My point of view on the subject is of course different than my premature ejaculating submissive husbands.
First, he is my life partner, inspirational business partner and soulmate on so many levels. He always has my back, is my biggest supporter. He gets satisfaction from enabling my intellectual emotional. and physical development.
But real daily married life is complicated and messy. Even without kids, shared lifelong household and financial commitments are both rewarding and stressful. I knowingly married him as little dicked proven loyal cuck to provide security, stability, and the financial advantages of dual incomes. However we pledged very nontraditional vows creating our Femdom Lifestyle allowing my unfettered sexual and emotionally freedom. We both knew, as did his first wife, on a sexual level he could never provide what I needed. No single man could.
My Lovers vary with my moods and needs, providing the romance, travel and great sexual experiences that make Life an exciting and rewarding pleasure. It really can be a perpetual full "girlfriend" experience if they don't fuck it up. I do sexual things with them that I would never do with my cuck who is bonded to me by our contract backed by our integrity so I don't feel pressure to please him in that way. Do I love him? Of course.
Have I fallen into romantic love with other men? Yes of course how could I not? I wouldn't be with them if i didn't feel that chemistry between us. Sex in long term romantic relationships, unhindered by daily life, is greatly enhanced by regular coupling, insemination, sexual sharing and erotic compromises that expand boundaries keeping it fresh. That's why they are my Lovers and why I try extra hard to make their fantasy sex life as great as they make mine.
Do I fuck for sport and to explore my kinky physical and intellectual interest? Yes. That's why I enjoy sex with Dominate Bulls and let them share me with their friends and arrange gangbang for me. I admire the sexual power they have over me that I don't give up to other men. I respect their experience and judgment, relaxing and allowing them to take control and put me up on my multi-orgasmic subspace plateau where ever touch can set off another wave of orgasms until I beg for them to cum inside me so their semen can imparted its calming sense of well being
I hate labels so I am all of the above but so much more than just the sex angel so many men think of me as. I'm more than content to continue writing and rewriting the script of my life openly, fee of directors and edits. Owning no debts or favors.