I WISH my wife was more honest and forthcoming with stories of her adventures. After swinging for 5 years, we started having less and less sex. I had a new boss and lots of pressure. This is when she started drinking more and fucking around without me. She always denied and lied. Eventually, 10 years later I was standing next to her phone when she got a txt. All it said was "Happy ......'s Day", but it was from one of our old MFM buddies that I hadn't seen or heard from in years. Only one reason for a guy like that to be txting my wife.
I poked a peep hole into my wife's digital world. I am still shocked by what I found. I only had access to a small portion of her online life, but in that small amount there were at least 20+ guys that either she thanked for sex, they thanked her for sex, or the message was like "Do you want me to get a room for us in Ardsley or Elmsford?".
It all came to a head one night when I caught her coming out of a "no tell motel" with an old MFM buddy (NOT the one who txt'd her). I have tried to get her to open up about her cheating exploits, but no luck. I know SOMEONE taught her to deep throat. For that I am eternally grateful. But I wish I could hear about who taught her. She said she only kissed the black guy? When I pointed out she had txt'd him "I just love it when we fuck like crazy" she said he was small and not good in bed??? Obviously she will always guard her secrets.