A Catholic Wife's Decay

[coastalkid]

Wow! Almost caught by the brother, caught before by her Mom (if I recall correctly, but you covered for yourself with that one). I completely get the thrill of the risk it heightens things. Do you find yourself seeking more risks because of the thrill factor, or is it just circumstance and the way things play out sometimes? I love your little glimpses into your lifestyle. You guys are perfect for each other or at least it sounds that way!

 

[Catholic_Wife]

Wow! Almost caught by the brother, caught before by her Mom (if I recall correctly, but you covered for yourself with that one). I completely get the thrill of the risk it heightens things. Do you find yourself seeking more risks because of the thrill factor, or is it just circumstance and the way things play out sometimes? I love your little glimpses into your lifestyle. You guys are perfect for each other or at least it sounds that way!

That time it was wife's Grandma who caught her in the garage (if it was her Mom maybe we wouldn't be here so gracefully lol)!

We both love the thrills from some risky situations and exhibitionism. Sometimes it is seek on purpose, but mostly the LS just bring those circumstances on random or from time to time.

Husband likes it but is not too inclined to turn risky ideas into fruition. Wife is more likely to make them happen so the help from male friends comes in handy.

 

[wantingnoregret]

That time it was wife's Grandma who caught her in the garage (if it was her Mom maybe we wouldn't be here so gracefully lol)!

We both love the thrills from some risky situations and exhibitionism. Sometimes it is seek on purpose, but mostly the LS just bring those circumstances on random or from time to time.

Husband likes it but is not too inclined to turn risky ideas into fruition. Wife is more likely to make them happen so the help from male friends comes in handy.

Well gladly help you with a little bit of risky sexual exposure

 

[Catholic_Wife]

Well gladly help you with a little bit of risky sexual exposure

Do you live near the alligators, Grandpa?

 

[wantingnoregret]

Do you live near the alligators, Grandpa?

Have to drive a few miles to find any Alligators for me but we can find somewhere within 30 minutes if you are wanting alligators to watch us have a little bit of outdoor kinky perverted sexcapades

 

[Catholic_Wife]

Hola,

It is wife and I write now about some things I did with my cousins in the past. Very in past I mean. I was early in this I guess.

I posted some about it in many other threads but friends keep asking more about what I did then. Maybe because I lost virginity to one of my older cousins. Besides older he was like the type who is fun and daring to the girls and had a rocker kind of looks. Yes I had a big crush on him and naively thought it would be possible like in a miracle for me to became his girlfriend. Of course it did not happened.

But we started touching each other kissing and making out soon. I was really young, I was not even in high school. I always felt an enormous desire to please and to be the womanly who gives more pleasure than others girls for men. To be better than others at kissing and having sex. And that soon led me to let my cousin take my clothes off and kiss my entire body.

He would dare by showing me his hard cock but he did not forced me to do anything. One day after I got inspired by watching some videos on the internet, i went to see him and without warning I started sucking his cock. I still remember that he squirmed all over. He loved it. I do not remember if I swallowed everything I took from him but I tried hard not to show surprise and smiled showing that I liked it too.

The naughty mine cousin already had a girlfriend and had sex with her. So he started pressuring me to do it in my pussy. I did not wanted to at first and asked him to leave his girf first which he never did. Thing is I could not hold it. A very strong desire to feel what it was like to have real sex grew inside me. I dreamed about it and I felt like I wanted to do it with him for the first time.

When we finally did it, it was really good. It was not traumatic and I only felt a little pain the first and second times. I spent months maybe a year seeing him every afternoon when my aunt left the house to do something far away. We would go to the room in backyard that had an escape route by the backyard and we would have sex there. We would play that we were kinky lovers.

I felt like a secret sex goddess. While my schoolmates were still trying out their first kisses here and there or their first hands inside their panties or bra, I was doing it like a woman. Well I was only not pregnant by a miracle or the work of fate. He did not used condom and came all over my body. I do not advice that to girls out there.

I remember that one time he showed up with some really sexy panties and asked me to put them on while he fucked me really horny. Then I asked whose underwear they were since the piece was not new and he shamelessly confessed to me that they were his ...... underwear. The naughty made me fuck him in my own aunt lingerie.

I liked that.

