Longest relationship I had was 11 years wiht my Boss/Lover. It ended recently due to COVID. We started as "only when we travel for business" Lovers for the first couple of years, then we decided we wanted to be full time any time Lovers, which required I admit the affair to my husband (he suspected), and it morph'd over the years to where we were like wife/husband when we traveled: he even bought me a diamond ring that I wore when we were away together, we rented bridal suites and let everyone think we were newlyweds, and we even tried to get me pregnant by him at one point, going so far as to consider fertility ......!! Was great fun while it lasted, but he got weird over COVID.
J (the wife)