Finding a reliable bull - guy

[Loridan]

I occasionally read a post on here about a couple looking for a guy for sex fun. We're into mfm fun so I certainly understand the kinky excitement.
It seems so simple, whoever contacts who...you agree to meet to see if you click. Guy is a no show. A couple is very open about what they're looking for...another guy to fuck the hell out of the wife while hubby watches and maybe joins in. Absolutely no strings attached, no games, no cheating, no hiding, just sex and probably a LOT of it.

Couples (or men) why is it hard to make this happen?

Our friend is very reliable, when we agree on a visit it happens.

 

[bigron1996]

Maybe they signed up for something they shouldn’t have? Maybe they met someone new and couldn’t go through with it? Maybe they got a bad vibe and were concerned? You never know. It can be solved by communication. Let the couple know you had a change of heart. Flaky guys make it so much harder for everyone.

 

[JMNBABE]

The internet has made every Incel mama's boy living in mama's basement with a computer SUPERSTUD and the amount of time wasted on assholes like this is disheartening for everyone. There are actually a ton of dickheads on here that think a woman is going to travel half way across the United States to meet them. And that "hi, I like pussy and ass, send me some photos" is a real probable way to meet someone. CW

 

[keylife022]

I occasionally read a post on here about a couple looking for a guy for sex fun. We're into mfm fun so I certainly understand the kinky excitement.
It seems so simple, whoever contacts who...you agree to meet to see if you click. Guy is a no show. A couple is very open about what they're looking for...another guy to fuck the hell out of the wife while hubby watches and maybe joins in. Absolutely no strings attached, no games, no cheating, no hiding, just sex and probably a LOT of it.

Couples (or men) why is it hard to make this happen?

Our friend is very reliable, when we agree on a visit it happens.

Have no idea why. I’ve been stood up by three couples here in South Florida. A lot of conversation then no show when we decide to meet

 

[Loridan]

The internet has made every Incel mama's boy living in mama's basement with a computer SUPERSTUD and the amount of time wasted on assholes like this is disheartening for everyone. There are actually a ton of dickheads on here that think a woman is going to travel half way across the United States to meet them. And that "hi, I like pussy and ass, send me some photos" is a real probable way to meet someone. CW

That is a perfect description of 98% of males today

 

[Bowlerlb]

I really dont understand these guys. They have done the work and put in the effort to get to the stage of arranging to meet and then disappear. They dont know what they are missing. Im older now but started meeting couples when I was 45 and did so for the next 25 years. I was involved with one couple for 17 years and have been with about 20 couples in that time. More if you count the one time wives at parties that I didnt have an ongoing relationship with. I enjoyed every session and helped many of those couples develop their cuckold lifestyle from nervous first times to encouraging and developing hubby to become confident at cleanup in front of others and skilled at cock sucking and taking loads direct from my cock. All so much fun.

 

[hotratz]

Last guy we met, off sls, I communicated with him for a while, maybe a couple months. So, we met, things looked good from our perspective, went to his place, small talk, then start to play. Seems like everything I told him about what my wife enjoys, went out the window, and he was in a hurry to "fuck". Well, my wife put a stop to the activitiy right then. A bit frustrating as now she's not wanting to meet 'strangers'.
A shame her/our 2 regular guys have moved or aged out. She really enjoyed their cocks, and I enjoyed the fun too!

 

[Bull4Oldrwives]

My Sergeant at Infantry school never stopped saying "Proper Preparation Prevents Poor Performance". As someone who prefers LTRs where I become her boyfriend, I expect there to be a courtship with the wife. And before that begins I expect ,and want, there to be several meetings with hubby even before I meet the wife. My willingness to put the time in lets them know I am serious and gives me a very good opportunity to know whether it is going to work or not.
This is where the hubby has to be assertive in properly vetting the potential Bull. After all, this is your wife we are talking about and you should hold your wife in sufficient regard to make sure you are finding the right person that you and she can truly discover the 'magic of 3' with. I believe that a serious experienced Bull who understands that the full potential of pleasure, excitement, and romance that can only be realized from LTRs within the triad of this incredible lifestyle will be willing to put the time in. I don't know of any couple who has truly regretted going too slow but I have met quite a few who regretted going too fast.

 

[Hotwifelove]

Mybfirst was my husband's step dad and it was so good

 

[stubbyhubby]

We have found that being VERY up-front with guys about what we are looking for and what their role would or could be helps clarify things so that when a bull is found he stays a regular bull.

It also helps because guys will usually be honest and say they don't want a regular thing, but they still want to fuck her. The lack of strings or expectations makes it easy to avoid any issues and then they feel comfortable enough with how it went to become repeat visitors.

 

[Master DD]

We have found that being VERY up-front with guys about what we are looking for and what their role would or could be helps clarify things so that when a bull is found he stays a regular bull.

It also helps because guys will usually be honest and say they don't want a regular thing, but they still want to fuck her. The lack of strings or expectations makes it easy to avoid any issues and then they feel comfortable enough with how it went to become repeat visitors.

Hi. As you say the main thing is getting everything properly prepared. Speak to the husband on his own, find out what he likes, from his perspective what he does to please her then speak to the wife on her own build up a friendship then start to flirt, compliment g her on her figure etc . If meeting as a Master then the same initially applies but then you start to put your likes/dislikes and what you expect. You start out the same way ie building up a friendship then to build up the trust required. You also tell the husband what you expect from him, I am str so sex is only with the female but you lay down what yoh expect from him. You tell the female what yoh like re her clothes if you want her fully shaved etc. It dosent always work out but those are the basics and if you give your word on something then it will happen

 

[Alwayshard]

Mybfirst was my husband's step dad and it was so goodView attachment 2266452View attachment 2266453View attachment 2266454

Oh my God that's so fucking hot I would love to be your husband