Over time I became interested in other guys and it dawned on me that we would never date me for real as a true girlfriend. Even so we continued for long time making out and having sex whenever the desire and opportunity arose. I later ended up having it with another cousin of mine who found out about everything and came to hit on me. In fact I ended up having a thing with them both.

That is it. i hope you liked it! Excuse any text or English errors and the lack of a photo. My husband did not revised it now.

**kisses

 

[wantingnoregret]

Hola,

It is wife and I write now about some things I did with my cousins in the past. Very in past I mean. I was early in this I guess.

I posted some about it in many other threads but friends keep asking more about what I did then. Maybe because I lost virginity to one of my older cousins. Besides older he was like the type who is fun and daring to the girls and had a rocker kind of looks. Yes I had a big crush on him and naively thought it would be possible like in a miracle for me to became his girlfriend. Of course it did not happened.

But we started touching each other kissing and making out soon. I was really young, I was not even in high school. I always felt an enormous desire to please and to be the womanly who gives more pleasure than others girls for men. To be better than others at kissing and having sex. And that soon led me to let my cousin take my clothes off and kiss my entire body.

He would dare by showing me his hard cock but he did not forced me to do anything. One day after I got inspired by watching some videos on the internet, i went to see him and without warning I started sucking his cock. I still remember that he squirmed all over. He loved it. I do not remember if I swallowed everything I took from him but I tried hard not to show surprise and smiled showing that I liked it too.

The naughty mine cousin already had a girlfriend and had sex with her. So he started pressuring me to do it in my pussy. I did not wanted to at first and asked him to leave his girf first which he never did. Thing is I could not hold it. A very strong desire to feel what it was like to have real sex grew inside me. I dreamed about it and I felt like I wanted to do it with him for the first time.

When we finally did it, it was really good. It was not traumatic and I only felt a little pain the first and second times. I spent months maybe a year seeing him every afternoon when my aunt left the house to do something far away. We would go to the room in backyard that had an escape route by the backyard and we would have sex there. We would play that we were kinky lovers.

I felt like a secret sex goddess. While my schoolmates were still trying out their first kisses here and there or their first hands inside their panties or bra, I was doing it like a woman. Well I was only not pregnant by a miracle or the work of fate. He did not used condom and came all over my body. I do not advice that to girls out there.

I remember that one time he showed up with some really sexy panties and asked me to put them on while he fucked me really horny. Then I asked whose underwear they were since the piece was not new and he shamelessly confessed to me that they were his ...... underwear. The naughty made me fuck him in my own aunt lingerie.

I liked that.

Over time I became interested in other guys and it dawned on me that we would never date me for real as a true girlfriend. Even so we continued for long time making out and having sex whenever the desire and opportunity arose. I later ended up having it with another cousin of mine who found out about everything and came to hit on me. In fact I ended up having a thing with them both.

That is it. i hope you liked it! Excuse any text or English errors and the lack of a photo. My husband did not revised it now.

**kisses

You dirty kinky perverted slut you. Just exactly the way you should be.

 

[Bambam96]

Hola,

It is wife and I write now about some things I did with my cousins in the past. Very in past I mean. I was early in this I guess.

I posted some about it in many other threads but friends keep asking more about what I did then. Maybe because I lost virginity to one of my older cousins. Besides older he was like the type who is fun and daring to the girls and had a rocker kind of looks. Yes I had a big crush on him and naively thought it would be possible like in a miracle for me to became his girlfriend. Of course it did not happened.

But we started touching each other kissing and making out soon. I was really young, I was not even in high school. I always felt an enormous desire to please and to be the womanly who gives more pleasure than others girls for men. To be better than others at kissing and having sex. And that soon led me to let my cousin take my clothes off and kiss my entire body.

He would dare by showing me his hard cock but he did not forced me to do anything. One day after I got inspired by watching some videos on the internet, i went to see him and without warning I started sucking his cock. I still remember that he squirmed all over. He loved it. I do not remember if I swallowed everything I took from him but I tried hard not to show surprise and smiled showing that I liked it too.

The naughty mine cousin already had a girlfriend and had sex with her. So he started pressuring me to do it in my pussy. I did not wanted to at first and asked him to leave his girf first which he never did. Thing is I could not hold it. A very strong desire to feel what it was like to have real sex grew inside me. I dreamed about it and I felt like I wanted to do it with him for the first time.

