Our plan was to keep the home "our Home" and our sex life separate. We also did not want people showing up at odd times uninvited. We thought that if we had a separate apartment then we would not have to deal with noisy neighbors or jealous girlfriends and husbands (since I stayed away from single women and only met with married). It worked at first (as far as we knew) but the wife would get on her phone and start texting her bull and before long, She was having him sneak by for a quickie in the living room then in the bedroom. So she let the cat out of the bag and the apartment kinda went empty for a while.I've done plenty of motels, hotels, cars and a few planes and boats but never a train. Adult theaters, video stores and swing clubs have also been on the menu. We've always had a strict no play at home rule so we've maintained an apartment near our home for years where we can host and I regularly spend time with bulls in their home when possible.