Soon after we married I was finally conditioned by her now my young wife and my then best friend into this lifestyle, she would say i probably was always inclined in this direction and the divulging of private conversions with my best friend confirmed this to her. It is what she wanted too as i saw one evening.
What it also taught me was what a poor inexperienced lover it i was. In my mind justification for her wanting an experienced man who knew which buttons to press and how to give her multiple orgasms.
Over the years, she wanted me to be involved but watching an experienced lover then following, led to disappointment and humiliation.
I have often been asked why as a 6ft 3 muscular, dominant alpha male i wanted another man to fuck my wife, the answer is simple: its what we BOTH want and enjoy.