A BIG step has been taken!

[wormwood]

I was recently talking with my wife and she agreed that I could give her number out to select men for her to start talking with other guys and perhaps arranging a date. Her only condition being that they were not too young. My take on that is that she would want someone who is financially independant and can legally enter a drinkng establishment. Her other condition is NO MARRIED MEN.
My condition would be similar with the added condition that they be local, upfront and honest, willing to share info and pics of themselves and sane. This is NOT a guarantee of sex. So many guys on here go right to "when can i fuck her" and aren't willing to put in the time and effort to convince a woman that they can be a good choice for a loving wife to take the first step towards cucking her hubby. You're going to have to put up with being screened by me, then the wife. You should plan on making me comfortable and then start all over with her. This would involve plenty of correspondence as well as texting and conversations before she consents to a meeting for coffee or a cocktail. The plan is that she feels comfortable with you to consent to a first date without the promise of sex. It may happen or it may not, but if she goes out with you on a first date and she agrees to a second, you"re probably in.
Message me here and let's get the ball rolling. If I get the sense that you haven't read this completely and understand the conditions going in, then I will most likely ignore you. Good luck.

 

[wormwood]

I guess I should give my location, even though with a little check of my postings you could find out.
We're located in SE Wisconsin

 

[JaknSuz]

Have you and your wife ever been to a strip club together? Suz and I used to do that some, before we dove headfirst into this lifestyle. She was always friendly and flirty with guys sitting near us, which opened her up to fucking other men. Once, after the club closed, we went to breakfast with a few guys we'd met at the titty bar. She sat between me and one of the guys at a big round table in the pancake house, and he fingered her right there when nobody was watching. Made her cum twice! After that night, when she saw that I enjoyed watching her play with another man, she was all revved up to go all out with it, and the rest is history. I hope things work out well for you two, like it did for us, and you have lots of fun! 👍

 

[Ht805cpl]

I was recently talking with my wife and she agreed that I could give her number out to select men for her to start talking with other guys and perhaps arranging a date. Her only condition being that they were not too young. My take on that is that she would want someone who is financially independant and can legally enter a drinkng establishment. Her other condition is NO MARRIED MEN.
My condition would be similar with the added condition that they be local, upfront and honest, willing to share info and pics of themselves and sane. This is NOT a guarantee of sex. So many guys on here go right to "when can i fuck her" and aren't willing to put in the time and effort to convince a woman that they can be a good choice for a loving wife to take the first step towards cucking her hubby. You're going to have to put up with being screened by me, then the wife. You should plan on making me comfortable and then start all over with her. This would involve plenty of correspondence as well as texting and conversations before she consents to a meeting for coffee or a cocktail. The plan is that she feels comfortable with you to consent to a first date without the promise of sex. It may happen or it may not, but if she goes out with you on a first date and she agrees to a second, you"re probably in.
Message me here and let's get the ball rolling. If I get the sense that you haven't read this completely and understand the conditions going in, then I will most likely ignore you. Good luck.

Wow sounds like you are very close to making this happen, my or our advice, is try some swing sites, we don’t feel this is a great site for meeting others to hook up with, there are many that let you private chat, text or message without giving your personal info, you can choose which photos you wish to share and they work great for intros and screening men out to play, we always screen men especially single ones very carefully to n sure everyone is compatible. Wishing you the best, and if you want more info message us here maybe we can give a few tips or refer a couple sites work well for us. Enjoy and proceed with caution always. 💋

 

[wormwood]

A lot has happened between the time I posted this and now. Not much of it good. I became very ill shortly after starting this thread and was then sent on a rollercoaster of medical diagnosis and treatment. After being given a somewhat clean bill of health, we indulged again in our fantasies and fetishes. She has admitted to me that even if we found someone through here, or anywhere else, that she probably wouldn't go through with it due to her fears and anxiety.
She acknowledges that she's interested, might entertain the thought of doing it, but as far as setting anything up she doesn't think she can go through with it.

