Would you mind sharing your “vetting” process?
We do the same as you requiring std blood tests to go bare back. We are always interested in how others vet men.
Thanks
A summary of our vetting process, as it relates to our lifestyle…
KK does not have any true “steady lovers” with a couple of exceptions. She craves attention, novelty, and new experience. We learned long ago that we had to have a steady “pipeline” of candidate partners to satiate her needs.
We use a variety of recruiting sources, on-line, and in person to find potential partners. Those that get down-selected are further vetted, at first using ... or Zoom over a few sessions. This helps weed out total fakes and flakes, guys that claim to be fit but are lard-asses, tiny-cock posers, and guys who can’t get hard and stay hard in the presence of another male. The video sessions are masturbation and dirty talk, in part to see if they can stimulate KK’s imagination along with having a hard cock.
The next step varies, but we make them put skin in the game by getting tested for STD/STI’s. We use a network provider that has locations in most cities - the test battery is about $200 plus the time commitment. The results are web-based, with a code and PIN so that we can access the results and verify - this prevents faked tests, or forward-dating old test results.
Either after testing, or in parallel, we set up a face-to-face meeting in a public location; bars, or coffee shops we use for screening.
If things don’t click for whatever reason, we part company. If things are good, we take a ride in our vehicle, I drive, KK and the candidate get in the back seat, so she can conduct what she calls the “cock inspection.” Usually there’s some making out, stroking and fingering, sometimes oral action, and more rarely, if KK just can’t help herself, a hot car-fuck. I watch and stroke if we’re able to find a place to park (we have several spots we use), otherwise I drive and get frustrated.
If the “cock inspection” passes KK’s muster, we set up the date for the real encounter, usually the same or the next night.
About one in three fall out of the process along the way. It is high effort, but it more or less eliminates disappointments like fakes, flakes, etc.