Best source to find a bull for wife’s first experience?

[Myhubbysharesme]

My wife is close to being ready for her first hotwife experience.
When she is I know she will ask “do you have someone in mind?” And a handful of questions regarding this person, and rightfully so.
Where is a good place to begin looking for this partner for my wife? Want to find someone I can get familiar with to ensure there’s a mutual understanding of expectations and willing to answer questions that I or she may have to make her feel comfortable. Not trying to find a random who’s not familiar with the lifestyle but someone that’s experienced and open to being somewhat available for when my wife’s ready. Thank you for any input. Greatly appreciated

 

[CHIBLKSTUD]

Bull with over 20 years experience(started in my late 20's) here...

I'd recommend looking into some actual PAID lifestyle sites. The one you should choose depends a lot on your location.
And take in mind...living in, or willingness to travel to a major or major-ish area may be necessary if you happen to be in a small town situation. That being said, what lifestyle sites provide are a chance to view a potential bull's profile and pics(and in some cases even vids).
Not only that...you can also see what he's written about himself(which is so important) AND even what other couples have said about him.
All of those should give you a pretty good idea of who you're dealing with.

As for being "somewhat available" no one's gonna be at your beck and call...if you're truly interested in this lifestyle, then take the time to talk to your wife, and make an actual plan. Once you've got a plan...it'll be much easier to get a REAL and established bull.
IMHO

 

[Myhubbysharesme]

Bull with over 20 years experience(started in my late 20's) here...

I'd recommend looking into some actual PAID lifestyle sites. The one you should choose depends a lot on your location.
And take in mind...living in, or willingness to travel to a major or major-ish area may be necessary if you happen to be in a small town situation. That being said, what lifestyle sites provide are a chance to view a potential bull's profile and pics(and in some cases even vids).
Not only that...you can also see what he's written about himself(which is so important) AND even what other couples have said about him.
All of those should give you a pretty good idea of who you're dealing with.

As for being "somewhat available" no one's gonna be at your beck and call...if you're truly interested in this lifestyle, then take the time to talk to your wife, and make an actual plan. Once you've got a plan...it'll be much easier to get a REAL and established bull.
IMHO

Thank you very much for the info. I appreciate it

 

[Siesta Swingers]

Thank you very much for the info. I appreciate it

Its expensive but so many newbies will take a vacation to Desire Resort Riviera Mya Mexico. We went there a few years ago and found the food / lodging and atmosphere first class. Its a very safe secure environment for sexual exploration with like minded couples. With all the erotic naked people around and great parties Im sure she will feel relaxed and more open to adding another man to your play time.

 

[CHIBLKSTUD]

Its expensive but so many newbies will take a vacation to Desire Resort Riviera Mya Mexico. We went there a few years ago and found the food / lodging and atmosphere first class. Its a very safe secure environment for sexual exploration with like minded couples. With all the erotic naked people around and great parties Im sure she will feel relaxed and more open to adding another man to your play time.

That's a couples only place. The OP said the wife is looking for a hotwife experience.

 

[Kel45bi]

Let her pick…

 

[Teddy Long]

Let her pick…

Is that what you did?

 

[Kel45bi]

Yes, I actually …it’s a long story, but my husband knew that I thought one of his friends was sexy as hell

 

[Siesta Swingers]

That's a couples only place. The OP said the wife is looking for a hotwife experience.

Many many husbands will happily fuck a wife at Desire. I know We’ve spent several vacations there. Hall passes are very common. So if the Husband does not want another woman. No problem.

 

[Siesta Swingers]

That's a couples only place. The OP said the wife is looking for a hotwife experience.

Yes I assume the couple will travel there just like we do and the wife can easily have a large group of other men, husbands who will happily fuck her and the hotwifes husband can watch or join it or enjoy a drink at the pool. Just because no single men are allowed does not mean that men that come as a couple only enjoy couples play. Far from it.
Every possible variation of play occurs there.
Many couples play seperately or just one partner plays. Many wifes allow there husband to play but the wife does not. She enjoys the resort and atmosphere. We routinely vacation with swinging couples, cruises and resorts and my wife has lots of opportunity to play while I just watch or join in MFM fun. Just ask the dude she’s attracted to. Do you have a “Hall Pass” to play alone with my wife? I a swinger is presented with this opportunity Id say 90% of the time his wife will say go for it baby!