 

[Ht805cpl]

A lot has happened between the time I posted this and now. Not much of it good. I became very ill shortly after starting this thread and was then sent on a rollercoaster of medical diagnosis and treatment. After being given a somewhat clean bill of health, we indulged again in our fantasies and fetishes. She has admitted to me that even if we found someone through here, or anywhere else, that she probably wouldn't go through with it due to her fears and anxiety.
She acknowledges that she's interested, might entertain the thought of doing it, but as far as setting anything up she doesn't think she can go through with it.

Well it is not for everyone, and does not always work out the way one would want. Sometimes the fantasy is hotter than the actual deed! So enjoy the fantasy and discussion together, if or when it ever happens I’m sure it will be good but for now be happy you have a loving wife who is honest enough to tell you see don’t think she can do it. Hope your health is ok or you are recovering.

 

[wormwood]

Well it is not for everyone, and does not always work out the way one would want. Sometimes the fantasy is hotter than the actual deed! So enjoy the fantasy and discussion together, if or when it ever happens I’m sure it will be good but for now be happy you have a loving wife who is honest enough to tell you see don’t think she can do it. Hope your health is ok or you are recovering.

She still gets very aroused when we talk about it and I think it could happen if it was organic. Within the last month she was at the casino and was chatted up by an attractive black man who said he was in town from Houston. She told me that she got so flustered by it that she told him she spent the last of her money and had to leave. Just yesterday I asked her if she saw him again if she would approach him and offer him a drink as a sort of apology for leaving so abruptly. She said that she would really want to say yes but she knows she would probably chicken out. I think if the guy had good game and put her at ease, she may at least trade digits with him. I've done my best to give her some coping techniques for her to relax in those situations.
Thanks for your concerns about my health. I'm in the clear for right now but the protocol is to go back every three months for testing. Sometimes I think it's all a scam to get you to spend all your insurance deductibles. Insurance companies, am I right?

 

[Ht805cpl]

She still gets very aroused when we talk about it and I think it could happen if it was organic. Within the last month she was at the casino and was chatted up by an attractive black man who said he was in town from Houston. She told me that she got so flustered by it that she told him she spent the last of her money and had to leave. Just yesterday I asked her if she saw him again if she would approach him and offer him a drink as a sort of apology for leaving so abruptly. She said that she would really want to say yes but she knows she would probably chicken out. I think if the guy had good game and put her at ease, she may at least trade digits with him. I've done my best to give her some coping techniques for her to relax in those situations.
Thanks for your concerns about my health. I'm in the clear for right now but the protocol is to go back every three months for testing. Sometimes I think it's all a scam to get you to spend all your insurance deductibles. Insurance companies, am I right?

well I agree with the insurance and medical issues, they always keep you coming back, long after the problem is gone. As for her, yes being encouraging is the best thing you can do. I was thinking you two were looking to have a man join you together as a couple not her alone, but either way it can be fun. Maybe she will feel more safe or willing if you are with her, for me I know I do. I used to go to casino all the time by myself on the bus, and I kept seeing the same black guy always there and he always talk to me, and he would joke with me, and compliment me, and soon he start making comments how sexy I was, and things, well I would dress sexy and tease him and one day he said I could get us a room if you’d like, I smiled and said really, what kind of girl do you think I am, he said I think you are very sexy and I want to find out about you, he knew I was married, and I told him, but I’m married, he said that’s ok, and I smiled and said where is the room, he looked at me, said come on we can go get one and that was that, he rent a room and we spent the rest of the afternoon and evening together in a casino hotel! That was the start of a long time of meeting him at the casino weekly! I hope you wife can make the plunge to try it!

 

[johnpsmith19852]

Wow sounds like you are very close to making this happen, my or our advice, is try some swing sites, we don’t feel this is a great site for meeting others to hook up with, there are many that let you private chat, text or message without giving your personal info, you can choose which photos you wish to share and they work great for intros and screening men out to play, we always screen men especially single ones very carefully to n sure everyone is compatible. Wishing you the best, and if you want more info message us here maybe we can give a few tips or refer a couple sites work well for us. Enjoy and proceed with caution always. 💋

Single man here searching for advice/wisdom. What are some of these sites you're referring to for single men that are better to approach married couples or stag/vixen couples looking to share the wife? Thanks, John.