When we finally did it, it was really good. It was not traumatic and I only felt a little pain the first and second times. I spent months maybe a year seeing him every afternoon when my aunt left the house to do something far away. We would go to the room in backyard that had an escape route by the backyard and we would have sex there. We would play that we were kinky lovers.

I felt like a secret sex goddess. While my schoolmates were still trying out their first kisses here and there or their first hands inside their panties or bra, I was doing it like a woman. Well I was only not pregnant by a miracle or the work of fate. He did not used condom and came all over my body. I do not advice that to girls out there.

I remember that one time he showed up with some really sexy panties and asked me to put them on while he fucked me really horny. Then I asked whose underwear they were since the piece was not new and he shamelessly confessed to me that they were his ...... underwear. The naughty made me fuck him in my own aunt lingerie.

I liked that.

Over time I became interested in other guys and it dawned on me that we would never date me for real as a true girlfriend. Even so we continued for long time making out and having sex whenever the desire and opportunity arose. I later ended up having it with another cousin of mine who found out about everything and came to hit on me. In fact I ended up having a thing with them both.

That is it. i hope you liked it! Excuse any text or English errors and the lack of a photo. My husband did not revised it now.

**kisses

You keep fucking him? For so long?

 

[Catholic_Wife]

You keep fucking him? For so long?

hola

I keep seeing my cousin like this for maybe two years. But then I had sex with him other times in other situations.

 

[Bambam96]

hola

I keep seeing my cousin like this for maybe two years. But then I had sex with him other times in other situations.

How would you differ in sex? If I may ask

Like you and your husband in ways or attitudes in sex?

 

[Phun Times 727]

Thank you! This makes total sense to me. When you first start ANY new activities of ANY kind you are in unfamiliar territory. It is always wise to anticipate and prepare for potential problems whether they are real or imagined. I would guess that once the husband and wife are committed to "playing by those rules" there is a sense of confidence that naturally occurs and revising/adjusting your initial rules is not a monumental change.

I would also guess that "just ok" isn't really satisfactory in the long run. "Just ok" seems like it would be giving an opportunity to develop into "not so ok" and progress into "not good" if left unaddressed.

Sounds like you guys have got it figured out!

We started with just a loose agreement and it sort of worked as we know each other well enough not to push too far. But, how far is far enough and how far is too far? We decided we needed guidelines after our therapist asked what our rules are and we couldn't really define it. We felt like idiots in that moment. So we sat down and figured out a few things.

First and foremost the marriage is above everything. We both agree that we value our relationship and seek to preserve it above all else. We have one goal and that is safe erotic fun to augment our sex life.

I don't know if hard and fast rules exactly work for us as neither of us do well with rules, we'd break em just to break em. This is also a dynamic thing that sort of evolves over time. Comfort levels change and maybe you get a bit more adventurous. Instead of rules we decided on safe words that we can use at any time, either before in planning stages or in the moment.

We have three basic safe words that are also code words.

First is "feelings", this is a code yellow safe word. It means one of us has certain emotions that need to be looked at. Its a slow down and talk things over safe word. This is a "talk" safe word. Discussion can resolve the issue and get us back to the goal. Loosely it means slow down.

Second is "adjust", this is a code orange safe word. It means something has come up that we need to alter, something that is happening or planned to happen. One of us is not comfortable with it and we need to adjust to bring comfort back to things. This is an "action" safe word. Actions are required beyond just talking to get us back to the goal but if actions are agreed on we can adjust and proceed. loosely it means a stop is needed before proceeding.

Third is "nuclear", this is a code red safe word. This means we cannot proceed, it is a deal breaker, pull the plug. There is not a way to get it back on track in the given situation. This is an action to stop all action safe word. One or both us us cannot proceed, no way to talk or adjust action to maintain our objective, things need to cease and we separate ourselves from the situation to avoid any further issues. Loosely it means pull a u turn. As ominous as it sounds it does not have to be reserved. If it needs to be used either of us can initiate it and the other will respect and comply.

The idea of the safe words is we may not both evolve at the same rate or at all and this keeps things fun but safe and respectful for both of us.

