Anyone prefer that she has a serious affair instead of casual ones?

[calicolombia69]

Strangely, since she turned 50, she has been having about same or even more sex dates than when she was 20-30. Also, I think, thanks to 2nd boob job, ass job, lipo and C-section tattoo. Unfortunately 99% of her affairs are one-one and me not directly involved. But that is another story.

We have spent a small fortune on all the bodycon dresses you can find on chicme.com and shein. And she willingly wears them all to the bars. pantyless and braless. Nipples show thru and you will also get an eyefull of ass if she has to climb stairs.

Point here is that lately, I AM THE ONE who has been losing interest in her pursuits. Maybe my age or maybe they are losing significance. I prefer to take her out myself and see how guys gawk at the bars and then bring her home. I am satisfied to have seen that others desire her.

That was, until very recently. One of her bulls has been quite a drama queen. For over a year, she has all but had to plead him to find time to fuck her. She kept dumping him but found herself going back to him time an again; like a battered spouse! Ffwd: he has finally changed and now has her stay overnight and fucks her up to 3 times each stay. He is finally cuming inside her. We think that he believes she is 40 or so and still fertile!. She does long young for her age. So now, she is really starting to like him more and more. She swallows his cum over and over again. Something she rarely does with anyone to health concerns. (unless ...... or just too horny to stop herself)

Now suddenly, I am back to getting hardons again! I am getting hardons from feeling that I am truly sharing her. It is so different to listen to her say that she longs to be in his bed again vs an inconsequential sex story with a one-night guy.

We are beyond the risk of her leaving me for him. He is definitely not into a serious affair and we are grandparents! Thanks for reading

 

[My redhed 4 bbc]

Regular lover - or serious affair - is not on,y easier for everyone but is safer too. My wife always has sex ‘bare’ with her regular lover. She prefers it that way, he prefers it that way, and so do I. None of us is worrying about health issues. It’s the best way.

 

[thebeginner]

Strangely, since she turned 50, she has been having about same or even more sex dates than when she was 20-30. Also, I think, thanks to 2nd boob job, ass job, lipo and C-section tattoo. Unfortunately 99% of her affairs are one-one and me not directly involved. But that is another story.

We have spent a small fortune on all the bodycon dresses you can find on chicme.com and shein. And she willingly wears them all to the bars. pantyless and braless. Nipples show thru and you will also get an eyefull of ass if she has to climb stairs.

Point here is that lately, I AM THE ONE who has been losing interest in her pursuits. Maybe my age or maybe they are losing significance. I prefer to take her out myself and see how guys gawk at the bars and then bring her home. I am satisfied to have seen that others desire her.

That was, until very recently. One of her bulls has been quite a drama queen. For over a year, she has all but had to plead him to find time to fuck her. She kept dumping him but found herself going back to him time an again; like a battered spouse! Ffwd: he has finally changed and now has her stay overnight and fucks her up to 3 times each stay. He is finally cuming inside her. We think that he believes she is 40 or so and still fertile!. She does long young for her age. So now, she is really starting to like him more and more. She swallows his cum over and over again. Something she rarely does with anyone to health concerns. (unless ...... or just too horny to stop herself)

Now suddenly, I am back to getting hardons again! I am getting hardons from feeling that I am truly sharing her. It is so different to listen to her say that she longs to be in his bed again vs an inconsequential sex story with a one-night guy.

We are beyond the risk of her leaving me for him. He is definitely not into a serious affair and we are grandparents! Thanks for reading

That's amazing! So envious! I'm hoping one day my wife can establish a serious long-term relationship with a bull. For now, she wants to keep things less serious and have sex irregularly with her bull. I would love it if we could establish a serious poly relationship with a bull (or two 😍).

I've read that women tend to have attachment feelings when they have sex. I wonder if it's because of this reason she's limiting sex with him. I would love it if she developed feelings for him. I think sex gets so much better when there's intimacy and attachment.

 

[caribvistors]

My wife's LTRs has served her well over the many years. She claims that she never became emotionally involved with a lover and there is no evidence to the contrary, with one exception. He was a single man that she knew from her high school years where they went on a few dance dates. Over the years she brought him up numerous times, wondering where he was a in life, etc. They reconnected thru her work about 20 years later. She had a different relationship with him than she did with the others.

I believe that he was in some degree in love with her. Always mentioned to her, if she wasn't married he would like to be her boyfriend and maybe more. Responded to him, "if her circumstances were different, she would like to explore that arrangement". She repeatedly told me that he was the best sex she had ever enjoyed and she couldn't seem to get enough. A few times when I brought her to an intense organism she cried out his name. Their affair endured over 20 years, during which she was actually dating a married guy on the side for a few of those years, something that she was able to conceal from him. So was it a serious or a casual affair? Only she can answer that.

