Comfortable with other men’s cum

I have been ask how my husband and other men in our lifestyle feel about having other Mens cum touch them. This past weekend we were with four other couples so I ask the men. When we get together for a meal or activity we are often naked. Of course as is goes the men start to drip that delicious appetizer, pre-cum. During casual interactions this pre-cum can get on others. I ask and all the men say they don’t mind having others get on them. Of course the topic went to when we are all actually fucking. That’s when the main course, cum loads, happen. My husband and the other men seem to agree that they wouldn’t want the direct load squirted on them but they understand that when multiple men are fucking one woman that another man’s cum will get on them. That they are ok with. In fact, it turns them on a bit. I guess to answer the questions I’ve been ask is that overall men don’t mind being touched with another man’s cum. In our lifestyle it will happen. Men have to be comfortable around cum. Men and women, what are your thoughts?
Same attitude, don't want it directed at me. I don't eat creampies. But if you are playing without condoms cum is going to happen.
 
I have been ask how my husband and other men in our lifestyle feel about having other Mens cum touch them. This past weekend we were with four other couples so I ask the men. When we get together for a meal or activity we are often naked. Of course as is goes the men start to drip that delicious appetizer, pre-cum. During casual interactions this pre-cum can get on others. I ask and all the men say they don’t mind having others get on them. Of course the topic went to when we are all actually fucking. That’s when the main course, cum loads, happen. My husband and the other men seem to agree that they wouldn’t want the direct load squirted on them but they understand that when multiple men are fucking one woman that another man’s cum will get on them. That they are ok with. In fact, it turns them on a bit. I guess to answer the questions I’ve been ask is that overall men don’t mind being touched with another man’s cum. In our lifestyle it will happen. Men have to be comfortable around cum. Men and women, what are your thoughts?
I love cum, I find it so sexy seeing a hard cock cumming and it is so hot to feel the warm load of cum spray my cock
 
I have been ask how my husband and other men in our lifestyle feel about having other Mens cum touch them. This past weekend we were with four other couples so I ask the men. When we get together for a meal or activity we are often naked. Of course as is goes the men start to drip that delicious appetizer, pre-cum. During casual interactions this pre-cum can get on others. I ask and all the men say they don’t mind having others get on them. Of course the topic went to when we are all actually fucking. That’s when the main course, cum loads, happen. My husband and the other men seem to agree that they wouldn’t want the direct load squirted on them but they understand that when multiple men are fucking one woman that another man’s cum will get on them. That they are ok with. In fact, it turns them on a bit. I guess to answer the questions I’ve been ask is that overall men don’t mind being touched with another man’s cum. In our lifestyle it will happen. Men have to be comfortable around cum. Men and women, what are your thoughts?
For me, it is all about what my wife wants. I enjoy licking her to an earth shaking orgasm after she is full of cum... it could be from me or from another guy. I like pleasing her.
 
My comfort level with many things have changed since my wife started in this lifestyle. Other men's cum is just one of them. When she first started, condoms were required at all times. (oral and penetration) That didn't last long as my wife doesn't like the taste of condoms, even flavored ones. After the first guy, if she was going to blow the guy, it was bare for oral and condoms for penetration. It wasn't long after that where chosen guys got to also penetrate her bare and a short time later she let one of them fill her married pussy. I wasn't very comfortable with it the first time and chose to wear a condom vs. getting my first opportunity at silky seconds. Once given some time to think about it, I decided I wanted to see what silky seconds was like and was just waiting for a chance to give it a try.

Using another man's cum as lube and knowing how hot my wife gets one she has one guy's cum in her pussy and getting more cock from me, I was immediately hooked. So much so, that now, silky seconds is my favorite kink. For a long time, it was extremely rare for my wife to be comfortable enough with someone to let them cum inside which made my favorite kink happen almost never. However, for the past year and a half, my wife has had a regular fuck buddy that agreed to only play bare with her in exchange for the right to fuck her bare and fill up her pussy on a regular basis. During this time, they meet up about once a week and nearly every time they play, I am waiting at home for my turn. 🙂 Once I became comfortable with fucking her cum filled pussy, I began to get curious about what it would be like to lick a cum filled pussy. The first time I tried it, was after I had filled her up as I have always been more comfortable with my own cum than someone else's. Even then, once I cum, I quickly lose interest and it took a huge dose of stubborn curiosity and a little encouragement from my wife to give it a try. I was pleasantly surprised to learn that I was not put off by the combined flavor of our juices. And I was definitely turned on by my wife's enjoyment of oral after being filled with cum. The next hurdle was licking her pussy after her fuck buddy had filled her up. Honestly, it is easier for me to lick her after he has filled her up than when I have because I am so worked up knowing she is away playing. At this point, we tend to alternate between her jumping on my cock and us 69'ing when she comes home from a playdate with her fuck buddy.

