I have three guys I get together with, but only one of them is my primary lover. Really, all three of them are fantastic in bed. I like to stay with guys I know. It feels safer that way and I know that these guys can deliver. I let my husband know when I'd like to see one of them and my husband makes the arrangements. We always make love in our home. I don't have set nights, it's whenever I feel the need, which is about once or so a week. Our time together is usually two to three hours. We usually start about 9:00 pm. or so, and it usually ends between 11:00 and midnight. Sometimes he might spend the night. I like when he spends the night because we can wake up in the middle of the night and fuck, then we always wake up in the morning and fuck. I love that. After they leave late at night, I invite my husband in and he gets sloppy seconds. I'm usually so turned on by my encounter with my lover that I wake up around 2:00 am and have to use my vibe to calm down. Then in the morning hubby usually works on me with my dildo. I'll go four or five days thinking about my session with my lover and end up asking hubby to call him to set up our next fuck session. This is what works for us.