Degarding your wife

Thank you for your lovely comments. I’ve been a Submissive for 30+ years (though I’ve always been a slut with a sub side and I have no issue with admitting that), a path I discovered accidentally at first but which has developed and evolved over the years. Before I retired I had a very demanding job, I was in a position with quite a lot of authority a lot of responsibility. Being a Submissive was a total foil to that. Being able to hand over total control and responsibility to a bull/dom/owner (call it what you will) can be wonderfully liberating. That isn’t to downplay how demanding it can be both physically and emotionally, sometimes very demanding. And it is a very addictive path to go down when you get into it seriously - both the pain (psychological and well as physical) and the pleasure. And I am very lucky to have my amazing hubby who understands my needs and doesn’t feel threatened or undermined by them. He has his own kinks too which I’m sure helps him to understand mine. I don’t think it would work for a lot of people, at least not without putting a lot of strain on their relationship, but it works perfectly for us.
Lynn xx
EXACTLY!!! . . . the truth about sub that is so rarely understood or actually processed and acknowledged.... I DO in part blame THAT damn book, but also the misleading portrayal of sub and Dominance (NOT to be confused, or definitely not conflated, with domination with a deliberately small d) in popular pornography.... most folk seem to believe that aall, or at the least typical, submissives are weak willed, meek and mild 'Beta' personalities that NEED an Alpha to direct them through life and so be able to function happliy... there is very very little understanding that actually many many submissives (female OR male) are often very likely to be absolute Alpha charaters themselves in their careers or everyday lives, and so sub is EXACTLY not about being weak or meek, but simply about asking someone else to 'drive the car'... it's about for once, NOT having to be responsible for decisions or managing others or constantly being in charge and in control in fulfilment of significant roles with often serious weight of responsibility on their shoulders... to be able to shed ALL responsibility is a huge relief and clearing of the mind, regenerating and reenergising moment to rest and recharge... I LOVE how you have expressed exactly this, would be lovely if it were posted and openly discussed more often... You and James are sooo made for each other, it's lovely to read your comments and posts - please keep them coming 🙏🙏😊
 
I have a fantasy of wanting to degrade wives. Treat them like the cum sluts they are. This is coming from pure intentions. I just like to manhandle them grab their hair and make the crawl on their knees for me. Do you like your wife degraded? Or, do wifes want to be treated like they are owned? Lmk, DM are invited.

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How would you ruin her clit if you had the chance?
 
I have a fantasy of wanting to degrade wives. Treat them like the cum sluts they are. This is coming from pure intentions. I just like to manhandle them grab their hair and make the crawl on their knees for me. Do you like your wife degraded? Or, do wifes want to be treated like they are owned? Lmk, DM are invited.
I'm a wife and I love when strangers degrade and humiliate me when my husband doesn't know about it.
 
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if a long way from home then i make my wife dress v slutty and send her to bars and clubs and always she feels defraded cuz men assume she is a whore or at least a slut and will touch her and messwith her; try to forse her to let them feel her cuntr and rirs in the quiet areas, v humiliaing for her
 
I’m very submissive to my bull. It’s very much a master/slave arrangement but only for the time we are together. Degradation and humiliation definitely plays a big part in that. Not every meeting but very often. Including: sharing me with his friends ( very regularly); parading me in front of them, collared and leashed; restraint play and BDSM; rough sex and demeaning, abusive language; water sports; pimping me out. Again, not all the time (and the whoring me out takes place separately) and sometimes none of the above will happen when we met (which we manage usually once a week). I do find it humiliating and embarrassing but also very exciting. It is all consensual or at least cnc and I really get off on the power dynamic involved. I’ve had similar arrangements with other bulls over the years including some of the above. For instance my bull previous to the one I have now didn’t share me but as he lived nearby, he did have free use of me whenever he liked. So it’s varied over time depending on bull’s preferences and context. The common factor has been that I’ve only usually had this sort of relationship with one trusted bull at a time and that all these bulls have been black (with a couple of exceptions).

All this is besides having sex with other men when this sort of sub/dom dynamic doesnt usually play any part, though sometimes depending on the guy(s) or my mood some elements may be involved, but most often aren’t.

Hubby’s favourite kinks involving me are different though there is some overlap in some of the things we’ve done/do.

Lynn x
Love the level of submissive. Love to see my wife used like this
 
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James isn’t sub but he is bi. He does enjoy some things that might be considered sub - cleaning up, sucking cock, getting fucked, me having the freedom to have sex with whoever I like (as does he, though it’s not very often he exercises that freedom) - but he’s not into being humiliated in any way or being made to do anything he doesn’t want to do. His biggest turn on is me being a slut for other guys and that’s the central theme in our relationship, whether that is with Marc, my bull and his friends or with other guys xx
He very lucky I would trade with him anytime.
 
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I’m very submissive to my bull. It’s very much a master/slave arrangement but only for the time we are together. Degradation and humiliation definitely plays a big part in that. Not every meeting but very often. Including: sharing me with his friends ( very regularly); parading me in front of them, collared and leashed; restraint play and BDSM; rough sex and demeaning, abusive language; water sports; pimping me out. Again, not all the time (and the whoring me out takes place separately) and sometimes none of the above will happen when we met (which we manage usually once a week). I do find it humiliating and embarrassing but also very exciting. It is all consensual or at least cnc and I really get off on the power dynamic involved. I’ve had similar arrangements with other bulls over the years including some of the above. For instance my bull previous to the one I have now didn’t share me but as he lived nearby, he did have free use of me whenever he liked. So it’s varied over time depending on bull’s preferences and context. The common factor has been that I’ve only usually had this sort of relationship with one trusted bull at a time and that all these bulls have been black (with a couple of exceptions).

All this is besides having sex with other men when this sort of sub/dom dynamic doesnt usually play any part, though sometimes depending on the guy(s) or my mood some elements may be involved, but most often aren’t.

Hubby’s favourite kinks involving me are different though there is some overlap in some of the things we’ve done/do.

Lynn x
You sound like an incredibly fun woman and at a very desirable age. Would love to see and learn more of some of your adventures
 
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