Wife got the call from the doctor this morning and he says she is in very good health if she did want to have another baby!!!!! So we now have to have a long talk with her boyfriend about it! He was the one that brought up having a baby with her but all three of us has to be 110% sure about this! It a HUGE step in a relationship between all three of us!
Her tubes are tied so if its a go she will have to go in to the hospital to have the tubable reversal.
Ok so if this is a go n she gets pregnant, you said he will move in with you, as " What " the father of the child?
Where does that put " You " ?
What will your role be , and please don't say your gonna be the slave to do all that stuff and be de-masculated and all the usual " Cuck " talk , cause it's a baby not a sex fantasy.
Who will be changing the diapers , who will feed it , who will do all the baby stuff , who will be on the birth certificate, who will pay for healthcare,
Will all 3 of you live like a Poly unit will You add a baby to the mix since she is healthy and will get her tubes untied , seems only fair that you get one too . Me personally if I were in your shoes that would be a requirement for this to happen and mine comes first .
I'm all for my wife having sex if she wants it but I don't think for a second that I would do the same as you, cause she said yes to marrying ME and if she wants a baby from someone else I would draw the line right there .
Only In extreminating situation would I stay and that's ify because yes she can have a baby from someone else, BUT respect our marriage first and foremost, like I said mine comes 1st if she were to show up pregnant and it's NOT mine 1st at very least then it's divorce.
I don't play on that level
Think about how this will change you n her n him , cause if she has his baby first your not needed or wanted and you moving him in is you moving yourself out .
And she is proving that to you as she grows , her body will be foreign to you and baby asli pushing you out .
Say goodbye to your wife soon to be ex-wife