Candaulism is a
sexual practice or
fantasy in which a man exposes his female partner, or images of her, to other people for their
voyeuristic pleasure.
The term may also be applied to the practice of undressing or otherwise exposing a female partner to others, or urging or forsing her to engage in sexual relations with a third person, such as during a
swinging activity. Similarly, the term may also be applied to the posting of personal images of a female partner on the internet or urging or forsing her to wear clothing which reveals her physical attractiveness to others, such as by wearing very brief clothing, such as a
microskirt,
tight-fitting or
see-through clothing or a low-cut top.
History of the term
The term is derived from ancient King
Candaules who conceived a plot to show his unaware naked wife to his servant
Gyges of Lydia. After discovering Gyges while he was watching her naked, Candaules' wife ordered him to choose between killing himself or killing her husband in order to repair the vicious mischief.
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The term was first defined by
Richard von Krafft-Ebing in his book:
Psychopathia sexualis. Eine klinisch-forensische Studie (Stuttgart: Enke 1886).
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Psychology
Isidor Sadger hypothesized that the candaulist completely identifies with his partner's body, and deep in his mind is showing himself.
[5] Candaulism is also associated with
voyeurism and
exhibitionism. An alternative definition proposes it as a practice involving one person observing, often from concealment, two others having sexual relations.
Historical instances
The case of
Sir Richard Worsley, Bt, against George Bissett for "
criminal conversation", that is adultery with
Lady Worsley, revealed an incident in which Sir Richard had assisted Bissett to spy on Lady Worsley taking a bath.
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The art collector and connoisseur
Charles Saatchi has considered the influence of candaulism upon the work of
Salvador Dali, citing episodes recorded by the artist's biographers in which his wife Gala was displayed to other men.
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The notorious American
FBI agent caught spying for the
Soviet Union (later,
Russia),
Robert Hanssen, took explicit photographs of his wife and sent them to a friend. Later Hanssen invited his friend to clandestinely observe him having sex with his wife during his occasional visits to the Hanssen household. Initially, his friend watched through a window from outside the house. Later, Hanssen appropriated video equipment from the FBI to set up
closed-circuit television to allow his friend to watch from his guest bedroom.
[8] Hanssen also posted sexually explicit stories to the Internet crafted to allow readers who knew the Hanssens to identify them, also without his wife's knowledge.
In literature
Candaulism is a theme of
A Dance to the Music of Time, the cycle of novels by
Anthony Powell. A key scene in the penultimate volume
Temporary Kings, is set in a Venetian palazzo under a ceiling on which
Tiepolo has depicted King Candaules allowing his wife to be seen naked by Gyges. The theme of
voyeurism runs through the sequence of novels including a scene in which the arch-villain,
Kenneth Widmerpool watches his wife with a lover.
In the
Book of Esther the King orders Queen Vashti to appear before his guests wearing her crown and she refuses. Some commentators have taken this to mean her crown
and nothing else, which if accurate would place this story as an example.