This is a CRAZY hobby/fetish/lifestyle, whatever you want to call it. Its like we are playing with fire for fun like in the circus but even the circus has some guidelines. Not saying this will work for everyone but it is what we have in place now and so far it actually has helped. Nobody has to sit around with a frown not saying anything or remain awake at night unable to bring up a topic that is bothering them.

 

[coroner7]

Have you ever been so turned on by a woman that you simply pulled her panties aside and stuck your dick in?

lol

Well, wife's panties have frequently this kind of effect:

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I love this thread and have read and re-read it so many times! Just the thought of her pussy being filled by another man is so erotic, and this pic really gets me hot. I am imagining Catholic Wife coming home from a date, her pussy filled with cum and panties sticky with cum. You have a camera in hand as she enters the door, and you proceed to lift up her dress and peel down her panties, revealing a huge pool of cum in the crotch of her panties. I can imagine hearing your rapid breathing as you 'discover' the cum and begin to ask her about her date. Mmm...so hot. Now excuse me for a minute while I.... 😈

 

[coastalkid]

We started with just a loose agreement and it sort of worked as we know each other well enough not to push too far. But, how far is far enough and how far is too far? We decided we needed guidelines after our therapist asked what our rules are and we couldn't really define it. We felt like idiots in that moment. So we sat down and figured out a few things.

First and foremost the marriage is above everything. We both agree that we value our relationship and seek to preserve it above all else. We have one goal and that is safe erotic fun to augment our sex life.

I don't know if hard and fast rules exactly work for us as neither of us do well with rules, we'd break em just to break em. This is also a dynamic thing that sort of evolves over time. Comfort levels change and maybe you get a bit more adventurous. Instead of rules we decided on safe words that we can use at any time, either before in planning stages or in the moment.

We have three basic safe words that are also code words.

First is "feelings", this is a code yellow safe word. It means one of us has certain emotions that need to be looked at. Its a slow down and talk things over safe word. This is a "talk" safe word. Discussion can resolve the issue and get us back to the goal. Loosely it means slow down.

Second is "adjust", this is a code orange safe word. It means something has come up that we need to alter, something that is happening or planned to happen. One of us is not comfortable with it and we need to adjust to bring comfort back to things. This is an "action" safe word. Actions are required beyond just talking to get us back to the goal but if actions are agreed on we can adjust and proceed. loosely it means a stop is needed before proceeding.

Third is "nuclear", this is a code red safe word. This means we cannot proceed, it is a deal breaker, pull the plug. There is not a way to get it back on track in the given situation. This is an action to stop all action safe word. One or both us us cannot proceed, no way to talk or adjust action to maintain our objective, things need to cease and we separate ourselves from the situation to avoid any further issues. Loosely it means pull a u turn. As ominous as it sounds it does not have to be reserved. If it needs to be used either of us can initiate it and the other will respect and comply.

The idea of the safe words is we may not both evolve at the same rate or at all and this keeps things fun but safe and respectful for both of us.

This is a CRAZY hobby/fetish/lifestyle, whatever you want to call it. Its like we are playing with fire for fun like in the circus but even the circus has some guidelines. Not saying this will work for everyone but it is what we have in place now and so far it actually has helped. Nobody has to sit around with a frown not saying anything or remain awake at night unable to bring up a topic that is bothering them.

That's funny, "even the circus has some guidelines"! It makes sense! If your intent is to "augment" your sex life, some guidelines at least give you both an idea of potential difficulties to be aware of. That in turn means you've had a discussion at a non-sexual time to honestly address things.

I understand that "words" mean different things to different people. The word "rule" obviously is more of a dare than it is a "guideline" for you both apparently. I'm curious as to the actual event of your initial discussion. What prompted that first discussion that resulted in "safe words"? Have you ever had to use or were you ever tempted to use your "safe word"? I would think any time any "safe word" is ever used it would promote a discussion later. Has that ever happened, like an after action review?

I also have to imagine that the whole "safe word" has come about more for your sanity then it is for her need to stop whatever she's up to. I would also guess that "in the moment" she's full on into it and not as likely to be aware things are going off the rails and therefore less likely to use a safe word. For that matter has she ever used a "safe word"? Has she ever used a "safe word" when she thought it was needed for you, like she felt like whatever was going on was too much for you?

