Like I said in others .
Depends on how your able to handle it all.
She's pregnant but not yours .
Let's go down the list .
Doctors appointments cost time and money .
Who pays that ?
Then the birth , who is in with her in delivery room?
Who gets to name the kid .
The kid now needs health insurance, who pays for that , who's name is on the birth certificate as father .
Who is the one who raises the kid .
Who say what, where the kid goes to school. Who dictates what school it goes to who pays for that school .
Who is called dad , that kid deserves to be able to call someone dad not two men .
How will that kid deal with peers in school finding out he is from another man like this .
Who picks the kid up from school .who buys the clothes .what if the bio father wants to bully you into his life and kid doesn't want him to.
Who does the kid listen to.
They say one ...... will cost upwards of 350 grand to raise from birth to adult hood , do you make that kind of money for someone else kid .
It's a lot to think about, so think carefully.
Then who donates blood if said kid is in need .
What about doctors knowing.
What about others knowing are you capable of being known about this way .
No this is not an adoption.
This is wife giving birth to another man's baby while husband knows this .
Can you handle all the fallout from others not in this lifestyle or family not in this lifestyle.
What if your job finds out and takes that kid off insurance.
Or doesn't find you in good terms with the company policy and fires you .
It's a lot more than just kink yo think about.
And 99% focus only on the kink part .
The bull can say he can stay out all night but you have rules not to so who does kid listen to.
Bull says he doesn't have to go to school but you say he does ,
Bull say he doesn't have to get a job , but you want him to
So don't think the kink part only , think long term cause kids ARE long term
