When you need to talk someone out of it

[Demented_Donny]

So usually i condone couples trying the lifestyle, but i'm in a situation.

A friend of mine got ...... and told me about his fantasy about his wife having sex with other men not knowing I have been doing this for a while. He said he was thinking about telling her, and seeing if she would have sex with a guy that is a mutual friend. He says he knows she likes him so she would probably say yes.

this is the problem. My friend has been in numerous relationships where the girlfriend left him or cheated on him and each time he gets depressed, and even at one time suicidal. I don't think he can handle it, and thinks it is going to be like a porno with a happy ending. I told him maybe he should reconsider his fantasy because he didn't react well to previous relationship where they cheated on him. he just told me he isn't a pussy and can handle it.

I'm afraid if he goes through with it it will regret it, and will hit him harder than he thinks.

suggestions? ideas?

 

[WiseOld]

Interesting situation, which allowed an old memory resurface. I was about 36 and I had just come out of the gym shower. A massively jacked black guy, whom I had talked to a few times before, eyed my wet cock for that extra millisecond that gave away the game. (You can instantly tell when someone looks at your naked cock for split second too long.) He came up to me and asked if he could talk to me later, outside. I said sure and mentally prepared my "Thanks of the compliment, but I am not gay" speech.

At the same time, I was surprised, as he had always struck me as 110% hetro and as a complete horn-dog, with a strong preference Latina women and big asses. (Many have argued that George Orwell must have been secretly gay. The killer rejoinder is that throughout his life he exhibited a strong preference for women with huge asses, something no gay guy ever did, as they preferred slender, boy-like figures on their women.)

Once outside, he was super nervous and I recommended that we go to the donut shop down the street, which was a regular hangout for many of the bulked up guys. Fortunately, the shop was almost empty. We sat in a corner and he told me his story.

He had been pressuring his wife to try an FFM threesome, which she was totally opposed to happening. He argued with her, telling her that it just wasn't because he wanted a new pussy to fuck, that in fact he was willing to do an MMF threesome instead, as he simply sought some extra spice in their sex life. She ultimately agreed to the MMF threesome, but with the stipulation that the guy must be white, as she had heard that white guys were often much better and considerate lovers than black guys! So, he invited me to join him and his wife in their bed.

I have fucked two black women. One was only half black, but talked black, as if she were overcompensating for her half white heritage; I met her at a party and she instantly fell for me. The other was entirely black, but came from a very affluent black family and was white on the inside as it is possible to be; so, I had nothing against fucking a black woman; in fact, I knew I would love it. No, I had problems with him, as I viewed him being too weak for such an encounter—a crazy thing to say about a massively bulked black guy with 20-inch biceps.

I did to him what police departments do new recruits; I gave him an extreme interview. I asked if he thought he could handle seeing his wife being fucked by another man. He claimed he could. "What if she not only likes t, but loves it, orgasms like crazy, and goes sexually senseless," I asked him. He could handle it, he claimed that he could. I asked if he was sure, as he had no idea what deep sexual fantasies his wife might harbor. He asked for examples. I told that she might get off on the idea of being a black slave 200 years ago with a mean white master who regularly raped her; what if she yells out while I am fucking her, "Please, Master, please fuck your poor little black slave with your big white cock."

He looked sick and exhausted, but I kept telling him similarly distressing scenarios. At the end, he looked as if he had been just beaten up with a two-by-four.

I ended with the observation that I had to decline his generous offer, as I knew that his heart was not into it, that he only wanted to use the MMF threesomes as a steppingstone to FFM threesomes. He agreed with me and decided that he couldn't go through with it.

Maybe, you could do the same with your friend.

 

[Demented_Donny]

Interesting situation, which allowed an old memory resurface. I was about 36 and I had just come out of the gym shower. A massively jacked black guy, whom I had talked to a few times before, eyed my wet cock for that extra millisecond that gave away the game. (You can instantly tell when someone looks at your naked cock for split second too long.) He came up to me and asked if he could talk to me later, outside. I said sure and mentally prepared my "Thanks of the compliment, but I am not gay" speech.

At the same time, I was surprised, as he had always struck me as 110% hetro and as a complete horn-dog, with a strong preference Latina women and big asses. (Many have argued that George Orwell must have been secretly gay. The killer rejoinder is that throughout his life he exhibited a strong preference for women with huge asses, something no gay guy ever did, as they preferred slender, boy-like figures on their women.)

Once outside, he was super nervous and I recommended that we go to the donut shop down the street, which was a regular hangout for many of the bulked up guys. Fortunately, the shop was almost empty. We sat in a corner and he told me his story.

He had been pressuring his wife to try an FFM threesome, which she was totally opposed to happening. He argued with her, telling her that it just wasn't because he wanted a new pussy to fuck, that in fact he was willing to do an MMF threesome instead, as he simply sought some extra spice in their sex life. She ultimately agreed to the MMF threesome, but with the stipulation that the guy must be white, as she had heard that white guys were often much better and considerate lovers than black guys! So, he invited me to join him and his wife in their bed.

I have fucked two black women. One was only half black, but talked black, as if she were overcompensating for her half white heritage; I met her at a party and she instantly fell for me. The other was entirely black, but came from a very affluent black family and was white on the inside as it is possible to be; so, I had nothing against fucking a black woman; in fact, I knew I would love it. No, I had problems with him, as I viewed him being too weak for such an encounter—a crazy thing to say about a massively bulked black guy with 20-inch biceps.

I did to him what police departments do new recruits; I gave him an extreme interview. I asked if he thought he could handle seeing his wife being fucked by another man. He claimed he could. "What if she not only likes t, but loves it, orgasms like crazy, and goes sexually senseless," I asked him. He could handle it, he claimed that he could. I asked if he was sure, as he had no idea what deep sexual fantasies his wife might harbor. He asked for examples. I told that she might get off on the idea of being a black slave 200 years ago with a mean white master who regularly raped her; what if she yells out while I am fucking her, "Please, Master, please fuck your poor little black slave with your big white cock."

He looked sick and exhausted, but I kept telling him similarly distressing scenarios. At the end, he looked as if he had been just beaten up with a two-by-four.

I ended with the observation that I had to decline his generous offer, as I knew that his heart was not into it, that he only wanted to use the MMF threesomes as a steppingstone to FFM threesomes. He agreed with me and decided that he couldn't go through with it.

Maybe, you could do the same with your friend.

this actually may work. thanks