that is natural to think about it when the relationship between wife and lover is serious and he has good genes. My wife is Chinese, we got a mix baby and i told her for the second one she can change the recipe and why not have a mini her (100% Asian). she said to me : i know that you will love my baby no matter who did it... she is right. I love the idea of her falling pregnant and tell me : honey, guess what? i did the test... i know i will kiss her and share her happiness. Seeing her everyday getting a round belly knowing what she did is the most exciting thing to share. I will kiss her belly every morning when she wakes up, make her feel overwhelmed with love. I know i will love make sex with her both laying on the side not to hurt her baby, softly penetrating her, my hand caressing her belly, her milky boobs, kissing her ... nothingwouldbe better