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Well now I have a new label to attach to myself. But seems like i am not alone. It is great to learn new things.
Candaulism is a sexual practice or fantasy in which a man exposes his female partner, or images of her, to other people for their voyeuristic pleasure.
The term may also be applied to the practice of undressing or otherwise exposing a female partner to others, or urging or forsing her to engage in sexual relations with a third person, such as during a swinging activity. Similarly, the term may also be applied to the posting of personal images of a female partner on the internet or urging or forsing her to wear clothing which reveals her physical attractiveness to others, such as by wearing very brief clothing, such as a microskirt, tight-fitting or see-through clothing or a low-cut top.
History of the term
The term is derived from ancient King Candaules who conceived a plot to show his unaware naked wife to his servant Gyges of Lydia. After discovering Gyges while he was watching her naked, Candaules' wife ordered him to choose between killing himself or killing her husband in order to repair the vicious mischief.[1][2][3]
The term was first defined by Richard von Krafft-Ebing in his book: Psychopathia sexualis. Eine klinisch-forensische Studie (Stuttgart: Enke 1886).[4]
Psychology
Isidor Sadger hypothesized that the candaulist completely identifies with his partner's body, and deep in his mind is showing himself.[5] Candaulism is also associated with voyeurism and exhibitionism. An alternative definition proposes it as a practice involving one person observing, often from concealment, two others having sexual relations.
Historical instances
The case of Sir Richard Worsley, Bt, against George Bissett for "criminal conversation", that is adultery with Lady Worsley, revealed an incident in which Sir Richard had assisted Bissett to spy on Lady Worsley taking a bath.[6]
The art collector and connoisseur Charles Saatchi has considered the influence of candaulism upon the work of Salvador Dali, citing episodes recorded by the artist's biographers in which his wife Gala was displayed to other men.[7]
The notorious American FBI agent caught spying for the Soviet Union (later, Russia), Robert Hanssen, took explicit photographs of his wife and sent them to a friend. Later Hanssen invited his friend to clandestinely observe him having sex with his wife during his occasional visits to the Hanssen household. Initially, his friend watched through a window from outside the house. Later, Hanssen appropriated video equipment from the FBI to set up closed-circuit television to allow his friend to watch from his guest bedroom.[8] Hanssen also posted sexually explicit stories to the Internet crafted to allow readers who knew the Hanssens to identify them, also without his wife's knowledge.
In literature
Candaulism is a theme of A Dance to the Music of Time, the cycle of novels by Anthony Powell. A key scene in the penultimate volume Temporary Kings, is set in a Venetian palazzo under a ceiling on which Tiepolo has depicted King Candaules allowing his wife to be seen naked by Gyges. The theme of voyeurism runs through the sequence of novels including a scene in which the arch-villain, Kenneth Widmerpool watches his wife with a lover.
In the Book of Esther the King orders Queen Vashti to appear before his guests wearing her crown and she refuses. Some commentators have taken this to mean her crown and nothing else, which if accurate would place this story as an example definitely fall into the description of the term at the very top of your post. Something very erotic is to stand behind my girlfriend and slowly undress her in front of her bull . Also have altered her clothing collection to show a bit more in public . If your like me, would love to hear from you !
Wow, great information. ThanksCandaulism is a sexual practice or fantasy in which a man exposes his female partner, or images of her, to other people for their voyeuristic pleasure.
The term may also be applied to the practice of undressing or otherwise exposing a female partner to others, or urging or forsing her to engage in sexual relations with a third person, such as during a swinging activity. Similarly, the term may also be applied to the posting of personal images of a female partner on the internet or urging or forsing her to wear clothing which reveals her physical attractiveness to others, such as by wearing very brief clothing, such as a microskirt, tight-fitting or see-through clothing or a low-cut top.
History of the term
The term is derived from ancient King Candaules who conceived a plot to show his unaware naked wife to his servant Gyges of Lydia. After discovering Gyges while he was watching her naked, Candaules' wife ordered him to choose between killing himself or killing her husband in order to repair the vicious mischief.[1][2][3]
The term was first defined by Richard von Krafft-Ebing in his book: Psychopathia sexualis. Eine klinisch-forensische Studie (Stuttgart: Enke 1886).[4]
Psychology
Isidor Sadger hypothesized that the candaulist completely identifies with his partner's body, and deep in his mind is showing himself.[5] Candaulism is also associated with voyeurism and exhibitionism. An alternative definition proposes it as a practice involving one person observing, often from concealment, two others having sexual relations.
Historical instances
The case of Sir Richard Worsley, Bt, against George Bissett for "criminal conversation", that is adultery with Lady Worsley, revealed an incident in which Sir Richard had assisted Bissett to spy on Lady Worsley taking a bath.[6]
The art collector and connoisseur Charles Saatchi has considered the influence of candaulism upon the work of Salvador Dali, citing episodes recorded by the artist's biographers in which his wife Gala was displayed to other men.[7]
The notorious American FBI agent caught spying for the Soviet Union (later, Russia), Robert Hanssen, took explicit photographs of his wife and sent them to a friend. Later Hanssen invited his friend to clandestinely observe him having sex with his wife during his occasional visits to the Hanssen household. Initially, his friend watched through a window from outside the house. Later, Hanssen appropriated video equipment from the FBI to set up closed-circuit television to allow his friend to watch from his guest bedroom.[8] Hanssen also posted sexually explicit stories to the Internet crafted to allow readers who knew the Hanssens to identify them, also without his wife's knowledge.
