexy night gown. Everyone knew that he was there to fuck her. She and I started, then he moved over by her, and i moved to a chair to watch.

You have to do what works for you and her. If its just a SPAM or a one nighter. Well again, trust, love, praise, oh and flowers just before or after go a long way!
Good luck, if you ever need to talk, pm me for my number.