Do you like to hear stories about your wife’s past?

I WISH my wife was more honest and forthcoming with stories of her adventures. After swinging for 5 years, we started having less and less sex. I had a new boss and lots of pressure. This is when she started drinking more and fucking around without me. She always denied and lied. Eventually, 10 years later I was standing next to her phone when she got a txt. All it said was "Happy ......'s Day", but it was from one of our old MFM buddies that I hadn't seen or heard from in years. Only one reason for a guy like that to be txting my wife.
I poked a peep hole into my wife's digital world. I am still shocked by what I found. I only had access to a small portion of her online life, but in that small amount there were at least 20+ guys that either she thanked for sex, they thanked her for sex, or the message was like "Do you want me to get a room for us in Ardsley or Elmsford?".
It all came to a head one night when I caught her coming out of a "no tell motel" with an old MFM buddy (NOT the one who txt'd her). I have tried to get her to open up about her cheating exploits, but no luck. I know SOMEONE taught her to deep throat. For that I am eternally grateful. But I wish I could hear about who taught her. She said she only kissed the black guy? When I pointed out she had txt'd him "I just love it when we fuck like crazy" she said he was small and not good in bed??? Obviously she will always guard her secrets.
 
I WISH my wife was more honest and forthcoming with stories of her adventures. After swinging for 5 years, we started having less and less sex. I had a new boss and lots of pressure. This is when she started drinking more and fucking around without me. She always denied and lied. Eventually, 10 years later I was standing next to her phone when she got a txt. All it said was "Happy ......'s Day", but it was from one of our old MFM buddies that I hadn't seen or heard from in years. Only one reason for a guy like that to be txting my wife.
I poked a peep hole into my wife's digital world. I am still shocked by what I found. I only had access to a small portion of her online life, but in that small amount there were at least 20+ guys that either she thanked for sex, they thanked her for sex, or the message was like "Do you want me to get a room for us in Ardsley or Elmsford?".
It all came to a head one night when I caught her coming out of a "no tell motel" with an old MFM buddy (NOT the one who txt'd her). I have tried to get her to open up about her cheating exploits, but no luck. I know SOMEONE taught her to deep throat. For that I am eternally grateful. But I wish I could hear about who taught her. She said she only kissed the black guy? When I pointed out she had txt'd him "I just love it when we fuck like crazy" she said he was small and not good in bed??? Obviously she will always guard her secrets.
Well that just sucks!! Unfortunately some just don’t want to tell about their sexual exploits. I’ve always made certain that I was perfectly clear that hearing her experiences really turns me on and that I would never look or think anything different about her, and that if anything, I’d respect her even more!
 
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My wife refuses to tell me anything. Shes thinks im being weird when i ask.

Im dying to know anything esp if any of the guys are bigger than me!
Mine does the same, she never tells me much about her exes. She has told me only about the latest one before me because he cheated on her and also was a difficult person due to his emotional problems and broke her heart, so she has a bit of a grudge for him. But she never said about anything sexual. She has completely refused to discuss anyone before him. I have found some old photos of hers where she is with a previous ex, although they are not sexual.
I have tried to probe her about previous sexual exploits and relationships but she is very vague and her main points are that, first, these things are in the past, so why bring them up and remember them when they are of no consequence, and second, that she values her privacy and wants control over it.

Although, of course, those points are acceptable and I respect them, I wonder if she is hiding something that she doesn't want me to know, perhaps some kind of trauma or something that she thinks would make me feel jealous and she thinks would damage our relationship. I know I will feel jealous if I learn things but it will also make me hard. It is a morbid fascination. She was quite conservative and bookish when she was young so I suspect she delayed to start having sex, but when I met her and further on, she can be very horny, sexual and willing to try things.

She is also a feminist, but I have found out that her favourite thing is to get fucked hard and fast from behind and dominated, at which point she will admit to being all kinds of a slut.
My cock is of average length and thick, so not too bad, and she always seemed pleased with it, although she never outright compared it with others'. I did buy her some dildos, and especially a large 8 inch one, which is much bigger than my cock, and although she doesn't want them in our plays routinely, when I have used it, she seems to moan harder than ever and she seems to be able to take it all, quite comfortably when wet. I never managed to make her cum in a doggy position with my cock, she cums more often when on top and her clit rubs onto me, but I did manage to make her cum doggy with this dildo, while also rimming her at the same time.

