Always bareback for me, I never really gave any thought to it, it just happened that way the first time and that’s the way it has been since.
My first time was not planned, it was a spontaneous thing with a delivery driver I had been flirting with for months. One day it just happened one moment I was making suggestive comments on the door step, a few moments later I was on the hallway floor with him sliding inside me.
Up until then I had never had sex with anyone other than my husband and that had always been bareback and it never really occurred to me that perhaps I should have asked him to use a condom. It became a regular thing with him for a couple of years, always bareback. I always figured that if I got pregnant (I wasn’t on the pill) that he didn’t look too different to my husband for anyone to ask any questions.
After he moved away and I started on my sex adventures I just carried on playing bareback. Before menopause started my main concern was getting pregnant, so was always a bit worried if I was having fun with someone that was a different race or looked significantly different from my husband. A few guys asked me if I was worried about STIs, but I mostly go with married men that I hope are responsible rather than men going out at weekends and picking up ...... girls.
of course it isn’t completely risk free, but so far I have avoided anything nasty and since reaching the menopause feel sexually liberated as I can ...... with whomever I like without worrying about a baby that I couldn’t explain the appearance of.