One of my favorite way to mindscrew my husband is to make him decide what he wants. I mix it up to keep him guessing, sometimes I let him out of his cage and let him orgasm and stay out until we play again. Other times I'll unlock him and make him decide between fucking me but pulling out and ruining his own orgasm and I'll let him stay out or he can jerk himself off to orgasm then lock himself back up. Recently a new one I pulled on him was I ruined him three times into a shot glass and his options were 1) do nothing with it and lock back up, 2) he could drink it and then I'd let him orgasm, or 3) he could make me drink it but first I was going to lock him up and peg him until he has an orgasm. He chose option 2. If there are other "choices" games I'd love to spring them on him. He's been locked up since Sunday so just about ready to pop.