Same here. No anal for me ever, but regularly for her lover. No blowjobs for me ever, only handjobs and when I cum it has to go in a paper towel and straight in the trash. Her lover gets blowjobs to completion, she loves his cum and rubs it all over her body. With mine she is disgusted when she even gets a little on her hand and she even calls it gross.
The few times we do have intercourse, I have to wear a condom, because she does not like my cum in her. Afterwards I have to handle the condom and dispose of it. Her lover gets to fuck her bareback every time.