I have a big box full of toys, vibrators and dildos don’t really do much to enhance play. I do have a giant double ended rubbery ‘doubledong’ that is incredibly fat, it feels quite nice to insert it while playing with my clit as it feels nice when squeezing my pelvic floor muscles as I cum.
Everyone is unique, but I don’t think you need to worry about most women preferring toys over the real thing. My toys are more for putting on a show for the men in my life or occasionally when I have gone a long time without any good sex.
Like most women, I rarely cum during penetration, I need clit stimulation to cum, so the only toy I have that I actually get out regularly is a toy that sucks my clit, I often have 2 or 3 lovely O’s using that while hubby is fast asleep next to me.