Do big cocks last longer?

[penc1ld1kt]

I have a theory heavily influenced by my predilection for size humiliation. I refer to the below article which arouses me more than any porn - a women's magazine effectively saying size counts while providing a big cock user guide for their readers.

6 things you only know if you have had sex with someone with a huge penis

From high-fiving to 'ouucchh', having sex with the well-endowed can be V complex.

www.cosmopolitan.com

The main thing they emphasise is the requirement to take your time with a huge one ("gone are the days of quick poundings with your knickers still halfway down your legs"). Not only does going slow allow the receiver to adjust to the monolith going inside them it also ensures the sex lasts longer (obvs), which is pretty darn important given "likelihood or consistency of partnered orgasm is associated with penile-vaginal intercourse duration".^1

From my experience as a pencil dick it's literally seconds before I'm able to be fully inserted and can obviously move to full throttle (and thus ejaculation) much sooner than would a competently applied thick one. Thus, I am usually done in the 3-5 minutes it would take a woman to adjust to a big one (in my case this is exacerbated by intercourse for me usually being either the footnote to my wife getting off with her vibrator or her just getting it over with by tickling my balls).

A lot of the naysayers in the size counts debate are women who say they tried a big one and it was uncomfortable. I think these experiences though are the result of the well hung individual not taking their time. As per the article if a guy with a big cock has "played by the foreplay rules, then you're pretty much guaranteed to have totally amazing orgasms. With a penis that size it's impossible not to hit the spot."

Would love to hear from those with first hand experience whether this theory holds up in real life.

^1 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19170844/

 

[Duncanf]

I think that yes they do last longer too.

 

[Havingaball]

I do enjoy a large man working it in the smaller men at times are like Jack rabbits trying to get their nut

 

[Jack W]

I know that I generally last longer than the average guy, but that's true of everything be it vaginal, blow job,, or anal. But I don't recall too much time to adjust, particularly to the thickness of my cock, except in anal. Anal is a completely different ballgame.

 

[Elja1]

So far all my BF's which are larger than hubby do last longer, but in fairness, hubby can run with them when he is relaxed. Not complaining about all of them

 

[Hotwifelove]

seems that way to me

 

[Ride9]

I have a theory heavily influenced by my predilection for size humiliation. I refer to the below article which arouses me more than any porn - a women's magazine effectively saying size counts while providing a big cock user guide for their readers.

6 things you only know if you have had sex with someone with a huge penis

From high-fiving to 'ouucchh', having sex with the well-endowed can be V complex.

www.cosmopolitan.com

The main thing they emphasise is the requirement to take your time with a huge one ("gone are the days of quick poundings with your knickers still halfway down your legs"). Not only does going slow allow the receiver to adjust to the monolith going inside them it also ensures the sex lasts longer (obvs), which is pretty darn important given "likelihood or consistency of partnered orgasm is associated with penile-vaginal intercourse duration".^1

From my experience as a pencil dick it's literally seconds before I'm able to be fully inserted and can obviously move to full throttle (and thus ejaculation) much sooner than would a competently applied thick one. Thus, I am usually done in the 3-5 minutes it would take a woman to adjust to a big one (in my case this is exacerbated by intercourse for me usually being either the footnote to my wife getting off with her vibrator or her just getting it over with by tickling my balls).

A lot of the naysayers in the size counts debate are women who say they tried a big one and it was uncomfortable. I think these experiences though are the result of the well hung individual not taking their time. As per the article if a guy with a big cock has "played by the foreplay rules, then you're pretty much guaranteed to have totally amazing orgasms. With a penis that size it's impossible not to hit the spot."

Would love to hear from those with first hand experience whether this theory holds up in real life.

^1 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19170844/

Speaking from my experience with my 9 inches it takes longer and more intense sex to make a big dick cum inside a woman. Maybe that's why my ex wife always talked about me being a porn actor. This is the first post I have found related to the question I have had👍

 

[penc1ld1kt]

Speaking from my experience with my 9 inches it takes longer and more intense sex to make a big dick cum inside a woman. Maybe that's why my ex wife always talked about me being a porn actor. This is the first post I have found related to the question I have had👍

Interesting. I was thinking the sex would last longer because a larger endowed man is obliged to take more time working it in. Are you saying that your experience is that the PIV needs to go longer to get a larger man to climax as well? I wonder if it's a physiological trait of a big cock or whether it's a symptom of smaller guys having to pump faster (or just your unique experience). 🤔

 

[DewMyWife]

I have a theory heavily influenced by my predilection for size humiliation. I refer to the below article which arouses me more than any porn - a women's magazine effectively saying size counts while providing a big cock user guide for their readers.

6 things you only know if you have had sex with someone with a huge penis

From high-fiving to 'ouucchh', having sex with the well-endowed can be V complex.

www.cosmopolitan.com

The main thing they emphasise is the requirement to take your time with a huge one ("gone are the days of quick poundings with your knickers still halfway down your legs"). Not only does going slow allow the receiver to adjust to the monolith going inside them it also ensures the sex lasts longer (obvs), which is pretty darn important given "likelihood or consistency of partnered orgasm is associated with penile-vaginal intercourse duration".^1

From my experience as a pencil dick it's literally seconds before I'm able to be fully inserted and can obviously move to full throttle (and thus ejaculation) much sooner than would a competently applied thick one. Thus, I am usually done in the 3-5 minutes it would take a woman to adjust to a big one (in my case this is exacerbated by intercourse for me usually being either the footnote to my wife getting off with her vibrator or her just getting it over with by tickling my balls).

