Between cuckold and stag? Am I the only one?

[Lynnandhubby]

My take on this. Go with the dictionary definition of cuckold - "a man whose wife is sexually unfaithful". Maybe the word 'wittol' would be more accurate for many - "a man who is aware and tolerant of his wife's infidelity". Add in anything else - clean up, humiliation, husband sucking cock in a mmf, cross dressing, wearing a chicken suit and crowing when your wife starts cumming, or whatever - those would be personal "kinks".
To me, saying a cuck has to be caged, suck cock, dressed up, what ever - that just clouds the conversation and makes having a conversation difficult because many are coming into the conversation with different definitions of "cuckold".
We've enjoyed mfmf, mfm, mmf fun. I enjoy cleaning up, hey - that's 'one' of my kinks. But - I've never tied myself up and watched my wife fucking - that would be just plain weird.
But, hey, it's what works for us.

Well said! I’m a cuck - my wife fucks other men - and I wouldn’t have it any other way, I love being a cuck. I love other men enjoying my wife Lynn with or without me and my pleasure come primarily from her being a slut for them. But I use the word cuck in its general sense. I’m not sub (though I am bi), I’ve never been caged (and never will be), I’m not a sissy and have never worn female clothing of any sort. I do enjoy cleaning up Lynn, I enjoy sucking cock, hell I even enjoy getting a good fucking myself but I don’t do any of those things because I’m forced or ordered to do so, I do them because I enjoy them.
The way I see it, if your wife is getting fucked by one man or many, whether you enjoy that or not, whether you/she/the others involved or sub/dom, you’re still a cuck. All the other labels people use -stag, sissy etc are just their personal taking on cuckolding. That’s fine but there aren’t any generalisations that fit everyone and it seems pointless trying to put yourself in a box.
If I had to pick just one label for Lynn and me, it would probably be sexual deviants as it more properly embraces the range of things we enjoy rather than trying to break them down to just one thing. I think that probably applies to a lot of people (most?) on here with their diverse range of kinks and preferences because they are all outside of what is generally considered ‘normal’ even though some are becoming more mainstream due to exposure on the internet.
James

 

[Despairwefeel]

Try being Bi and in that situation in the middle and married to a hotwife lol

In that situation right here

 

[happyhubbymi]

Well said! I’m a cuck - my wife fucks other men - and I wouldn’t have it any other way, I love being a cuck. I love other men enjoying my wife Lynn with or without me and my pleasure come primarily from her being a slut for them. But I use the word cuck in its general sense. I’m not sub (though I am bi), I’ve never been caged (and never will be), I’m not a sissy and have never worn female clothing of any sort. I do enjoy cleaning up Lynn, I enjoy sucking cock, hell I even enjoy getting a good fucking myself but I don’t do any of those things because I’m forced or ordered to do so, I do them because I enjoy them.
The way I see it, if your wife is getting fucked by one man or many, whether you enjoy that or not, whether you/she/the others involved or sub/dom, you’re still a cuck. All the other labels people use -stag, sissy etc are just their personal taking on cuckolding. That’s fine but there aren’t any generalisations that fit everyone and it seems pointless trying to put yourself in a box.
If I had to pick just one label for Lynn and me, it would probably be sexual deviants as it more properly embraces the range of things we enjoy rather than trying to break them down to just one thing. I think that probably applies to a lot of people (most?) on here with their diverse range of kinks and preferences because they are all outside of what is generally considered ‘normal’ even though some are becoming more mainstream due to exposure on the internet.
James

Thanks, James. Lots of sexual predalictions out in the world. nobody is into all of them. but I suppose a few couples may be into none of them. I find it hard to imagine. We're not interested in anything that makes us less, though. I guess we're pretty vanilla! creampie cleanup - yes, PLEASE 100%.
mfm, fmf, mmf, ffm - 100%.
anal or BSDM? not for us.
dates out with others for her? yes, whatever she wants, 100% .. I like to hear about what she did while I am licking her and reclaiming her! 100%.
To each their own, so long as nobody gets hurt... that doesn't want to be.

 

[Lynnandhubby]

Thanks, James. Lots of sexual predalictions out in the world. nobody is into all of them. but I suppose a few couples may be into none of them. I find it hard to imagine. We're not interested in anything that makes us less, though. I guess we're pretty vanilla! creampie cleanup - yes, PLEASE 100%.
mfm, fmf, mmf, ffm - 100%.
anal or BSDM? not for us.
dates out with others for her? yes, whatever she wants, 100% .. I like to hear about what she did while I am licking her and reclaiming her! 100%.
To each their own, so long as nobody gets hurt... that doesn't want to be.

Yep as long as everyone involved is having fun. Beyond that labels don’t mean very much.
J.