I realize too that you guys have been at it for a while now and as you said, "...we may not both evolve at the same rate or at all and this keeps things fun but safe and respectful for both of us." Have you felt like your wife is beginning to understand what you get out of the situation. I'm sure she fully understands what she gets out of the deal. Has that evolved any?

 

[Alpheus11B]

Hola

You sir are very naughty and curious. But I like that

I think I was asked before or my husband and I have answered a little about this in other threads.

Okay. I have a male companion who is like a boyfriend or a friend that I see often. True. to be honest we meet up almost every time my husband is away to work which happens every month.

We are seeing each other for almost 4 years now. he is an older man than me and a little older than my husband. He has the serious type but is also a good talk. He is divorced and lives alone. He is a naughty man when it comes to sex. I will refer to him as B now.

Both my husband and I have grown to trust him a lot. I would not say that he and my husband are like best buddies friends but they are like good colleagues with a same interest in common which is having sex with me, talking about it and exposing myself in photos and videos.

To be honest most of the photos where I am exposed having sex are taken by him at his house or in hotels. My husband takes more photos of me while I pose just naked. maybe if it were not because of him then my husband and I would not be so much active here on the site for example.

When my husband travels I got used to look for him and arrange to see B so soon. We both have some time flexibility and look after each other to have sex. Now we do it at his place very often.

I usually stay overnight and we have quite a goof time. B uses the opportunity to take photos and videos just as my husband asked him to do or as we both agreed. When we are free from commitments sometimes I go back and stay another night at his place and we do it again and again. then we take the opportunity to do it our way and do not take photos leaving my husband "in the dark" just imagining what happened.

When I have commitments with other men I end up seeing B only once or twice while my husband is away, but when we're relaxed or more inspired with each other we see each other several times. we go out too but I keep it discreet. When we go to the movies we go in separately, for example. Or we choose more secluded restaurants. Although over time I confess that I have become a little more open or carefree about it.

We have already taken some short trips together! He is like a friend and boyfriend in the sexual sense. We both avoid letting it get too sentimental or personal.

I understood that your question was like that. or you want the more erotic details?

Ah. Ok. Photo. we love this one

**kisses

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So damn sexy.

 

[Phun Times 727]

That's funny, "even the circus has some guidelines"! It makes sense! If your intent is to "augment" your sex life, some guidelines at least give you both an idea of potential difficulties to be aware of. That in turn means you've had a discussion at a non-sexual time to honestly address things.

I understand that "words" mean different things to different people. The word "rule" obviously is more of a dare than it is a "guideline" for you both apparently. I'm curious as to the actual event of your initial discussion. What prompted that first discussion that resulted in "safe words"? Have you ever had to use or were you ever tempted to use your "safe word"? I would think any time any "safe word" is ever used it would promote a discussion later. Has that ever happened, like an after action review?

I also have to imagine that the whole "safe word" has come about more for your sanity then it is for her need to stop whatever she's up to. I would also guess that "in the moment" she's full on into it and not as likely to be aware things are going off the rails and therefore less likely to use a safe word. For that matter has she ever used a "safe word"? Has she ever used a "safe word" when she thought it was needed for you, like she felt like whatever was going on was too much for you?

I realize too that you guys have been at it for a while now and as you said, "...we may not both evolve at the same rate or at all and this keeps things fun but safe and respectful for both of us." Have you felt like your wife is beginning to understand what you get out of the situation. I'm sure she fully understands what she gets out of the deal. Has that evolved any?

Thankfully our code words have been needed very little but it goes both ways. It isn't just a throttle for me to slow down what she does, in fact it hasn't been needed for that at all. This is not so much a safe word during sex as there really hasn't been anything off limits with what we have done. It has been more situational then anything. We went out with her friend one night to a swingers club, it was horrible and my wife was not feeling it in the least. She made it quite clear I needed to end the evening at that moment and get her the hell out of there and away from the people she encountered. I didn't question a thing. We talked about it after the fact and she just was not feeling the vibe of the people. To be honest, showing up there with 2 women was like throwing meat into the lions cage. Ratio of men to women was 15 to 1 at best. The point being she just hit the nuclear button and we were headed home in minutes. I have used the adjust option. Boyfriend tried to talk her into matching tattoos. She is an adult woman and can certainly get a new tattoo but we have spent nearly 15K removing some old ones she did not want any longer so this seemed like a bad idea. My thought was get one that is not like his name or something that is not tied to this moment etc. If he gets the same one its fine. She agreed and it didn't happen.

