Hi everyone...I'm 30, and my fiance is 26.
I have massive desire to see her with other guy. I proposed her few times to try something but she refused anything cause she loves me too much and she thinks that Im testing her...so we never tried anything about that. After few months not mentioning my desire, yesterday I told her that will be great if she could just flert with someone on her work, in the bar etc. And she laughed and said that would be fun, I like to be flerty. I dont wanna be pushy, but now im confused, because before she was strictly against my idea and yesterday I had feeling that she became more lenient for my ideas. So I need advice, should I continue talk about that or I should be more patient and waiting. Im afraid that I will be too pushy if I continue with "when will you start flerting, with, did you flirt with anyone today...bla bla". Do you thing that I have chance with my gf or Im just i console myself. Any advice is good.
I have massive desire to see her with other guy. I proposed her few times to try something but she refused anything cause she loves me too much and she thinks that Im testing her...so we never tried anything about that. After few months not mentioning my desire, yesterday I told her that will be great if she could just flert with someone on her work, in the bar etc. And she laughed and said that would be fun, I like to be flerty. I dont wanna be pushy, but now im confused, because before she was strictly against my idea and yesterday I had feeling that she became more lenient for my ideas. So I need advice, should I continue talk about that or I should be more patient and waiting. Im afraid that I will be too pushy if I continue with "when will you start flerting, with, did you flirt with anyone today...bla bla". Do you thing that I have chance with my gf or Im just i console myself. Any advice is good.