When I dildo fuck myself with a good size dildo I always cum really hard, is it the same for your wife???

No, she doesn't really use them and can't cum like she does witea guy ramming her cunt. Otherwise we wouldn't be in this lifestyle. We have discussed it and she says that she needs a man between her legs humping her to feel like a real woman.... or doing her doggy. It's the whole experience of full sex that she needs