A lot of the naysayers in the size counts debate are women who say they tried a big one and it was uncomfortable. I think these experiences though are the result of the well hung individual not taking their time. As per the article if a guy with a big cock has "played by the foreplay rules, then you're pretty much guaranteed to have totally amazing orgasms. With a penis that size it's impossible not to hit the spot."

Would love to hear from those with first hand experience whether this theory holds up in real life.

^1 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19170844/

Number 4 is the critical one for May!

 

[penc1ld1kt]

Number 4 is the critical one

Those Asian gal's do tend to be tighter down below.

 

[owlmale]

Bigger cock the pussy would feel tighter doing a better job of getting the bull off.

 

[spin418]

I think that yes they do last longer too.

Prolly having more actual intercourse is a factor in mens’ capacity, wouldn’t you think? What wld help develop poise, self-control and composure, mastery of female pleasure more than lotsa practice, and maybe even more especially if it’s with lots of partners?

I can only imagine, but you’d think that being better endowed may give a man an advantage in confidence around women generally. Which invariably leads to getting more of them in bed…more often. They’re getting a lot more tail and they learn from experience how to please, so it pretty well perpetuates itself!

 

[Joecde3vfr4]

No, confident cocks last longer! I have had times in my life when I couldn’t last a full minute and times when I could easily go for 45-minutes… even in my mid 40’s.

I am struggling with a lack of confidence right now so I can’t last as long as I did when my wife and I got together when I was 42. That was my sexual peak, and I am really grateful that my wife got to experience that time in my life.

 

[Enigm63]

There are lots of factors that affect "lasting time" many of them in the mind and due to circumstances.

It is easier for a "bull" to last longer as he doesn't have the same emotional attachchment with the woman that her husband does, to him it is usually "just a fuck" not love making, also he may be concentrating more on the womans pleasure and of course on his reputation as - he wouldn't last long as a bull if he squirted after a couple of strokes

In general husband/wife sex is often a quickie because hubby wants relief or is fitted in around everything else in life, or is lovemaking with intense emotions thyat tend to take a guy to ejaculation quickly.

When a wife has sex with her lover she has usually planned time to enjoy herself and isn't thinking about what's for dinner or taking the kids to school, she is concentrating on the sex and so comes more easilly.

Having said that, it's true that most women need more warming up to take a big cock and penetration has to be a little more careful so maybe its's true that compared to a pencil dick that just quickly slips in almost unnoticed the time taken with a bigger cock means things generally last longer

 

[majorem]

It seems almost counter-intuitive that small dicks would cum faster - you'd think a smaller dick would have less friction / feeling, due to less contact with the vaginal walls. Big dick that stretched the pussy would get more intense feeling. Maybe larger cocks have less nerve endings in the right spots though and are less sensitive.

I don't have a huge cock but its bigger than average and I've always taken a long time to cum, so maybe it reinforces your hypothesis. I don't think I've ever cum in under 10m and often its a lot longer - these days my wife would probably say "too long".

I would guess though also that dude's acting as bulls probably try harder to prolong the experience and maybe even rub one out before a meet-up to ensure they can last. I remember doing that before some dates, back when I was in my 20s because I guess I somehow thought cumming in under 20m might be embarrassing. Sadly, in my 40s, I almost never feel like I'm going to cum uncontrollably just due to something feeling so good - I often have to work for it and think of something dirty.

 

[420destiny]

It makes sense that with a larger cock it takes more work to please that bigger meat, makes sense they would last longer.

 

[2wheel]

I've sucked small and large from 2" to 9 1/2". In my experience there is no correlation between size and duration.

 

[Enigm63]

There is no one answer.

Yes, some guys suffer from premature or quick ejaculation and other guys don't that has nothing to do with size

But there is also the question of how "emotional" the sex is - the more emotional or intense it is then the quicker the guy usually comes.
Put another way a "bull" who has less emotional attachment to the wife and may see fucking her as a bit like a "job" will be able to last because he stays slightly detached emotionally

 

[MarcandLilly]

I've sucked small and large from 2" to 9 1/2". In my experience there is no correlation between size and duration.

Exactly right.

 

[wasper]

Agree on no correlation in general. That said, in my personal experience (limited sample size LOL) - my ex-roommate was hung 8+ and would fuck girls for hours while I listened. He claims he hardly ever came from a BJ, had to be thrusting to shoot. Another friend was hung 7.5 and also could last forever. He would chuckle when I told him it was tough for me to keep from cumming after 5 minutes in my gf's asian pussy. I would ask him "do you think it's because she is chinese and super tight?" His reply was "My ex gf was asian and 4'11 and I banged her for hours and wore her pussy out" LOL. So in my experience two bigger cocks lasted way longer than my smaller cock.