 

[CHIBLKSTUD]

Many many husbands will happily fuck a wife at Desire. I know We’ve spent several vacations there. Hall passes are very common. So if the Husband does not want another woman. No problem.

My response was based on what the OP said. IMHO a couples resort doesn't really seem like what he was looking for.

 

[nobs99]

Started as a bull in my 20's and to be very candid, I believe once a husband allows his wife to be shared, she cant be unfucked.
While I obviously love to be with attached women, being the other guy, I see the dynamics change and the husband will more than likely never be the main guy again. I get the different arrangements but I am in a marriage and perhaps a hypocrite because my wife is not in the lifestyle.

 

[Kel45bi]

Started as a bull in my 20's and to be very candid, I believe once a husband allows his wife to be shared, she cant be unfucked.
While I obviously love to be with attached women, being the other guy, I see the dynamics change and the husband will more than likely never be the main guy again. I get the different arrangements but I am in a marriage and perhaps a hypocrite because my wife is not in the lifestyle.

Not sure about that

 

[Jazthing]

Only speaking for us we found that our first trip to Hedonism was the catalyst that led to my wife becoming a hot wife. At the time we'd been married only a few years and my wife had only been fucked by me since we got married.
However after a day on the nude beach I got to see another side of her when a single guy began flirting with her on the beach and then she went out into the water with him and allowed him to fuck her in the water. She then asked me if I minded if she went with him to his room so he could fuck her again. I was also able to watch him fuck her several times during the week we were there. Since then she's been fucked by dozens of other men and currently has a boyfriend who fucks her every couple of months.

 

[SmallHubbyTexas]

My wife picked her own. She picked someone she was comfortable with and was attracted to.

 

[Sharedwife16]

My wife used NewbieNudes to get to know the guys she spread her legs for .
She's still on NN, and has currently 42 messages to reply to .

Watching her looking at other mens profiles and having so many men writing to her, telling her they want to fuck her was so hot.
Reading the messages between the men and my wife, reading as the subject progressed towards her agreeing to meet them to have sex was such a turn on.

I always had my line of communication with the ones that were going to meet my wife,and found it amusing how they'd still be polite when talking to my wife, but would open up with me, telling me how they can't wait to give my wife a damn good pounding, and cum fill her married cunt 🤣

 

[Loyaltoher]

Started as a bull in my 20's and to be very candid, I believe once a husband allows his wife to be shared, she cant be unfucked.
While I obviously love to be with attached women, being the other guy, I see the dynamics change and the husband will more than likely never be the main guy again. I get the different arrangements but I am in a marriage and perhaps a hypocrite because my wife is not in the lifestyle.

You are absolutely correct. The difference is the vixen vs the hot wife and the stag vs the cuckold. Once the cuck, you are never the main man in the relationship.

 

[Cuckcoupleforfun]

Friends

 

[Stevens4fun]

After the two of you agree that she can enjoy other males and what your role might be, she'll feel a bit more empowered to look at guys. She may meet the right guy most anywhere during her normal day. My wife and I live in a suburban area of S. CA and she met one of her best lovers when she was dropping the kids off at the childcare place. A single father was there doing the same thing. They started talking and two weeks later were in bed in our extra bedroom. Coworkers were a good source for my wife, as she'd worked with all of them and knew their circumstances in life. Coworkers (one of them her boss) were our best source. As the husband, I was more reassured knowing that my wife knew the guys she was going to have sex with.

 

[GlosCouple]

I used the old Craigslist personals, which unfortunately isn’t available anymore. I saw a guy on there looking for a BJ. I messaged him a couple of times then agreed that we’d meet him.

I told my wife what I’d planned on the day (she already knew I wanted to watch her give another guy a BJ) She agreed to do it without even seeing him first, although I’d seen pics of him.

Within 5 mins of meeting him she had his cock in her mouth! Full story our my profile.