My point is she is a feminist and used to be quite conservative and doesn't like talking about her sexual past, but then she becomes a crazed banshee at sex, who enjoys mostly getting fucked like a slut and taking a big dildo/cock. All this has led to me developing various fantasies about her, especially her past.
 
So I know my wife has been chatting to guys on here. Never realized she was so sexual. We’re conservative catholics who go to church every week. I thought we had a healthy sex life. We usually have sex a few times a month and she seemed to enjoy it.

Well I was down at the shore for my brother’s 40th. Ended up driving home earlier then expected. You can see where this is going right? I come upstairs, hear noises and it smells like a gym. I walk in and she is bent over the bed taking some juiced out gym bro doggystyle! It was surreal. Thought i was dreaming.

I just stood there watched for a minute. In that time she squirted all over his dick (never seen that happen before). He literally was asking how much bigger and better he was and she was like omg sooo much bigger. I belong to u blah blah.

Yeah, i was a kinda horny watching but im man and this guy is in my bed pounding out my wife and talking ....... So im like yo what is this! Get out thinking hed be alarmed and feel bad and bounce. Dude turns around, smiles and says something like nah you gotta go bruh. Im not done with your bitch yet.

Im like get out or else. Shes oblivious. He pulls out, shes gasps like whyd u stop, and he stomps over to me. Im telling u his dick was swinging and his muscles were bulged out. Guy was like 25 maybe. Tells me hes gonna beat my ass then cum in my wife. Im not a big guy and hes literally in my face with a rock hard dick. Takes the condom off and tosses it at me.

So im like whatever and walk away. Shes looking at me like half sorry half glad im leaving. I walk out the door but cant resist peaking in the crack. She tried to tell him maybe he should go. He doesnt say anything. Spits on his cock, throws her back over the bee and fucks her like an animal! Like possessed. Shes screaming and moaning hes grunting. Grabs her hair lets out that primal scream as he cums inside her. Shes like cock ...... in ectacy… its been weird since
would love to hear more about this DM me. Obviously, in that moment, they cucked you- and it seems like it was unexpected, but accepted
 
I’m the exact same way! Confident with the two of us but as time passes, her former sexual exploits have turned me on. I grew up with her in a small town so I already knew her and that she dated an 6’8” exchange basketball student from Spain. I evidently moved away as did her bf. She evidently got pregnant and married an Army soldier that I later learned was big into mfm’s and swapping. Wasn’t exactly her thing from what she later told me but she was committed to him so she went with it. She got a divorce years down the road and was dating a local dr’s ...... prior to the two of us reuniting. I knew him well and knew he had that stud appeal. 3-4 yrs after our marriage I asked her if he was “big” and she just kinda giggled and looked at me inquisitively. Then she admitted that he was VERY big. That was a huge turn on for me but not as big as the next thing that happened about a year later. We were moving so while she was at work, I loaded up most of our boxed things. She had a few boxes that she had never opened up so I left them out for her to sort through. When she got home she had taken an old laptop that she had prior to our marriage and put it in the dumpster, and when the trash people came the next day, they set it in the grass due to it having a lithium battery. Well, I got home first and found it and took it to work the next day, recharged it, and went through it. The ...... that she had on there was absolutely shocking. Apparently she had deleted tons and of old pics and videos of her with previous guys that were all left in the deleted folder. I immediately saved it all to a thumb drive. I feel I only know a fraction of my wife’s sexual exploitation‘s, but I do know that she had a very sexual history and she has a body that was built to fuck. She doesn’t know that I acquired all the stuff so overtime, I have asked her some questions about things I knew about to see if she would admit or deny them, sometimes she answered other things she didn’t want to talk about, but I already knew. She’s had as much cum in her as most porn stars. Two recent pics are us, the other fuck vid stills are her former lovers
she is stunning!
 
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I don’t know what it is or where it comes from, but I have this natural gift to get women to completely let their guard down, and openly and honestly confess or admit to things they’ve kept secret and have never told anyone else ever. I’ve been blown away so many times from the things I was told!
My wife does not tell me. I would love to hear and enjoy. How do you get things out of them?
 
