So after lots and lots of talking I think my wife and I are going to a swingers club to just watch or be watched. Anyone else start this way? Where did it eventually lead?
My wife is very vanilla and I am more kinky. We both are unsure about actually sharing her (even if she fully and truly wants to) and thought this would be a safe way to experience the "lifestyle." However, she doesnt like being the center of attention so has some reservations. My wife also needs (and is also made uncomfortable by this) an emotional connection with the person she is having sex with. Though she has also said she can have just sex for the sake of just having sex. I want her to act like a slut but I respect her for not actually being a slut. I would have never married her if she was. When I fantasize about her having sex with someone I get turned on but then also think that my wife is special to me, the ...... of my kids, and do I really want someone I dont really know fucking her. Maybe if it was a friend or someone we knew it would be better but on the otherhand it would be weird too.
This is really confusing. Any insight?
My wife is very vanilla and I am more kinky. We both are unsure about actually sharing her (even if she fully and truly wants to) and thought this would be a safe way to experience the "lifestyle." However, she doesnt like being the center of attention so has some reservations. My wife also needs (and is also made uncomfortable by this) an emotional connection with the person she is having sex with. Though she has also said she can have just sex for the sake of just having sex. I want her to act like a slut but I respect her for not actually being a slut. I would have never married her if she was. When I fantasize about her having sex with someone I get turned on but then also think that my wife is special to me, the ...... of my kids, and do I really want someone I dont really know fucking her. Maybe if it was a friend or someone we knew it would be better but on the otherhand it would be weird too.
This is really confusing. Any insight?
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