Does this mean anything?

[DinerDown]

I have been into cuckolding as a fantasy for a while but have never discussed it with my wife. She is aware of what cuckolding is but it hasn’t come up at all in our sex life. We have been getting a bit more adventurous in our overall sex life though. I recently bought a dildo to use, it is bigger than me and it is black. We picked it out together and she was ok with it.

Well we played together and used the dildo and she made a request that kind of surprised me. She had me get on my knees and lick her clit while I fucked her with the bbc dildo. She had an incredible orgasm and it was so hot.

Does this mean anything? Should I be thinking she has some of her own dirty fantasies that she hasn’t shared?

Or am I just overthinking it all?

 

[Ray Dachamp]

Ya think???

 

[jusme]

She has her own fantasies and you just help her live one out, albeit with a false cock. I bet she has a million and one other fantasies she wants to try and act out so ask her what fantasies she has and maybe you can help her live more of them out, or even she can go and try some of them herself, but she has to come back and tell you everything

 

[Stevens4fun]

I have been into cuckolding as a fantasy for a while but have never discussed it with my wife. She is aware of what cuckolding is but it hasn’t come up at all in our sex life. We have been getting a bit more adventurous in our overall sex life though. I recently bought a dildo to use, it is bigger than me and it is black. We picked it out together and she was ok with it.

Well we played together and used the dildo and she made a request that kind of surprised me. She had me get on my knees and lick her clit while I fucked her with the bbc dildo. She had an incredible orgasm and it was so hot.

Does this mean anything? Should I be thinking she has some of her own dirty fantasies that she hasn’t shared?

Or am I just overthinking it all?

At most, in my opinion, take her interest in being licked and using the black dildo as an opportunity to explore more of her fantasies. As the other commenter noted, we all have our fantasies but expanding on what he said - it doesn't mean your wife is ready to bring another man into her. Or into your bed. When my wife started revealing her fantasies to me, I was blown away. And I didn't let that opportunity go unexploited. For that one time in my life, I was able to convert luck into reality. As an experienced older guy, I'd encourage you to subtly, and without pressure or bringing up wild ...... that no woman in her right mind would ever want - expand your discussion with her. Encourage your wife to elaborate, and let her see how it arouses you. When I was first dating my wife (2nd marriage for both of us) I saw signs she was interested in far more than "vanilla" sex and a couple of glasses of wine on a warm afternoon worked wonders - that was how I discovered she was interested in mfm and beyond. My erection reassured her in a way, as we talked. There was more than one of these "chats" before we decided to act on her fantasies, not mine. She already had a married guy in mind - she'd been dating him on and off so it wasn't a total stranger.

 

[DinerDown]

Thanks for the advice. I do want to talk to her about it and ask her more of her own fantasies. But I just don’t want to assume something and be completely wrong. I love that she took our play with this toy to the next level and wanted me to lick her while using it. I would support any way she wanted to expand our sex life.