When my hotwife has a steady playmate I notice she takes her gym today's more serious, dresses more promiscuous daily, doesn't sweat the small stuff around the house that can often lead to stupid arguements, gets her eye lashes and nails done routinely, is constantly horny and we go from 1-2x a week to constantly fucking all hours of the day. Net-net I call it a win-win for us. She has more confidence and feels sexy as a 50-yr old, gets variety, and our sex life is back to how it was in the early days - Fireworks!