We have more of less used the code words in a discussion of future events vs real time. I think when you are dealing with a long term relationship the likeliness of a physical or sexual situation being off limits is much less. We have done all the positions and not encountered need for a safe word in the bedroom. We have also done solo visits, overnights and travel etc. These are a lot of the off limit areas for people exploring something new but over time that is much less of a concern.

As we explore new things however it is a framework for how we plan and how we decide what we can do and what we don't want to consider and what is a maybe if done carefully.

 

[Catholic_Wife]

I love this thread and have read and re-read it so many times! Just the thought of her pussy being filled by another man is so erotic, and this pic really gets me hot. I am imagining Catholic Wife coming home from a date, her pussy filled with cum and panties sticky with cum. You have a camera in hand as she enters the door, and you proceed to lift up her dress and peel down her panties, revealing a huge pool of cum in the crotch of her panties. I can imagine hearing your rapid breathing as you 'discover' the cum and begin to ask her about her date. Mmm...so hot. Now excuse me for a minute while I.... 😈

Thank you! That was inspiring!

Glad you like what we had to share! Perhaps we have something almost like you described here:

 

[Catholic_Wife]

How would you differ in sex? If I may ask

Like you and your husband in ways or attitudes in sex?

Maybe you were asking (and waiting) a direct response from wife. She might add to this later.

For me (husband) the core differences in sex may come from the fact that wife is more of a 'doer' and I am more of a 'thinker' - which is funny, because to other matters in life we function as the opposite.

If she is walking with a man and the guy suddenly and nicely asks her for a blowjob or a quick fuck, wife will get turned on and immediately would try to find a way to do so. I remember an ocassion when we were still dating and spending a sunday in her parent's home. it was like 3:00 PM and I suggested that it would be great if we could find a way to do some fucking and immediately she smiled, runned upstairs and changed into a dress, took my hands and leaded me to a small trees park nearby. Yes, she managed to lift her dress, no panties of course, and rightaway offered her bald pussy for me to fuck in a hurry,

Not a single living being that knows her from daily duties, family or friendly social circles could imagine she is the kind of woman able to do such a daring thing.

I love this kind of sensations and fetishes but I would never be so spontaneous like she is. That is also why wife enjoys the company from other men which are able to vent her spontaneity and the risks she likes to face.

 

[coroner7]

Thank you! That was inspiring!

Glad you like what we had to share! Perhaps we have something almost like you described here:

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Mmm delicious!!

 

[gorace38]

Thank you! That was inspiring!

Glad you like what we had to share! Perhaps we have something almost like you described here:

View attachment 2478391

I would love to clean up your beautiful pussy.

 

[Phun Times 727]

Maybe you were asking (and waiting) a direct response from wife. She might add to this later.

For me (husband) the core differences in sex may come from the fact that wife is more of a 'doer' and I am more of a 'thinker' - which is funny, because to other matters in life we function as the opposite.

If she is walking with a man and the guy suddenly and nicely asks her for a blowjob or a quick fuck, wife will get turned on and immediately would try to find a way to do so. I remember an ocassion when we were still dating and spending a sunday in her parent's home. it was like 3:00 PM and I suggested that it would be great if we could find a way to do some fucking and immediately she smiled, runned upstairs and changed into a dress, took my hands and leaded me to a small trees park nearby. Yes, she managed to lift her dress, no panties of course, and rightaway offered her bald pussy for me to fuck in a hurry,

Not a single living being that knows her from daily duties, family or friendly social circles could imagine she is the kind of woman able to do such a daring thing.

I love this kind of sensations and fetishes but I would never be so spontaneous like she is. That is also why wife enjoys the company from other men which are able to vent her spontaneity and the risks she likes to face.

Some interesting insight in the husband and wife roles here. Oddly I think our dynamic started opposite yours, with more adventurous husband and more reserved wife. As things have progressed my wife is moving more towards the center with a bit more adventure. I feel like she has become more aware of her sexual "power" over men and has learned to embrace that as she becomes more comfortable in that role.. Myself ,her husband I likely have moved a bit more towards a middle of the road stance vs where I started that was a bit of the jump right in type thing. Maybe it is part of the evolution.