I loved to hear my wife's past sexual exploits. She was a stripper when I met her, so she had many. She worked there for about a month after we started dating. I was still married to my first wife. She had been fucking the busboy there. His name was Lance (no ......) and she said he had the biggest dick she had ever seen. She never measured it, but she said it had to be 10 inches or more. She told him she couldn't fuck him anymore after she started seeing me. However, when she was getting ready to quit working there, she told him she wanted one more fuck from him. She didn't tell me this until years later, but she admitted she loved his big dick. She also fucked several customers for money.
 
Just saw this thread…yes, I love to hear and have always thought I knew most of them and then I get a random one that explains actions that explain other people’s behaviors or comments they made that now make sense. Knowing the context of one incident became clear sunday. We happen to be in the sex act sunday am when I was talking erotically, questioning her behavior earlier Saturday nite. She did suck a guys cock and was fingered to orgasm by him. And now I understand all the dialogue about us being swingers and why the guy came up to that might years before sniffing his finger and saying “I bet u know what this smells like”. She’s been doing him for years and last Saturday again.
 
In the beginning of our relationship my wife told me quite a few stories about her sexual encounters. I remember one story I though was really hot. She matched with a guy on Tinder, and even though they had little in common, she went on a date with him. My wife is an academic schoolteacher type, and this guy was a mechanic, burly guy with bad tattoos. She got horny during the date, and despite her misgivings about the guy she went home with him. He was kind of dominant and demanding and she ended up "doing his bidding". She let him fuck her and cum all over her little tits. Afterwards he made her leave. When she sent him messages to hear if he wanted to see her again, he rejected her. She felt cheap, and there's something really exciting about that 🙂
 
In the beginning of our relationship my wife told me quite a few stories about her sexual encounters. I remember one story I though was really hot. She matched with a guy on Tinder, and even though they had little in common, she went on a date with him. My wife is an academic schoolteacher type, and this guy was a mechanic, burly guy with bad tattoos. She got horny during the date, and despite her misgivings about the guy she went home with him. He was kind of dominant and demanding and she ended up "doing his bidding". She let him fuck her and cum all over her little tits. Afterwards he made her leave. When she sent him messages to hear if he wanted to see her again, he rejected her. She felt cheap, and there's something really exciting about that 🙂
Yes there is xx
 
I don’t exactly know and I don’t know if I could teach anyone else how to get the same results, but let me think about it and I’ll try my best to explain myself.
I’ve learned that women are very competitive. If you talk to a woman and constantly mention about what a great fuck some other woman is, especially if she knows her in some way, it will eventually trigger her sexually competitive nature! Women don’t like to hear about things another woman does and specifically if she feels like she has something to prove. Things that not only makes her man, or other men happy, but especially if you very carefully and cleverly, let her know just how impressed, or how much you respect that woman for what she did, and especially that she willingly and openly of her own free will, was completely honest and told her husband or bf what has happened, and more importantly, shared as much details as she possibly could. And how excited and turned on he said he got from it and really loved that about her. So you might try starting out by bringing up a make believe guy friend that you work with, or what ever you’re comfortable with, and that this guy tells you all kinds of things about his wife. If, or more likely, when, she asks you what she did and what has he told you. You’ll have to have a story that you’re well prepared to, once again, carefully and cleverly, tell her that’s believable and also sexy or exciting.
 
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I don’t like specifics, but I find it really hot when my wife will tell me about times she’s had her pretty ass fucked or times she’s been used like a slut before she met me. I’m confident in my own cock and sexual ability and I satisfy her very well. I just think it’s hot to show her off and know how slutty she is and can be. I was jealous at first in our relationship but as we’ve gotten closer and more comfortable these dirty thoughts and the nasty sex is really hot. She’s even starting to enjoy sharing my cock pics as well!
I do. My wife was 28 when we got married.
 
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Mine, some months after we meet, meanwhile we were in a long travel trip ask me what do you thing about anal sex?
After she told me that this guy she was with before insisted her a lot into try, and finally one night she agreed and they did it.i had to ask how it was and she said at first not nice, but ended to be not that bad.
I was totally not expecting that at that time and the feeling after was quite weird 😆