My ex worked retail and was recognized by a customer. He showed her the pics he had of her. He said he wouldn't cause her any trouble at work but we were worried. He was there one day when I happened to be close by and I went and had a talk with him. He wasn't a bad guy, good sized dick but didn't last long, ended up being a good lunch break play toy for her. My current wife was recognized by a close family member, not sure if this is the place for that discussion though.