In literature
Candaulism is a theme of A Dance to the Music of Time, the cycle of novels by Anthony Powell. A key scene in the penultimate volume Temporary Kings, is set in a Venetian palazzo under a ceiling on which Tiepolo has depicted King Candaules allowing his wife to be seen naked by Gyges. The theme of voyeurism runs through the sequence of novels including a scene in which the arch-villain, Kenneth Widmerpool watches his wife with a lover.
In the Book of Esther the King orders Queen Vashti to appear before his guests wearing her crown and she refuses. Some commentators have taken this to mean her crown and nothing else, which if accurate would place this story as an example.
I think you're right, it probably is one of the steps to becoming a cuck.It is a sexual rush that did not always exist for me. It has, in my opinion only, traces of oxhibitionism, voyeurism, pride, a hint of shame and perhaps a prelude to becoming a cuck.
Hottt.Early one Saturday morning, I had been at breakfast with a buddy and he had complained about how boring his life was, which gave me an idea. I got up to visit the restroom and instead I called my wife to tell her that I would be bringing a man home with me in exactly 45 minutes and I wanted her to be waiting for me on the sofa, naked; and she was to pretend that I hadn’t just called her. She was also to have a large towel or robe with her to cover herself with, but she wasn’t to cover her ass, as she walked into our bedroom to get dressed; I also wanted her to dress sexily, but not in anything too revealing when she returned to the living room. She begged me to be able to wear something when he arrived, as being completely naked at that time was tough for her (later she grew to love it), but I refused to relent.
Almost exactly forty-five minutes later, I opened the door and let my friend in, I pointed to the living room and he walked in and saw my 24 year-old wife on sitting the sofa naked, except for her most expensive black Italian heels, which cost a fortune. She was resting her heels on the coffee table, so her knees were open a few inches, while she held a paperback in her hands. She let out a small "Oops" and she said, while grabbing her towel, “And here I thought I was going to surprise you.”
She got up with the towel in front of her, but not holding it well enough to completely cover her breasts and she introduced herself to my buddy, shook his hand, and said to him, “Please excuse me while I change into something less comfortable.”
She walked away towards our bedroom with her ass completely exposed and jiggling nicely with each step in her high heels. Perfect. All of it was perfect. I loved the James Bond type lines she came up with. When she came out, she was wearing the same shoes, but with a very sexy summer dress, a little too sexy for me, as I wanted a stronger contrast between her naked and dressed. No sex, well at least no sex with him. I was super impressed by her boldness, as I wasn't sure she would go through with it, as I wasn't there to edge her on. I loved her lines, which she might have taken from some James Bond movie, such as Thunderball. Still, it was a great time.
She, like most women, thought her ass was monstrously too big, so I was so pleased that she didn't cover her ass as she walked into our bedroom. (Eventually, she grew to accept her ass, as so many men had told her that she had a fine ass.)
What a great wife.I am always encouraging my wife to wear revealing clothes and give men an eyeful. fortunately for me I don't have to do much convincing because she seems to enjoy the attention, sometimes I have to tell her to cover up because she shows too much.
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Wowwww she is cute! DM me her pics any timeThis is me lol. Love exposing my wife for strangers to jerk to and tribute on kick
It`s addictive and it makes for hot sex when your wife see`s all those hard cocks that want to fuck her.Finding myself getting more and more into the candaulism lifestyle.
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yeah you're dead right i love to see my wife at a disadvantage and in the hands and control of a dirty old bloke whos dying for cunt and cant believe his luck to have something over her that compels her to do everything he says and she has to let him do anything he want to her bum cunt and titties and want to touch and taste her everywhere and never lets her forget whos in charge lolseeing my wife disciplined and then pleasured by a stranger is hot.
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Really into exposing mine ok Kik
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Really into exposing mine ok Kik
Lets chat on kik. Im sharingit. Love exposing mine for jerk tribsI can’t find any related content in kik!
It’s like messenger I give you my name on there and we chat. It allows pics and vids to be sharedI can’t find any related content in kik!
Oh, gotcha! I was wondering..LOL. Thanks for the clarification, now I won’t be thinking it’s broken or something! Haha!It’s like messenger I give you my name on there and we chat. It allows pics and vids to be shared
This kinda a perv favorite fantasy if mine. I'd love to invite 3 of my hunting buddies over for dinner and have the wife maybe cook the bread a little over done. And then when we are finished, I'd tell her she needs to be punished for burning the bread, and I would proceed to punish her in front of my friends like this. Of course the spanking would be playful as she would know that I am doing it for slight humiliation onc her but more to show her charms off to the boys. I'd let them give her a spank also. maybe I won't let them spank her, but I want to pull those cheeks apart like that to show the boys the view between her cheeks. Maybe I'll hold hr ass open and let them get a good feel if they'd like.definitely applies to me , i love engineering situations and watching my wife exposed and submitting to others ,love to see her panties pulled down and spanked and fingered across someones knee ,and sharing the background and videos
here's one i filmed earlier
years earlier lol
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