My wife likes guys our age, mid 50s to 65(?), not fat, tall dark, handsome. No tats, clean shaven, can carry on an intelligent conversation. Non smokers, guys that don't swear. Successful.
She's a good sport, when we're out she comments on the good looking guys, I comment on the nice classy women.
We are into mfm fun with a guy we know, he is NOT what she finds attractive. He's the UPS guy at her office. She's not into guys in uniform. He's younger, we're mid 50s, he's 34. Not her thing at all. He's the need type, tall, skinny and could benefit from hitting the gym. But he's a really cool guy, divorced, respectful, easy to talk to.
He's been to our home quite a few times, we've been to his place a few times, overnight once. My very conservative wife absolutely loves sex with him. It's not cuckold at all, we take turns with her and she gets really turned on. He's got a big duck and she's loves the sex they have.
Go figure