Can’t get hard with wife alone

recently I can’t get hard or the sex drive to fuk my wife alone.

Also need someone else there fuking her or watching, then I can get hard and fuk her. Don’t feel great about this.

Last night we had to call her bf over and I suck his dick while fuk my wife in order to stay hard.

Shall we stop the life style for a while?
 
recently I can’t get hard or the sex drive to fuk my wife alone.

Also need someone else there fuking her or watching, then I can get hard and fuk her. Don’t feel great about this.

Last night we had to call her bf over and I suck his dick while fuk my wife in order to stay hard.

Shall we stop the life style for a while?
same here,
I have never shared her (she does not dare) but I can not get it up unless I think her with someone else
 
It isn't unusual.

I (husband) have been sustaining better erections while I watch or my wife talks about her sex encounters with other men, mostly.

For a time period this became to bother our intimacy, so the solution was to strain back a little bit from our adventures into LS until it all got balanced again. It may work out for you, too.
 
same here,
I have never shared her (she does not dare) but I can not get it up unless I think her with someone else
Oh wait till you get to watch her with another man. You will never get that out of your mind nor will you want too! Best orgasms Ive ever had have been immediately after watching her orgasm with another man then fucking her cum filled pussy! Then the memory movie playing in your mind or if your lucky to record some video is so erotic!
 
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When penetrating was THE goal it became more of a struggle to get really hard and when I managed to, to sustain it for long. I think scaling back, expectation, thinking outside of the box😊, not having that burden pressing down on me has freed us. Outer-course has been such a revelation. I’ll get rock hard and stay that way, with so much more control and composure. Whether she sits on me and slides her lips back and forth along my length or gets me gliding in the crack of her ass she can really move and play with herself freely and roll through several orgasms before I pop. Game changer for us.
 
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As mentioned above, I need to hear my wife tell me about her sexual; encounters with her other lovers that she has enjoyed since we were married. I was the only man she had ever been intimate with until she was 26. Also, need to hear her explain to me that based upon her experiences with 3 of them, she learned how inadequate my performance was. She discovered and then craved their sexual attention that alway proved more satisfying that mine efforts..
Unfortunately I have never been allowed to witness her in bed over the many years I have been her cuck.
 
I cant recall a single time fucking my wife without thinking about one of her bulls using her. Of course wilder sex has taken place when she comes to me with her mouth smelling cum and her pussy dripping it. Lately it happens that when I am pounding her if I think about who has been there doing the same I cum a huge load almost instantly, so I have to put off that thought for a while till she cums on my cock. Your mind is powerful use it the way it better serves your sex life with your honey.
 
Cialis does wonders for me. I noticed awhile back she wasn't turning me on like she used to.
I get hard as a rock now and thicker than usual. She doesn't know I take it but she did comment it's thicker. It's been a big confidence boost for her too.
 
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recently I can’t get hard or the sex drive to fuk my wife alone.

Also need someone else there fuking her or watching, then I can get hard and fuk her. Don’t feel great about this.

Last night we had to call her bf over and I suck his dick while fuk my wife in order to stay hard.

Shall we stop the life style for a while?
Nope, I think a lot of people get tired of fucking the same person.
 
I cant recall a single time fucking my wife without thinking about one of her bulls using her. Of course wilder sex has taken place when she comes to me with her mouth smelling cum and her pussy dripping it. Lately it happens that when I am pounding her if I think about who has been there doing the same I cum a huge load almost instantly, so I have to put off that thought for a while till she cums on my cock. Your mind is powerful use it the way it better serves your sex life with your honey.
The brain is a big sex organ.
 
I cant recall a single time fucking my wife without thinking about one of her bulls using her. Of course wilder sex has taken place when she comes to me with her mouth smelling cum and her pussy dripping it. Lately it happens that when I am pounding her if I think about who has been there doing the same I cum a huge load almost instantly, so I have to put off that thought for a while till she cums on my cock. Your mind is powerful use it the way it better serves your sex life with your honey.
I seem to recall our mfm and mmf fun when we fuck. It does make me desire her more, thinking about seeing her sucking, or spread for another cock.
 
As mentioned above, I need to hear my wife tell me about her sexual; encounters with her other lovers that she has enjoyed since we were married. I was the only man she had ever been intimate with until she was 26. Also, need to hear her explain to me that based upon her experiences with 3 of them, she learned how inadequate my performance was. She discovered and then craved their sexual attention that alway proved more satisfying that mine efforts..
Unfortunately I have never been allowed to witness her in bed over the many years I have been her cuck.
I’m sorry you’ve never had an opportunity to watch her with another man. You sound like an understanding and supportive husband, and deserving of that experience.
 
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Yes, quite frustrating for me, as I would really love the opportunity just to watch. Also it would give the opportunity to discover how really "good" these guys are supposed to be.

Her reasoning for not allowing me to watch, she can't be comfortable in a deeply intimate situation with an audience, especially the thought that it is me. She has been observed by strangers numerous times, often by cops, usually parked in cars, but those encounters were never planned. She did enjoy sucking on one of her lover's cock while he was driving during the afternoon on the interstate. Got a real rush when passing TT drivers blew their air horns in appreciation of the view seen from their cab.

They like the officers were strangers and that is "different". Whatever that means.