 

[Hot4mywife]

I enjoy both, long term affairs and spot fucks, my man usually joins me, either watching participating or servicing in some capacity as have been mentioned long term guys have their benefits , and I have. Few who even have a key to the house and are welcome to drop by anytime, with the understanding if we are entertaining or busy we may not play but if we or I’m home alone it is welcome to my life

Have the guys with keys ever shown up at the same time?

 

[Hot4mywife]

Strangely, since she turned 50, she has been having about same or even more sex dates than when she was 20-30. Also, I think, thanks to 2nd boob job, ass job, lipo and C-section tattoo. Unfortunately 99% of her affairs are one-one and me not directly involved. But that is another story.

We have spent a small fortune on all the bodycon dresses you can find on chicme.com and shein. And she willingly wears them all to the bars. pantyless and braless. Nipples show thru and you will also get an eyefull of ass if she has to climb stairs.

Point here is that lately, I AM THE ONE who has been losing interest in her pursuits. Maybe my age or maybe they are losing significance. I prefer to take her out myself and see how guys gawk at the bars and then bring her home. I am satisfied to have seen that others desire her.

That was, until very recently. One of her bulls has been quite a drama queen. For over a year, she has all but had to plead him to find time to fuck her. She kept dumping him but found herself going back to him time an again; like a battered spouse! Ffwd: he has finally changed and now has her stay overnight and fucks her up to 3 times each stay. He is finally cuming inside her. We think that he believes she is 40 or so and still fertile!. She does long young for her age. So now, she is really starting to like him more and more. She swallows his cum over and over again. Something she rarely does with anyone to health concerns. (unless ...... or just too horny to stop herself)

Now suddenly, I am back to getting hardons again! I am getting hardons from feeling that I am truly sharing her. It is so different to listen to her say that she longs to be in his bed again vs an inconsequential sex story with a one-night guy.

We are beyond the risk of her leaving me for him. He is definitely not into a serious affair and we are grandparents! Thanks for reading

We both have enjoyed most when she has a serious affair with a boyfriend for several reasons.

After trust is built and we both get to know him, I and her lovers want her to spend some time alone with him. It's fun to mix it up with her dating us both for an evening and the two of them going off alone overnight.

Also my wife and I enjoy him cumming inside her body or where ever he wants. We would never do that with a stranger or casual one night stand.

Like most women the sex is much better with a man she feels emotionally connected to. If the sex is better for her, I know it will be better for him.

I know many husband's only want their wives to get fucked, but I want they to fuck and make love.

Lastly, my wife doesn't describe her sex life and relationship as graphically as I would like. For this reason, I want her boyfriend to also be my friend and be comfortable telling me details.

 

[Stevens4fun]

Our experience echoes that of "Hot4mywife," above. My wife and I met while each of us was divorced, she 29, me 39, and before we married (while we were still dating others plus having sex ourselves) we shared our fantasies and our views of bringing outsiders into the marriage bed. We were both for it. My wife had experienced a couple of fmf scenarios with her landlord and the landlord's spouse, but my wife was really interested in mfm. We enjoyed a few with a sexy male coworker of hers and as things developed we both wanted a guy she could be closer to and have sex with in our marital bed. We just lucked out as there was a couple of my wife's coworkers who were really interested - quality guys with great personalities. They were married and so once or twice a month was about as often as they could join us. We were at a company Christmas party one night and one of these guys followed us to our house, where I watched him bring my wife to orgasm on our sofa, kissing her with his finger in her vagina. This was her first orgasm with him.

These affairs overlapped a bit, and one of them went 9 years. Over the months since we had our first mfm fun, my wife was more and more interested in one-on-one sex with her lover and really grew to like his overnights in our bed, but with me ...... elsewhere in the house. At one time, she even told me it "would probably be better for all three of us if I wasn't in her any more." This was how we all found the best sex - all three of us benefited. Seeing her half naked in the arms of her lover, or displaying so much open affection for him was an awesome rush not to mention the fact that at any time she could have conceived with one of her lovers. We are still married 30 years later.

Incidentally, the word "cuckold" was not one we used, - back when we were evolving into the "sharing" lifestyle, "cuckold" wasn't yet the trend or fad that it is now. We were just looking for more sex, more orgasms and more intense sexual experiences for my wife, as she wasn't experiencing orgasm with me in her. Early in our relationship my wife let me know that she wasn't cumming with me in her and would need another man from time to time. Could I live that? She asked. Having feelings for her lovers really made the sex better for her and turned me on too. Women can love more than one man - they are capable of so much more than us guys realize when we first marry (talking about then, - not necessarily now).

