J has this opinion exactly......we tried "swinging" and me watching her with other guys, but she HATED that. She LOVED the sex, just not being my personal pron star. And she gets a HUGE sensual kick out of "cheating" and having the guys think she's doing this because her desire for sex exceeds mine and her Lovers provide what she doesn't get sexually at home. Not for everyone, but it works for us. CW and J