An interesting topic… procuring men for my wife to enjoy sex with has been/is a mixed bag. It can range from tedious, and labor-intensive to highly erotic, to downright humiliating and embarrassing.
For most of the time we’ve been doing the hot wife thing, KK’s preference and desire has been for variety. In part it’s her personality; novelty seeking behavior, a drive for attention, her own attention span, and emotional state all factor into the equation.
Over the span of time, we’ve recruited encounter partners in a multitude of channels, from Craig’s List, AFF, lifestyle clubs, bars, lounges, etc. The process of recruiting men to fuck my wife has ranged from tedious and frustrating, to wholly consuming, a time-sink, sometimes a chore, not so much enjoyable as necessary to keep KK supplied with cock.
From time to time KK’s mixed this up as a sort of game - having me approach a strange man in some venue, having me ask, sometimes coax or cajole him into a hot fuck session. Those experiences are usually a blend of awkward, embarrassing, along with apprehension. I’d say those scenarios have been about a 70% success rate for us. Some men feel like it’s some kind of trap or set-up, and decline, even though I can tell they’d do the deed if they weren’t afraid of it being a trap.
Many experiences have been quite erotic; the seduction, thrill of the chase, the human behavior on both fronts; my wife’s desire and lust for a candidate building, the guy almost begging, anticipating a shot at my gorgeous hot wife is pretty intense to watch.
Some of the final screening/vetting dates have been ultra-intense. KK, the candidate in the back seat of our vehicle, me chauffeuring while they get to know one another, sometimes overcome totally by lust, they end up fucking in the backseat, unable to wait for more comfortable surroundings. That “reward” is an offset against the labor, effort and logistics of procuring sex partners for KK.