So, I guess the short answer is that I've become very comfortable with other men's cum. Even still, I have no interest in having it shot directly on me..
 
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For me, it is all about what my wife wants. I enjoy licking her to an earth shaking orgasm after she is full of cum... it could be from me or from another guy. I like pleasing her.
This is what the lifestyle is all about. Max pleasure for the wives and as many orgasms as they can take. The lover and the hubby should be united in this goal.
 
I have been ask how my husband and other men in our lifestyle feel about having other Mens cum touch them. This past weekend we were with four other couples so I ask the men. When we get together for a meal or activity we are often naked. Of course as is goes the men start to drip that delicious appetizer, pre-cum. During casual interactions this pre-cum can get on others. I ask and all the men say they don’t mind having others get on them. Of course the topic went to when we are all actually fucking. That’s when the main course, cum loads, happen. My husband and the other men seem to agree that they wouldn’t want the direct load squirted on them but they understand that when multiple men are fucking one woman that another man’s cum will get on them. That they are ok with. In fact, it turns them on a bit. I guess to answer the questions I’ve been ask is that overall men don’t mind being touched with another man’s cum. In our lifestyle it will happen. Men have to be comfortable around cum. Men and women, what are your thoughts?
I would not mind it at all.
 
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When I was way younger sometimes I'd get a bj in my car from a girl, sometimes she'd swallow and I loved it. I was OK kissing her after she'd had my dick in her mouth but not after she swallowed. Once I'd cum in her mouth the fun was over and I'd drive her home. One night this girl swallowed, came up, smiled at me, went back down on me for a minute, came back up and shoved her toung in my mouth. I thought I was going to puke. I didn't and we had a super hot make out session. I learned real quick that girls loved to kiss after.
Later on I was seeing a good looking young lady, I was 21, she was 20. On about our 4th "date" after we fucked she asked if I'd go down on her. I didn't want to but she wiped off best she could and I started to lick her clit. She loved it, after maybe 30 seconds she grabbed my head and held me tight against her puss, there was a LOT down there. She got off pretty quick. That became our routine. We'd make out hot and heavy, some oral on each other, we'd fuck till I let it go, she'd wipe off then I'd go down, she'd cum hard. We'd kiss while she rubbed her puss till I was hard again then we'd do it all again. I didn't like locking my sperm but she was into it so I did it.
Same deal with other women.
Present day, wife and I get with a friend for mfm fun. Wife can't get pregnant so we don't use rubbers. We most always cum in her. She absolutely loves the kink of the mess. Him and me have no problem going down on her after we've fucked her. We've both kissed her after she's swallowed. She is a friggin mess down there even tho she wipes off between (sometimes).
Thinking about it...it's weird sliding into her after he's had her but she's SO turned on for next guy after one of us finishes. That's why it's fun.
WOW THAT IS SO EROTIC - IT MAKES MY COCK STIFF AND NOW I HAVE JACK OFF
 
I used to hate that, but one time my wife was with a black bull we just met him we don't even know his name looks like 18 or 19 y he was fucking her missionary so hard she cum the same time he cum inside her i was super horny that my cock was dripping out he told me to lick clean her pussy when she was shaking from the orgasm i don't know how or why i start eating her pussy while his fresh cum was coming out and tasting it with my mouth i found out that my wife really like it what i was doing, that young black bull turned me into cleaning after sex
 
I've sucked thousands of cocks and swallowed thousands.
I've done several blow bangs.
I've given hundreds of hand jobs.
I've cleaned up after my late wife's partners and my current GF's partners.
I've fucked my late wife as seconds and thirds.

I'm not only comfortable, I like cum and it is an essential part of the sexual experience.
Love cum need to someone to give it to me from the tap. They have to take charge I probably would try to back out.
 
If it’s good enough to put in her pussy and/or down her throat, why wouldn’t it be good/ok for hubby to take it in too? Unless the guy in question is sick or something, semen is like urine, sterile.

I’d have no issue at all cleaning my wife after she’d fucked someone or even sharing the load if she was sucking him, I’d suck it with her if they agreed.

The problem is the stigma of it being “gay” to suck another man or eat his load, from your wife or otherwise. Society has dictated way too much, life is a one trip journey, best to enjoy it cause you get no do-overs.