no, she always decides who, when and where.
the one time I tried to set something up it didn't go well.
I had told a guy to meet us in a hotel's bar and that my wife would decide if things went further after she met him.
I told her that we were going for a drink and a friend who wanted to meet her would be there.
we walked into the place, and the guy was at the bar and nodded to us to come over.
my wife literally screamed for all to hear, "there's no way that I am going to fuck that guy"
that was the last time I ever even thought of setting things up.