The most challenging aspect of a hotwife who is in a long-term relationship with her lover(s) is finding the time to make it all happen. It's the time pressures that add the stress to a marriage. And when there's kids in the house, the fun has to take place elsewhere (once the kids are old enough to realize there's something funny going on in mom and dad's bedroom after we go to bed at night.

 

[toolman2c]

Our experience echoes that of "Hot4mywife," above. My wife and I met while each of us was divorced, she 29, me 39, and before we married (while we were still dating others plus having sex ourselves) we shared our fantasies and our views of bringing outsiders into the marriage bed. We were both for it. My wife had experienced a couple of fmf scenarios with her landlord and the landlord's spouse, but my wife was really interested in mfm. We enjoyed a few with a sexy male coworker of hers and as things developed we both wanted a guy she could be closer to and have sex with in our marital bed. We just lucked out as there was a couple of my wife's coworkers who were really interested - quality guys with great personalities. They were married and so once or twice a month was about as often as they could join us. We were at a company Christmas party one night and one of these guys followed us to our house, where I watched him bring my wife to orgasm on our sofa, kissing her with his finger in her vagina. This was her first orgasm with him.

These affairs overlapped a bit, and one of them went 9 years. Over the months since we had our first mfm fun, my wife was more and more interested in one-on-one sex with her lover and really grew to like his overnights in our bed, but with me ...... elsewhere in the house. At one time, she even told me it "would probably be better for all three of us if I wasn't in her any more." This was how we all found the best sex - all three of us benefited. Seeing her half naked in the arms of her lover, or displaying so much open affection for him was an awesome rush not to mention the fact that at any time she could have conceived with one of her lovers. We are still married 30 years later.

Incidentally, the word "cuckold" was not one we used, - back when we were evolving into the "sharing" lifestyle, "cuckold" wasn't yet the trend or fad that it is now. We were just looking for more sex, more orgasms and more intense sexual experiences for my wife, as she wasn't experiencing orgasm with me in her. Early in our relationship my wife let me know that she wasn't cumming with me in her and would need another man from time to time. Could I live that? She asked. Having feelings for her lovers really made the sex better for her and turned me on too. Women can love more than one man - they are capable of so much more than us guys realize when we first marry (talking about then, - not necessarily now).

The most challenging aspect of a hotwife who is in a long-term relationship with her lover(s) is finding the time to make it all happen. It's the time pressures that add the stress to a marriage. And when there's kids in the house, the fun has to take place elsewhere (once the kids are old enough to realize there's something funny going on in mom and dad's bedroom after we go to bed at night.

eXciting story, you say 'once i was no longer in her' ,, im curious, does that mean you are denied penetrated sex with her? Does she help get you off in other ways?

 

[Stevens4fun]

eXciting story, you say 'once i was no longer in her' ,, im curious, does that mean you are denied penetrated sex with her? Does she help get you off in other ways?

Yes and yes. No cage, etc. we didn't yet know such things existed. My wife loves me and always wanted to make sure I was having orgasms too. For us, it didn't play out like so many of the relationships we read about - my wife told me I should get a girlfriend, that she would be ok with that as long as it didn't impact my feelings for her. But I didn't want another woman. Like many of the guys in here, I wanted to facilitate my wife's pleasure with men who turned her on and I needed to know she was having orgasms with them. And if I was just bursting with horniness or even if I simply asked for it, my wife would help me cum with a prostate massage or a sexy BJ. After she was deep into the relationship with her man, I was having more erections (thinking about them all the time) and BJs become more frequent.

 

[calicolombia69]

eXciting story, you say 'once i was no longer in her' ,, im curious, does that mean you are denied penetrated sex with her? Does she help get you off in other ways?

Similar experiences. With one of them, we decided it was better if I kept my pecker out of her. I was relegated to eating up creampies. She wasn't into me being bi-, but she did enjoy orgasms when I licked up the cum inside her. Maybe becase she felt she was the center of attention.

My exclusion gave the affair deeper meaning; I think. He was on business form out of town for 2 months. So we would take him on weekend trips to see the surroundings. What a treat to see them as a couple, kissing, embracing, holding hands, while I strode 3 steps behind.

She missed him dearly when his time came to leave. I felt guilty of penetrating her again. I apologized. Said, I wish it were him and not me. She agreed! What I did notice was how much wider her pussy had become. It was 2 straight months of a much wider cock in her. The inner vagina does adjust to a cock size; even if the lower/outer area still closes up again after each session

 

[Stevens4fun]

My wife and I found that not allowing me in her made sex with her BF even better for all three of us. It comes down to that.