Wife gave a go and started looking for her first bull - so excited

[drakebelg]

So after having our first serious conversation about this a full year ago and probably about 20 talks during the year my wife f54 said yesterday she definetly wants to start searching for a bull.

She told me she has started checking out men from our dayto day life in a sexual way and it turns her on. I explained that this is a good example of how just telling me this turns me on. I also told her that she clearly flirted with our bank manager and I loved it. She said she found him hot. HMMM..... I love that she is doing this also when I am there.

• She will do the searching for a bull online and keep her eyes open in her day to day life. My involvment will be just helping with app accounts setup etc..
• She will talk about it with a female friend who is single but is sexually active via online dating with multiple FWB's.
• For the first date she would like to meet him for a coffee or a drink with me nearby.
• For a second date I will drop her off and wait nearby in the car or bar for a few hours.
• She will use a condom but let him cum on her body so I can can wash her off.
• We agreed that she needs to give me some information on how it went and how it felt.
• We will have sex afterwards.
• Maybe down the road she might ask me to watch.

This morning she told me to massage her and then fuck her with a big cock sleeve to 2 intense orgasms. I was then allowed to cum in her (15 seconds later lol).
She then told me that she made a tinder account last night, just after our talk and is checking out SDC as another option.

It's very hot that she's getting so comfortable with the idea. A year ago she was pissed with me when I first suggested it. But now she calmly says things like:
-yeah of course I'm going to find some guys to fuck me,
-lol, if my family knew that I was on tinder when they were messaging me,
-yeah, I'm just going to have a casual talk with my girlfriend (that i often see) about fucking other guys.......
-he must use a condom but you won't be able to clean the creampie. Do you mind? Hmm, he can just cum on my body.

 

[Ht805cpl]

So after having our first serious conversation about this a full year ago and probably about 20 talks during the year my wife f54 said yesterday she definetly wants to start searching for a bull.

She told me she has started checking out men from our dayto day life in a sexual way and it turns her on. I explained that this is a good example of how just telling me this turns me on. I also told her that she clearly flirted with our bank manager and I loved it. She said she found him hot. HMMM..... I love that she is doing this also when I am there.

• She will do the searching for a bull online and keep her eyes open in her day to day life. My involvment will be just helping with app accounts setup etc..
• She will talk about it with a female friend who is single but is sexually active via online dating with multiple FWB's.
• For the first date she would like to meet him for a coffee or a drink with me nearby.
• For a second date I will drop her off and wait nearby in the car or bar for a few hours.
• She will use a condom but let him cum on her body so I can can wash her off.
• We agreed that she needs to give me some information on how it went and how it felt.
• We will have sex afterwards.
• Maybe down the road she might ask me to watch.

This morning she told me to massage her and then fuck her with a big cock sleeve to 2 intense orgasms. I was then allowed to cum in her (15 seconds later lol).
She then told me that she made a tinder account last night, just after our talk and is checking out SDC as another option.

It's very hot that she's getting so comfortable with the idea. A year ago she was pissed with me when I first suggested it. But now she calmly says things like:
-yeah of course I'm going to find some guys to fuck me,
-lol, if my family knew that I was on tinder when they were messaging me,
-yeah, I'm just going to have a casual talk with my girlfriend (that i often see) about fucking other guys.......
-he must use a condom but you won't be able to clean the creampie. Do you mind? Hmm, he can just cum on my body.

I hope you are ready for an experience that is going to change both of your lives. Just know once you open the door there may be no turning back, she may come to enjoy other men so much you may become secondary to her sexually! Good luck and know it is a different world you are about to enter!

 

[drakebelg]

Thanks, I am aware of the points you make. I am also aware that actually living it will be very different to the fantasy with ups and downs and many challenges.

In the last year we have experimented with chastity, orgasm denial (45days) and FLR, while contemplating going to a cuckold relationship. We've settled in a natural way for a soft and not strict FLR.

She is in general the boss and especially about sex. She gets plenty of foot massages and I am not allowed to initiate sex. What we do during that session is totally up to her. For example yesterday she said she wanted a foot rub, back massage and then sex with a big vibrating strapon.

 

[sexyhotwife52]

So after having our first serious conversation about this a full year ago and probably about 20 talks during the year my wife f54 said yesterday she definetly wants to start searching for a bull.

She told me she has started checking out men from our dayto day life in a sexual way and it turns her on. I explained that this is a good example of how just telling me this turns me on. I also told her that she clearly flirted with our bank manager and I loved it. She said she found him hot. HMMM..... I love that she is doing this also when I am there.

