So for us, I'm the main earner. My wife does have a job but doesn't make near what I do. I pay most of the bills and usually give her money for anything extra she may need. I let her use her money on whatever she wants. When it comes to her meet ups with bulls etc. I pay for her to get her nails, hair done, makeup, outfits etc. Anything she may need to look good for her bulls comes out of my pocket.