• She will do the searching for a bull online and keep her eyes open in her day to day life. My involvment will be just helping with app accounts setup etc..
• She will talk about it with a female friend who is single but is sexually active via online dating with multiple FWB's.
• For the first date she would like to meet him for a coffee or a drink with me nearby.
• For a second date I will drop her off and wait nearby in the car or bar for a few hours.
• She will use a condom but let him cum on her body so I can can wash her off.
• We agreed that she needs to give me some information on how it went and how it felt.
• We will have sex afterwards.
• Maybe down the road she might ask me to watch.

This morning she told me to massage her and then fuck her with a big cock sleeve to 2 intense orgasms. I was then allowed to cum in her (15 seconds later lol).
She then told me that she made a tinder account last night, just after our talk and is checking out SDC as another option.

It's very hot that she's getting so comfortable with the idea. A year ago she was pissed with me when I first suggested it. But now she calmly says things like:
-yeah of course I'm going to find some guys to fuck me,
-lol, if my family knew that I was on tinder when they were messaging me,
-yeah, I'm just going to have a casual talk with my girlfriend (that i often see) about fucking other guys.......
-he must use a condom but you won't be able to clean the creampie. Do you mind? Hmm, he can just cum on my body.

Hmmm; sounds a lot like my wife and I. Though she brought up being with another guy a few years ago. she asked if that was a fantasy of mine. So in a year we’ve only talked about her having boyfriends and did the usual incorporating it into our sex life. Now she has a gym trainer and another guy at the gym she texts back and forth with. He is a tall fit black guy maybe 30 years old (she’s 54 and looks 40s if that. This week she had me buy her 3 pieces of lingerie because she’s self conscious about her abdominal scars. I think one day i’m going to come home and she will tell me she fucked her boyfriend while I was at work or something. I hope i’m ready; It’s definitely something your ego runs from… don’t let this guy fuck your wife! Anyway how that I know she wants another dick i’ve decided to let her be free sexually. She’s had alot of sexual experiences prior to meeting me at 41 so this may have always been in store for her. We have always had a great sex life yet since considering this hotwife lifestyle there are times I can honestly say was the most passionate sex i’ve ever had. I just keep telling myself it’s strictly physical for them to have sex, she will gain self confidence and her and I will grow closer together. Plus it’s fun when she acts so shocked that I am okay with her fuckin some guy with a big dick

 

[Ht805cpl]

Hmmm; sounds a lot like my wife and I. Though she brought up being with another guy a few years ago. she asked if that was a fantasy of mine. So in a year we’ve only talked about her having boyfriends and did the usual incorporating it into our sex life. Now she has a gym trainer and another guy at the gym she texts back and forth with. He is a tall fit black guy maybe 30 years old (she’s 54 and looks 40s if that. This week she had me buy her 3 pieces of lingerie because she’s self conscious about her abdominal scars. I think one day i’m going to come home and she will tell me she fucked her boyfriend while I was at work or something. I hope i’m ready; It’s definitely something your ego runs from… don’t let this guy fuck your wife! Anyway how that I know she wants another dick i’ve decided to let her be free sexually. She’s had alot of sexual experiences prior to meeting me at 41 so this may have always been in store for her. We have always had a great sex life yet since considering this hotwife lifestyle there are times I can honestly say was the most passionate sex i’ve ever had. I just keep telling myself it’s strictly physical for them to have sex, she will gain self confidence and her and I will grow closer together. Plus it’s fun when she acts so shocked that I am okay with her fuckin some guy with a big dick

As long as she or both of you can separate sex and love it can work, the problems arise when she gets attached to someone or starts to have feelings for him, rather than just having sex and loving you! It can work, it has for us, we are not in a cuckold relationship but we both have sex with others together and alone! Truly hope you two fork it all out, nothing hotter than watching her make love to another man knowing she is mine and when they are finished I get to be last and enjoy her for my wife!

 

[drakebelg]

As long as she or both of you can separate sex and love it can work, the problems arise when she gets attached to someone or starts to have feelings for him, rather than just having sex and loving you! It can work, it has for us, we are not in a cuckold relationship but we both have sex with others together and alone! Truly hope you two fork it all out, nothing hotter than watching her make love to another man knowing she is mine and when they are finished I get to be last and enjoy her for my wife!

Yes, we have talked about staying alert to any feelings stuff and ways to reduce the risk. Fixed boyfriends or poly is not what we are looking for.

 

[sexyhotwife52]

As long as she or both of you can separate sex and love it can work, the problems arise when she gets attached to someone or starts to have feelings for him, rather than just having sex and loving you! It can work, it has for us, we are not in a cuckold relationship but we both have sex with others together and alone! Truly hope you two fork it all out, nothing hotter than watching her make love to another man knowing she is mine and when they are finished I get to be last and enjoy her for my wife!

thankfully she has worked as high priced escort in the past for a select few different men; so she has always said she can separate sex into its own entity